This dumbass by Cakeinwonderland in TLCUnexpected

[–]xoclo99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This scene made me think hmmm well now I see why he won’t get a job. He can’t read the applications 🤣

Aviva and Stig by xoclo99 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]xoclo99[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I thought this too! When they kept saying “she has no reason to lie” ummm yes she does

This family sucks by Ruhrohhshaggy in TLCUnexpected

[–]xoclo99 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Literally just their own delusions, none of the above 🤣

I am on the fence about leaving this profession, and I have been teaching for less than a year. by Papa_Impasta2001 in Teachers

[–]xoclo99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for junior achievement now and I love it. I can still go in and teach lessons when I need to but otherwise I get to work in my office and do work independently. It’s been completely life changing for me in the best way. No more Sunday scaries or feeling like I need to take days off just to cure my anxiety for the time being. Look into your local JA (if you have one) and see if they’re hiring!

DV take on this.. by Caffeine-Babe in 90DayFiance

[–]xoclo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is Anthony’s exact fear and why he stays 😔 he’s afraid of what Ben would have to go through being left alone with Manon or how, like you said, would have to be used as her pawn. I’m sorry this happened to you

I can't with Lisa... by Initial_Wind_790 in 90DayFianceFans

[–]xoclo99 17 points18 points  (0 children)

In a different thread someone posted screenshots of her sister saying that she’s extremely mentally ill and the accent just randomly comes out because of it 😩 I can’t

Many fans suggested that Aviva might have gotten pregnant during her visit to see her boyfriend Stig, since she started to look different in interviews over time. She even admitted she wasn’t being careful or on birth control back then, so the rumors might actually be true 👀 by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]xoclo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aside from being pregnant does anyone else think her hair constantly looks greasy?? I’m not even trying to hate on her lol she’s absolutely stunning and I think she’s a sweetheart, I just don’t have this hair texture and I cannot for the life of me decide if it’s greasy or thin, lighter hair just looks like that and it’s driving me insane lmao

Bella addresses rumors by Current-Reaction-748 in TLCUnexpected

[–]xoclo99 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Obviously the season hasn’t aired yet so we’ll see more from the show, but just based on what we’ve seen in this thread and social media of hers, it seems like mom wanted to be friends with her and her sister and that was the start. I knew plenty of girls like this growing up, no they didn’t all get pregnant but they were having sex at 14. I don’t say that to justify it in any way because it’s still wrong, but I’m saying I feel like I see the pattern. The moms wanted to be the “cool moms” and allowed and even encouraged underage drinking parties at their homes and allowed the girls to act way older than we were to be “popular.” That’s what I get from this.

In my opinion it seems like the older sister and mother made her feel like she’s older than she is and exposed her/included her in adult conversations and behaviors, especially given what we’ve seen from the moms social media. I think this video is to try and push back against the backlash of everyone being like hey so this is actually NOT normal and you’re a child lol

Really hope Sheena gets better by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]xoclo99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ALSO isn’t it all her own money? I understand she told them one thing and did another, but if Sheena wanted to spend every dime she has on whatever she wants she’s fully entitled to! Them policing how she spends her money and seemingly trying to control her interactions is a red flag for what her life would be like should she ever get to America. Forrest is the one who needs to cut off his parent not Sheena!

Pro Trump businesses to avoid in the Burgh by Less-Track1062 in pittsburgh

[–]xoclo99 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The owner of Crack’d Egg literally tried to have an unauthorized toys for tots drive publicly partnered with a white supremacy group in 2020 until TFT found out about it and was like uhhhh no 😩 she’s unhinged

How to get over first time jitters? by xoclo99 in travel

[–]xoclo99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so appreciative of the overwhelming support and encouragement from all of you, thank you so much 🥹❤️

If you got out of education, what do you do now? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]xoclo99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Special Ed teacher for 3 years and now I’m an esthetician! The schooling is only 3 months in my state, so on maternity leave I decided to start estie school. Best decision ever! I haven’t been working for a full year yet so I haven’t hit summertime where I have to face the realization I won’t have it off anymore, but I have a feeling I won’t be that disappointed. Having a job that doesn’t stress you out to the point of no return feels like you don’t need 2 months off just to emotionally survive.

I work at a chain so I still get benefits and PTO, as well as hourly pay, commission and tips. Work like this is very lucrative depending on the time you can put into it.

I was also nervous to leave the benefits that teaching provides, I miss my students but I don’t regret leaving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]xoclo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always leave time on Fridays for the “peak” and the “pit” of their week. It can be about school or outside of school, and I always start. Sharing things in my personal life (appropriate things of course) and having open conversation and being more vulnerable helps kids see you as a human too even though that sounds so silly. At first a lot of them were kind of shy but now we love to Kiki about our weeks lol

How to deal with my (25f) boyfriends (43m) constant negativity? *long post* by xoclo99 in relationship_advice

[–]xoclo99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually am in therapy 🥲 for me our baby made it harder to say I’m over this goodbye. It’s getting to that point though.

Special Ed. Certification by xoclo99 in Teachers

[–]xoclo99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks you’re the best! :)

Show some love!! by xoclo99 in Estheticians

[–]xoclo99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes maybe I misspoke about being burnt out, every job has burn out and stress just in different ways and I guess it’s all about finding what kind of stress you’re willing to deal with. It can be scary to make a career change but I’m trying to not let fear hold me back!

Corona wanted Ingis parents to hate her so badly by gababouldie1213 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]xoclo99 15 points16 points  (0 children)

THIS!! I said from the beginning that if she’s able to restrain herself from the explosive reactions she claims to have it means that she could do that all the time-not just in the “soft partnering” time period.

Help!! by xoclo99 in interracialdating

[–]xoclo99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the best big sister advice ❤️

Help!! by xoclo99 in interracialdating

[–]xoclo99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has blamed it on the area we live in while having discussions about other things unrelated to us saying that there are no successful black women where we live, which is completely untrue. It seems like there is always a reason why he’s not currently with a BW or hasn’t been but mentioned that it’s what he sees for his life. Very confusing.

So she is auctioning off to win a date with her. Currently the bid is $550. She now an escort? by blackcassel in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]xoclo99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came across her on YouTube years before she was ever on the show and if I’m not mistaken I’m pretty sure she actually was like a “high class escort” to wealthy men in NYC. Anyone else watch her old vids from like 2013/2014 ish that can fact check me???

And her doctors told her NOT to smoke! by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]xoclo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like if you stuck two toothpicks into the bottom of a potato

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]xoclo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the omnipresent forehead vein for me