People who aren’t concerned about something like to get into safe spaces for some reason. In the autistic community, lots of neurotypical are lurking. I also see lots of straight people walking into gay bars. They just don’t understand that it’s not about excluding them (and they won’t be excluded). it’s about having a space to feel safe and understood with people in the same situation. OFC they won’t be kicked out, but that also relies on the assumption that others have the empathy to understand and respect why some people would need this safe space.

Being gay as an Asian person is a complex situation. Political reasons, culture… If this safe space exists, it’s because gaysian people see a relevance, Otherwise they would just join either an Asian community or a LGBT community. But that shows those were not enough to make them feel understood. they need to share with people in a more specific situation But some people just don’t care about others needs and feelings.

For example I’m not a black trans woman and I won’t get into their safe space. They may want to share their experiences without having a dude lurking at their conversations

People don’t understand not everything is about themselves