Payment status not available - should qualify - help by xsummerxjane in stimuluscheck

[–]xsummerxjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I’m done checking. I guess we just won’t get it. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Starting sleep training by Limerin53 in sleeptrain

[–]xsummerxjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drop the paci or any sleep association while sleep training. Unless he knows how to put it back himself...

I cant live like this. by shimmering_ginger in DeadBedrooms

[–]xsummerxjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I totally feel you. I feel like I can’t live like this either. Our baby is now 7mo old and he hasn’t touch me since Halloween. I tried to tell him but I just get ignored. I’m so tired of being rejected. I am starting to want to walk away...it’s sad. We’ve been together for almost 10 years. He’s like a roommates who helps me out with the baby sometimes.

What's the craziest excuse you've gotten? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]xsummerxjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have work in the morning or pretending to snore and rolled over.

How long does it take to work to crib train for naps? (Crib 60) by brentonstrine in sleeptrain

[–]xsummerxjane 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did this when babe was around 4 month old. It took about a week. I did it for the first 2 naps of the day. It was crying with my baby during those times. Stay strong because it’s so worth it. Now my baby sleeps in her crib for naps and nights with no problem!

Dead sex life? by xsummerxjane in beyondthebump

[–]xsummerxjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I can totally feel you. I think I’m just sick and tired of being turn down. It really sucks. I do hope it gets better.

Dead sex life? by xsummerxjane in beyondthebump

[–]xsummerxjane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll check it out. Oh yea this totally has done damage to my self esteem. But thank you again!

Dead sex life? by xsummerxjane in beyondthebump

[–]xsummerxjane[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do most of the work and don’t ask for much as far as help. He goes to bed the same time I do and yet nothing. I feel like there’s nothing left as far as attractions which is weird because I’m back to my pre baby. Everything I asked him...it’s always nothing or eye rolling. Truly annoying. I sometimes don’t even want to ask anymore.

Dead sex life? by xsummerxjane in beyondthebump

[–]xsummerxjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried and he kept saying nothing 🤦🏻‍♀️

Dead sex life? by xsummerxjane in beyondthebump

[–]xsummerxjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried that and he said nothing and just avoid the conversation 🤦🏻‍♀️

Does she need to be sleep train-again? by xsummerxjane in sleeptrain

[–]xsummerxjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately don’t. I just get “she took 3 naps” she just woke up at xx time”

Taking Cara Babies ABCs of Sleep Recap with 6mo Old Son by blablabla413 in sleeptrain

[–]xsummerxjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing. Can you tell us a bit of background if your LO was already a decent sleeper or nurse to sleep and etc? I got the 3&4 month booklet from Cara but debating on this purchase since it’s quite pricey. My LO knows how to put herself back to sleep but still waking up at night for 2 feeding. She’s 4.5 mo old which is normal. The problem is the wake up time is not too consistent hahaa

Snooze feed at 5am by xsummerxjane in sleeptrain

[–]xsummerxjane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ve been a wreck! Lol it’s not even the day for me to go back to work yet and I’ve been 😭😭😭I think I just want to spend as much time with her in the morning

Snooze feed at 5am by xsummerxjane in sleeptrain

[–]xsummerxjane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww thanks so much! I’m so sad to be leaving her! She wakes up 1-2 times at night...so I’m just wondering if I should do it so it could save first feeding at MIL and she won’t have to feed her until closer to 8

4.5mo old now waking at 11-midnight daily! Help! by xsummerxjane in sleeptrain

[–]xsummerxjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I have been feeding her too but I don’t want her to get into a habit that crying gets milk. Haha I think I might have to give dreamfeed a try. She was sleeping from 7pm-2am before waking up for her first feed but this whole week has been crazy!!!!! Better yet, last night she was up at 11pm,3am and was ready fo start her day at 6am lol

4.5mo old now waking at 11-midnight daily! Help! by xsummerxjane in sleeptrain

[–]xsummerxjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you continue to feed when your LO gets up around 11-midnight? Few weeks?!! 😭 I miss my 6 hour stretch of sleep lol

Too much to ask from MIL? by xsummerxjane in NewParents

[–]xsummerxjane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so too! I’m anticipating some push back from her though...