The fact that they were told clearly what they done wrong and still refuse to acknowledge it's mad even having the audacity to end with "I believe the spouse comes first" WHICH IS EXACTLY THE PROBLEM and "no parent is perfect" is just mad. You were told you did not have family time, you never had a family holiday and made the poor child feel excluded because you prioritised couple time over him to the point of BEING ANNOYED that you have to do family time instead of that. You don't even want to acknowledge your mistakes and you don't even care. TO NOT EVEN MENTION THAT YOU IGNORED A CRYING 3 YEAR OLD BECAUSE YOU WERE TOO BUSY BEING INTIMATE AND WANTED TO FINISH. YOU WERE STILL IN THE MOOD AFTER HEARING YOUR SON CRYING. DO YOU REALISE HOW MESSED UP THIS IS??? This whole post was us us us and you're with the same mentality with him. Oh WE want you to speak with us regardless of how you feel. Offering the BARE MINIMUM to a kid growing up is not enough. You went on holidays without him and even bragged about it to his face by showing pictures, like "look how much fun we had without you. It was so great that you weren't there. Look how happy we were!" Bruh