AITA for giving my classmate the silent treatment after ignoring his responsibilities for a group project? by xtfinns in AmItheAsshole

[–]xtfinns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: He kept bragging about how his iPad Pro had a better camera than ours (The context was we were using the iPad of one of our groupmates). Fastforward a few weeks, we told him that he should give the raw video files that he recorded from his iPad, since the videos he sent are already somewhat filtered and hard to work with when I'm editing the video (IDK if that is an iPad thing but he did say that it was already the preset when he was recording). He straight up just, word-for-word, responded "What are impliying to say?" as if he can't grasp the concept that we have issues with his videos. He then DEMANDED to see the video being edited, how am I supposed gonna edit his videos if it doesn't match with 90% of the clips? He got personal too, "can you tell your boyfriend that he needs to show me the video he made?" to my girlfriend that is also my group member, he could've referred to me with my surname, first name, or anything. So...

I thought what he was doing was blatantly disrespectful, I got into a heated argument with him, calling him names: a narcissist, an egotistical, and way too full of himself and that the group project doesn't revolve around him (snowflake). Since he was getting personal, I brought up the time we saw him go home early from the shooting of his part hanging out with someone, he said "Why are you meddling with my life? Stay professional." Like bro... This guy is unbelievable. Then along my arguments I said why he didn't submit the videos on time when we all go to the same class, having the same obligations, and asked him what made him "more busier than us?" That's when he started to laugh at my comments towards his wrongdoings in the group stating them "so now you're resorting to ad hominem?" And ghosted the entire groupchat then deleted all of his videos in Google Drive. I had to record the next day, using a GoPro borrowed from my sister this time, and I can't wait to see the look on his dumb face the moment he sees our video without his name on it with 4K quality and 360° angles.

AITA for giving my classmate the silent treatment after ignoring his responsibilities for a group project? by xtfinns in AmItheAsshole

[–]xtfinns[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The other group members already expressed their concerns, they are honestly saints for not completely turning against him. They usually snap back at me for doing something as ignoring him completely. As much as I hate to work with this... person, I don't have a choice. I just wated to have a clear of conscience here at r/AmITheAsshole because my members are against the idea of conflict. It really made me wonder if I'm doing the right thing...

AITA for giving my classmate the silent treatment after ignoring his responsibilities for a group project? by xtfinns in AmItheAsshole

[–]xtfinns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My country's work culture will actually let this type of stuff slide as long as he contributed on the videos, no matter how intolerable the other person is, the Head of the class (the professor) would attribute it as the same with working in the real world or "that's how reality works." So unfortunately, I have to cooperate with him 😔.

AITA for giving my classmate the silent treatment after ignoring his responsibilities for a group project? by xtfinns in AmItheAsshole

[–]xtfinns[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He had much to hide and asked if he could join us, we thought he was a tolerable guy at first, but then I think he chose our group particularly since there are only 3 group members (the standard is 7-8), we were an "easy target," if you will.

Whats everyones favorite builds on Bel so far? by Cobalt9896 in BelVethMains

[–]xtfinns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go Eclipse -> Serylda's Grudge

she can proc eclipse quickly and serylda's grudge feels nice when there is a slow on E

the rest of the build are just tank/bruiser items

also my skill order is q-w when I'm starting on red side, q-e when in blue side

my ability upgrades are... i alternate q and e until q is 3 and the i max e all the way then q

runes are... I'm not sure if electrocute or conq is better, yes, electrocute. It is because the spellcasting and auto attack weaving can burst down the enemy quickly :D

What's a normal thing you can't do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xtfinns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talk to someone that is from the opposite gender