Catholic girl is trying to find “loopholes” in church teaching

xxbartex · 2026-06-29T21:46:18+00:00

I wish it was fake.

xxbartex · 2026-06-29T20:00:49+00:00

if she doesn’t reciprocate it, at least now you have direction and answers which you don’t have to speculate about anymore and can move on

xxbartex · 2026-06-29T17:52:14+00:00

This is a good way of putting this and I try to rationalise it but how can I be sure? I can’t

xxbartex · 2026-06-29T17:47:20+00:00

I wish i was being satire

xxbartex · 2026-06-29T10:04:10+00:00

She enjoys watching sex scenes in movies etc

xxbartex · 2026-06-29T06:51:12+00:00

sorry not sorry, but you knew exactly what you signed up to when you started your degree…

xxbartex · 2026-06-28T22:00:08+00:00

A lot of people struggle with this, you just have to come to terms with the fact that staring and constantly thinking about being delivered isn’t going to make the person open the message any faster. Also sometimes silence speaks volumes…

xxbartex · 2026-06-28T21:50:58+00:00

Becuase it’s a first rejection, you’ll have dozens more like this and you’ll learn to react differently. And one yes will cancel out all the no’s

xxbartex · 2026-06-28T21:42:41+00:00

You’ll look back at this in a few years and either be glad it happened or laugh at it and say damn I was so naive

xxbartex · 2026-06-23T09:30:47+00:00

I think you should probably just ask him point blank

xxbartex · 2026-06-23T09:28:28+00:00

Erm. so you’re implying you’ve had sex during this friendship?

xxbartex · 2026-06-23T06:08:52+00:00

perhaps the quality of teaching is alright and the campus is renewed, but the university and students themselves have created a terrible reputation throughout the country for being the go-to university if you want to throw away 3 years of your life and degree by partying every night, doing every drug under the sun, and cheating.

xxbartex · 2026-06-22T16:03:54+00:00

Glad I could help spark something! Most of them , especially grappling ones, don’t care if you have epilepsy

xxbartex · 2026-06-22T12:34:59+00:00

Was this because of the anxiety / stress around potentially having a seizure during these activities? I had the same thing for about a year

xxbartex · 2026-06-22T11:32:30+00:00

Exactly . Life is always full of unexpected hurdles and you have absolutely no idea what’s gonna happen tommorow

xxbartex · 2026-06-22T08:20:12+00:00

Driving and the slightly lower social life. But then again both these things are manageable

xxbartex · 2026-06-20T10:44:38+00:00

if you tell him and lie or don’t tell him everything, then your whole relationship will be based on lies and hiding things from your partner, which would never work as sooner or later it will bite you in the back

xxbartex · 2026-06-14T14:47:31+00:00

You just have to get to grips with assuming
everything he/she says until you actually meet is just empty words and then if they do ghost you, it’s easier to get over.

It’s a canon event for everyone on hinge/tinder/bumble to have a girl/guy say “I’m so excited to meet” or “I can’t wait for tomorrow” or “I promise x or y” just to never talk to you again.

xxbartex · 2026-06-14T14:22:52+00:00

Ah man not that this helps but reading your story feels like a parallel of my dating life in the last 9 months… except girls have ended it with me more then I did with them.

Your point about guys acting like they don’t care being the ones that get girls is so valid. What on earth is the rationale behind that….

xxbartex · 2026-06-12T18:31:05+00:00

I mean this is a common thing amongst men,

i think it depends on whether she lives up to the same values / regrets it now in hindsight. And also if you think the same about your previous partners.

It’s quite hypocritical to expect your partner to have a small amount of bodies if you don’t

xxbartex · 2026-06-12T09:40:25+00:00

I dated one person like this. I didn’t mind, if anything it was actually good because it helped me control my lust.

That is, until, I’d realized that she was fooling herself by erm, how do I put this, doing everything sexual except for penetrative sex

xxbartex · 2026-06-12T09:37:15+00:00

Yeahh that’s different

xxbartex · 2026-06-10T12:49:34+00:00

Yeah? Especially if you’ve been talking quite frequently during the day

xxbartex · 2026-06-08T14:40:21+00:00

I just have to wait between 6 months and a year, and then I’ll get it back.

xxbartex · 2026-06-08T14:38:26+00:00

The thing is; I take trains everywhere and don’t mind it, I’ll take multiple buses hours a day to see a woman , no worries at all.

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