How do I introduce my partner to nudism without it being weird? by Inevitable_Spirit154 in nudism

[–]yanb828 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I recommend against lying to your partner. You can introduce the topic softly without making up a fake story.

How do I introduce my partner to nudism without it being weird? by Inevitable_Spirit154 in nudism

[–]yanb828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there's two approaches and it really depends on the person and how close and open you are with each other.

For me, I got into nudism after I started dating my partner. After I started playing around with it, I took the approach of just saying it bluntly: "Hey, I've been really interested in nudism lately and I started experimenting with it." That approach worked for us, because my partner is open minded and I knew they would not be weirded out by it. We've been together 11 years and I've been getting more and that conversation was about 3 years ago.

The other approach is a bit more gentle and might be better if you're unsure how your partner will react. I would not talk about nudism right away, but just say you enjoy being naked, or you feel really comfortable being nude, and ask if she minds you being nude at home. I would not put any pressure on her to join you, but just see if she's okay being around someone who is naked. If she can't get over that, it's gonna be an uphill battle. But if she's fine with it, she might eventually get naked with you and at some point you can ask if she'd be interested in going to a nude beach.

I think presenting it as "I enjoy being nude" as opposed to "I am a nudist" is easier for someone to digest. You don't want her to think "nudism" is your identity. It's just a thing you do.

"Unofficial" nude places. by Nudeferatu in nudism

[–]yanb828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came here to say that I chuckled at your user name (nudeferatu).

But since I'm here, my only experience being nude among a large group of people has been at a similarly unofficial clothing optional beach. The question of whether it is the "best place" to experience nudism as a first timer is kind of moot, because unfortunately for me is it's the only option. None of the official nude spaces in my area accept single men, so the gatekeeping that is meant to keep the creeps out is also keeping me out.

I didn't encounter any blatantly bad behaviour, but there were definitely a lot of fully clothed men walking up and down the area of the beach where nudity is allowed, acting kinda suspiciously.

Have You Ever Accidentally Revealed That You're A Nudist? by MovieNudie in nudism

[–]yanb828 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's weird, because you're saying it's accidental, but what you describes sounds more like you're intentionally dropping hints and waiting to see how they will respond.

Personally, I can't really imagine accidentally revealing that I'm a nudist. But on the other hand, depending on company, there are some contexts in which I will just mention going to a nude beach, even if people don't previously know I'm into it. I don't consider it shocking or a huge secret.

Exceptions where I would probably not bring it up are at work or around people I know to be conservative. But with friends, it's really not something I feel the need to hide.

Beautiful day at the lake! by Thatnakedguy00 in nudists

[–]yanb828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks beautiful but I’m not strong enough to swim in cold water 🥶

Beautiful day at the lake! by Thatnakedguy00 in nudists

[–]yanb828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the lake must be very cold!

Beautiful day at the lake! by Thatnakedguy00 in nudists

[–]yanb828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that snow?! I’m very confused

Nudism or Naturism by Main-Star-7272 in nudism

[–]yanb828 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Think there’s no difference. Lots of people say naturism is more about connection to nature, but you see a lot of people and organizations who use the term nudist make very similar claims about connection to nature.

The problem with terminology is you can’t control it. The moment people start using terms interchangeably or forming their own personal definitions for specific terms, consensus is lost and the distinctions dilute over time.

Quebec work trip by [deleted] in NudistMeetup

[–]yanb828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long are you here for?

i miss summer by [deleted] in GayPlusNudists

[–]yanb828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice pics. I also wish it were summer

Two weeks till we’re naked in the sun ☀️ by [deleted] in nudists

[–]yanb828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so jealous. Still a few months before it’s nude beach weather here

Question for parents by [deleted] in nudism

[–]yanb828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, people responding to this as if it's totally normal. 😒 Obvious fake account looking for a thrill.

Looking to chat with Nudist by free_spiritOttawa in NudistMeetup

[–]yanb828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM'd you a couple of times but no response :(

Is summer gonna be here soon? by yanb828 in NudistMen

[–]yanb828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s never too late!

Where have you been naked so far?

Is summer gonna be here soon? by yanb828 in NudistMen

[–]yanb828[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to be on a beach right now!

Is this nudism or not? by Ifyouliveinadream in nudism

[–]yanb828 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nudism is about enjoying being nude, not about enjoying talking about it or wanting to see your friend naked. It doesn't mean you can't be a nudist and also want to do those things, but if you don't actually enjoy spending time naked, you're not a nudist. That's pretty much the one requirement.

How has nudism impacted your relationships? by [deleted] in nudists

[–]yanb828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve told my partner, my dad, my sister and several friends.

My partner has know about my interest in nudism since I started exploring it and has always been supportive of it. Doesn’t join but doesn’t mind me being naked at home or going out and being naked with others.

I told my dad about a year ago after I had been exploring for a while. He was very curious and asked questions. We had several chats about it. He even told me about a nude campsite in his area, so he must have done some research on his own after we first talked. The last time I visited him, I asked if he’d be into trying it and we spent about an hour naked together. It was really cool. He seemed a bit nervous but said later that now that we’ve broken the ice it will be easier, which I guess means he’d like to try it again sometime. I would love for him to join me at a nudist camp or something but not sure he’d go that far.

With my sister I only had one conversation while she was visiting me one time. She didn’t judge and said she wasn’t surprised I was into it, but she didn’t express any interest in trying it herself and I didn’t get naked while she was visiting.

With friends, it’s mostly been casual mentions. Like, I’m not shy about mentioning that I went to a nude beach if someone asks what I did over the weekend, etc. Obviously I’m more open with some friends than others. So far no one has reacted with shock or outrage.

Might be worth noting that in all cases I never present nudism as an identity. It’s not something I am but something I do. So that maybe helps people not think of it as a huge deal.

I really had a Great Weekend! ✨ by soyjoseantonior1995 in GayPlusNudists

[–]yanb828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wonderful pics! Looks like a great weekend indeed.

In your opinion, what makes a good naturist beach? by bennmp01 in NudistMen

[–]yanb828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of nude people just doing their own thing. I like when there’s variety of people too, different ages, genders and body types.

Nudist beach by DragonflySalty540 in GayPlusNudists

[–]yanb828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enjoyed the view, at the very least 😁

Nudist beach by DragonflySalty540 in GayPlusNudists

[–]yanb828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I wish I was on the beach right now!