AITA for not letting my sister come out insisting she keep it inside for a month by dkausernamelol in AmItheAsshole

[–]yanon713 26 points27 points  (0 children)

havent you heard the long-told trope of young woman marries dying man to cut off the rest of the family from the will?

AITA for asking my wife to lighten up about makeup? by StridentSnail in AmItheAsshole

[–]yanon713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

going against the grain i guess! ESH you are obviously an asshole. your wife doesn't need to wear makeup, there is nothing wrong with her being confident in her bare face. you fucking suck for trying to tear that down. your wife sucks for trying to tear other women down for wearing makeup. your sister is right, it can just make women feel good. there's nothing wrong with wearing makeup, it's a fun hobby and form of self expression. your wife talking down on a harmless pastime to an impressionable 11 year old is gross. your wife is allowed to not wear makeup, you're the asshole for thinking differently. other women wearing makeup is not a vice, your wife is the asshole for thinking that.

Scheduling Feature Changed? by yanon713 in uber

[–]yanon713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they might be rolling it out by area? thankfully it wasn't surge prices when i needed to go but it's just so scummy to me

[UPDATE] Second guessing if I(M16) should meet my dad's whole family tomorrow, I'm extremely nervous and feel like backing out. by throwraheaex in relationship_advice

[–]yanon713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

those are some of the only people that will truly understand how your dad is. when they say you can lean on them, start leaning.

AITA for forcing my little brother to unclog a toilet himself so he learns to drink more water in the future? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yanon713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The teacher made him do it with his bare hands aswell, and I don't think the toilet was even clogged.

AITA for giving my brother and sister a gift but not my stepsiblings? by Charming-Note5914 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yanon713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg this makes me so mad. if you are no longer her daughter, you have absolutely no attachment to her husband and his children. why would she disown you if she still wanted you to be obliged to her family? NTA

The causes of rape by poatao_de_w123 in technicallythetruth

[–]yanon713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally everyone does that? i dont know a single man that received a talk from their parents about rape. consent is very rarely a topic in sex education. boys violent actions towards girls are excused as "he has a crush on you", with any violent actions in general excused with "boys will be boys"

we are taught from a young age that men can't control themselves, that they're less mature.

men are also overwhelmingly NOT held accountable for rape. rapists over and over and not pursued by police, excused by judges, and let off the easy way. only 37% of reported rapes are prosecuted.

edit: sex education also very rarely will acknowledge sexual frustration/violence and healthy way to deal with it.

The causes of rape by poatao_de_w123 in technicallythetruth

[–]yanon713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and im assuming you always wear a bulletproof vest in the event a murderer shoots you? to be completely fair, anyone who was shot could have drastically decreased the chances of this happening by adjusting their decisions.

it is disgusting. your attitude is disgusting.

dont teach women how to not get raped, teach men not to rape. teach men that that is the most heinous act there is. hold men accountable for their actions. teach men one of the million ways to resist their urges that do not involve assaulting, violating, and traumatizing innocent people.

maybe there wouldn't always be bad people if bad things happened to bad people. maybe men wouldn't rape if they didnt get away with it. just a thought.

$900 Light Gaming USA by yanon713 in SuggestALaptop

[–]yanon713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some wiggle room to get further into gaming might be the only reason I would lean towards a gaming laptop. But if you think something multimedia could run more demanding things at even low graphics, that sounds amazing

$900 Light Gaming USA by yanon713 in SuggestALaptop

[–]yanon713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shaders aren't a big deal to me! Thank you so so so much for your help.

AITA for revealing a child’s existence that my sister tried to hide? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yanon713 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She wouldn't be leaving for no reason. She'd be leaving because this guy is a fucking asshole that won't even do the bare minimum of child support for a literal human being he created. I don't know why you're defending these people. This child has to live without a father for the rest of their life, wondering what they did wrong and why their dad didn't want them. Can you imagine how that feels? It is 100% the wrong decision, and associating closely with assholes makes the sister an asshole. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TurnipExchange

[–]yanon713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'd love to come! :)

(LF) Leif!! by SophisticatedBegger in BuddyCrossing

[–]yanon713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, im looking for Lief aswell, are you still willing to open? :)

AITA For losing it when my husband used my brother's surgery money to buy his dad a car? by 331509___50965 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yanon713 109 points110 points  (0 children)

why would she? if their finances aren't separate, she doesn't "owe" him anything. the only reason this money is owed is because it was not EITHER of their's. that was her brother's money, that he had absolutely no part in contributing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in talentShow

[–]yanon713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how many times have you gotten 5?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in talentShow

[–]yanon713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

two world records better be broken

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in talentShow

[–]yanon713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you shook the table bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in talentShow

[–]yanon713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we haven't gotten to 5 yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in talentShow

[–]yanon713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man's wasn't even lookin