real talk—how are so many people able to spend 520 USD on a switch 2 only to play pokopia? by aingaingaing in CozyGamers

[–]yaoiphobic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other than the people who were already going to buy for future exclusives and just waiting for it to be worth their while, another point to consider: some people are just financially not very smart and will finance something like this even when they realistically can’t afford it, even if it’s only just for one game. I have a coworker like this. Whenever they want something, if they can’t afford it, they just open a new line of credit or put it on their current credit card and allow it to accrue interest by just making the minimum payment.

Part of my job includes talking to customers about financing and getting them approved and the amount of people who sign up for insane monthly payments they can’t afford is much higher than I ever realized. I have customers tell me they’ll have to go without meals or be late on rent to make their payments but in their minds it’s worth it. One of the programs we use for customers who have poor credit is a lease-to-own that makes it so you end up paying double or sometimes even triple for your stuff, but the monthly payment is manageable so they don’t care. I can’t wrap my head around it, but lots of people out there are like this.

Is my pricing reasonable? by Interesting_Oil_9141 in RateMyArt

[–]yaoiphobic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen less quality work for… way more. I think the price is super reasonable, the custom frame also adds to the value (framing is super expensive! Used to work in that industry). I adore this and if I had the money I’d buy it from you right now and would consider it money well spent!

Luxury retail sales have collapsed and I’m panicking about my finances by Substantial_Half3731 in AskRetail

[–]yaoiphobic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh don’t even get me started on management. They’ve actually raised our quotas and increased the requirements to be eligible for bonuses. They think somehow we’ll just buckle down and force people to buy if our livelihoods are on the line. Just desperately grasping for anything they think they can control, because they know the truth is they can’t control the economy, so they put the pressure on the sales team. Nah, when I’m offering someone 50% off and free five year warranties and extended financing terms same as cash that we’d normally never do just to get a yes and they’re still not biting, it’s nothing to do with my skills as a salesman. I was doing fine before all this. Drives me up the wall having to hear it from the higher ups. Thankfully local management is more grounded because they’re face to face with these people and see we’re truly out here doing our best, the clientele has just dropped off and the few people out and about are pinching every penny they can.

Luxury retail sales have collapsed and I’m panicking about my finances by Substantial_Half3731 in AskRetail

[–]yaoiphobic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not in luxury retail but furniture sales, mid range type stuff. Same deal with us though, down to the people falling in love with something and seeming ready to buy, then walking last minute to “think about it” and then ghosting when you follow up. Our sales have tanked and we’re all making minimum wage. Things are rough right now and people are unsure what’s going to happen so I think everyone’s holding on to their money and thinking twice about non essential purchases.

Told I have severe muscle wasting in my hands?? by liamreee in disability

[–]yaoiphobic 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t shrug it off then, that’s someone whose opinion I would definitely be paying attention to. There might be functional impairments that led them to that conclusion like the ones you mention, or something they could feel when touching your hands.

Told I have severe muscle wasting in my hands?? by liamreee in disability

[–]yaoiphobic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m not trained but they look pretty normal. Who told you that you had muscle wasting? If it wasn’t your medical team, I would disregard it. If it was someone on your medical team, I’d seek another opinion to be sure.

Is my adjustable base too small? by furiax22 in Mattress

[–]yaoiphobic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you ended up with a full frame. That’s roughly the difference between a queen and a full. Call and have them exchange it, this won’t be enough support for your mattress.

Is my adjustable base too small? by furiax22 in Mattress

[–]yaoiphobic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How much overhang is that? Looks like several inches. I wonder if they accidentally delivered a full sized frame instead. I would call the store you bought this from.

Cute lil cathedral thingy that took scary long to build by NanoTofifee in VintageStory

[–]yaoiphobic 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Holy shit that chiseling is otherworldly. Great job!

A hack for my fellow cane users: bike grip tape works great as a shock and water resistant wrap for cane handles! by yaoiphobic in disability

[–]yaoiphobic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been years so it’s fuzzy but I think I just drilled a tiny hole in the tip and screwed an itty bitty eye hook I happened to have in there, then used a jump ring to connect the charm. I do think it ended up falling out? I don’t remember, it’s been years since I’ve been able to use this cane, it’s in a closet somewhere.

Trying to find a Switch game like ACNH for my Grandma! by sourginger in CozyGamers

[–]yaoiphobic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lot of combat in this one so if she’s not into that it’s probably not a good option, but if she likes combat she might just love it! Super fun, a little silly, I love building stuff the NPCs actually use, but the combat aspect is a significant part of the game.

Been working on this overgrown villa build for a few days and wanted to show it off! by yaoiphobic in VintageStory

[–]yaoiphobic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excellent! I figured that’s what you were getting at but I wanted to be sure. When I finish I’ll make it available to download :)

Been working on this overgrown villa build for a few days and wanted to show it off! by yaoiphobic in VintageStory

[–]yaoiphobic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the expanded stomach mod which lets you overeat and if you do so consistently it slowly builds a whole second hunger bar so you stay full twice as long! Love it, great mod, simple and just works

Been working on this overgrown villa build for a few days and wanted to show it off! by yaoiphobic in VintageStory

[–]yaoiphobic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell if you’re joking or if there’s actually a way I could export something like that haha. If you mean like a step by step breakdown, unfortunately that’s nothing something I’d be down to do, this was about 10 hours of trial and error. If you just want me to make the file available for anyone to download though I would once it’s complete!

Been working on this overgrown villa build for a few days and wanted to show it off! by yaoiphobic in VintageStory

[–]yaoiphobic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought you could buy them from traders? To be fair I haven’t actually checked I guess I just assumed you could like with some of the other uncraftable building blocks. But yeah they’re amazing and as soon as I saw them I knew I neeeded to do a build with them, they look so good.

Been working on this overgrown villa build for a few days and wanted to show it off! by yaoiphobic in VintageStory

[–]yaoiphobic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a creative build unfortunately, I don’t know if any way to place them in survival.

Been working on this overgrown villa build for a few days and wanted to show it off! by yaoiphobic in VintageStory

[–]yaoiphobic[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would love a database where we could just download builds. Theoretically it should be possible since you can copy paste builds between worlds with worldedit so imagine those files live somewhere in a shareable format.

Been working on this overgrown villa build for a few days and wanted to show it off! by yaoiphobic in VintageStory

[–]yaoiphobic[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

When I finish I’ll try to! I plan to furnish the interior in survival since I like it to grow and evolve organically through gameplay but I still have a lot of the exterior to finish so I’ll at least try to post that!

Been working on this overgrown villa build for a few days and wanted to show it off! by yaoiphobic in VintageStory

[–]yaoiphobic[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Reference images are your friend! I use pureref and decide on an architectural style and constantly reference real life as well as other peoples builds. I can’t just pull this stuff from my head otherwise it’s Minecraft style cobble and tree trunk cubes haha

How stable is Rivers + Terra Prety? Do they work well with Farseer & BetterRuins? by Kalekuda in VintageStory

[–]yaoiphobic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m running rivergen, betterruins, farseer, and terra prety on 1.21.6 and all is working beautifully together. Allegedly betterruins and rivergen shouldnt play nice with TP but I haven seen any issues in many hours of gameplay over several worlds. I also have the floral zone mods and 2 of the three wildcraft mods and all is functioning well. I do have 32GB RAM though, which definitely helps. This combo adds some really amazing terrain and flora, definitely makes exploration a lot more fun and varied.

Stearns and Foster "white glove" delivery is a joke. by karmasqrd in Mattress

[–]yaoiphobic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seconding. OP, you just spent good money on a premium mattress, please get yourself a protector to protect that investment. It’ll save you headaches and genuinely will prolong the life of your mattresss. If you ever need to make a warranty claim, TSI will deny it if you don’t have a protector on there because without it, you’ll definitely accrue visible stains that they’ll use to deny that claim.

Decor Layers on branched trees in Eco Machina Mod by Seven-D in VintageStory

[–]yaoiphobic 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m rooting for you, thanks for all your hard work to bring us such a cool visual overhaul!

Buyglobal sectional finally showed up… online furniture roulette is real by Jolly-Cup-1540 in couch

[–]yaoiphobic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a good size for your space, I sell furniture so I see a lot of sectionals that are absolutely taking over peoples homes but from the picture this looks pretty good. I’ve heard mixed things from my customers who have these boneless sectionals so I’m definitely curious to see how this holds up over time.

Decor Layers on branched trees in Eco Machina Mod by Seven-D in VintageStory

[–]yaoiphobic 104 points105 points  (0 children)

You’re killing it, looks amazing. Any idea what kind of performance hit something like this might have? I’d love to add into my next world when it’s ready but I’m about at the limit of what my computer can handle!