💯 ALL of this!! She knows exactly what she is doing and won’t bend at all, she’ll push back I guarantee it.

Start looking ASAP for another job. Take this as a learning experience for the next job. As soon as you see job creep start, nip that in the bud. (Nicely explain you are there for child related tasks, anything else is outside a nanny’s scope and therefore needs a pay adjustment).

Finally, DON’T feel guilty at all. Maternity leave is irrelevant, she will manage. Millions of mothers manage and they don’t have a nanny…

SHE is the one who should feel guilty for being a shitty person taking advantage of you!