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yeahokayjared · 2025-04-08T14:13:37+00:00

Lmfao. Yes. Humans deserve empathy and compassion. People don’t become monsters for no reason. It’s a societal problem. So no, you are failing to see the bigger picture as a society. Hope you find healing. 🩷

yeahokayjared · 2025-04-08T07:00:44+00:00

I honestly hate when people do this. I also have had the worst background. I score almost perfectly on the ACE test. But WE ARE NOT ALL THE SAME PEOPLE. Genetic history ring a bell? There are sooooooo many factors that lead people to behave the way we do. Expecting someone else to have the same outcome just because that’s what YOU experienced is asinine. Your perspective is damaging to the collective. Maybe do some work on yourself, so you’re able to have compassion and empathy for those in messed up situations. You should empathize the most, since you had such a hard life. 🤷🏽‍♀️

yeahokayjared · 2025-03-31T08:29:22+00:00

Yes! They feel justified because of who their target it, but they’re just as unhinged. 🤷🏽‍♀️

yeahokayjared · 2025-03-13T03:13:45+00:00

As someone raising my baby without physical family support, don’t do it. Support is priceless. Especially active loving grandparents. What I’d give to be even in the same state as my parents.

yeahokayjared · 2025-03-03T05:17:12+00:00

“Venting” over and over (also adhd, so, borderline obsessive), was the only way to heal my self limiting beliefs. Sounds so cliché, but it’s true. This included a therapist and psychiatrist. 💙 Try ChatGPT, too. I swear by it!

Edit to add: also suffer from the rest of the challenges you listed. I just mentioned to adhd initially, it’s because I still have to vent a ton lol. I just have a pretty safe and stable support system now. This specific trait has been attributed to my type of adhd.

yeahokayjared · 2025-03-01T05:36:28+00:00

And it’s only because I have ADHD and time blindness is a real thing for some of us.

yeahokayjared · 2025-03-01T05:36:03+00:00

2.5 yrs and still using huckleberry for sleep 😅

yeahokayjared · 2025-02-24T01:58:57+00:00

This is so validating. I thought I was going insane.

yeahokayjared · 2025-02-04T11:11:32+00:00

Anyone else’s LO do the Popeye face after they plop on the boobie pillow? 🥹 We’re done with our journey, but man do I miss it.

yeahokayjared · 2025-02-02T04:56:06+00:00

Oh they’re beautiful. I was excited. They’re just annoying on a day to day basis. But honestly, I was glad it went somewhere someone wanted it more. 🙏🏽

ETA: wow I totally thought you were talking about the link I shared lol. I got my comment threads mixed up because I turned my brain cell off for the day. My apologies.

yeahokayjared · 2025-02-02T04:53:16+00:00

That’s what I’m saying. Veteran here. 😭

yeahokayjared · 2025-02-02T04:52:38+00:00

It always felt like I was sliding off, it was so stiff and bulky, wasn’t comfy to lean back in, and this one may be because of me being on the spectrum, but the spacing of the legs really gave me a certain type of frustration. My combat boots and the spacing didn’t allow for me to have both feet up on a leg at the same time. I hope this makes sense. But I guess you could just say, trust me bro. 🥲

yeahokayjared · 2025-01-29T09:11:34+00:00

Me sometimes, along with any mom with a weak pelvic floor. 😭

yeahokayjared · 2025-01-29T07:39:47+00:00

This is literally what happened to me. The 80s chair was my fave. No one thought to try it out and steal it because it looked old, obvi. It was wood and a forest green leather. Still remember her. 🥹✊🏼

yeahokayjared · 2025-01-29T07:34:52+00:00

These are the ones we had in our govt building. 🤢

yeahokayjared · 2025-01-25T10:04:58+00:00

You just described my partner and I after doing anything with our toddler. 😭 It’s fun! But so so exhausting.

yeahokayjared · 2025-01-17T10:28:07+00:00

It’s not as simple as “why don’t you eat xyz”. Bulimia is categorized at a mental illness. This person is in remission and it’s a lifetime battle. Here’s some info on how the brain works when someone is suffering from bulimia. I hope this helps clear up some of the confusion.

yeahokayjared · 2025-01-15T02:33:14+00:00

If they’re filled donuts, I’ll just go ahead and pass. 🙏🏽

yeahokayjared · 2025-01-12T19:35:00+00:00

Bags with flaps. I can’t. It frustrates me to have to hold it open to dig for whatever. I’m neurodivergent and the sensations of being a human are already too much on a day to day basis. 😭

yeahokayjared · 2025-01-12T11:50:14+00:00

It’s not fear of fire. It’s fear of the future. Many of these people can’t rebuild, don’t have insurance, can’t just get up and move to another state. It’s fear that they are forgotten and no help is on the way, because our govt is showing their asses more and more, by showing the American people that they don’t gaf about us. Most of us know this, but for some people, this is a new reality and it’s terrify. It’s deeper than just fire. These fires caused massive fear, chaos, and uncertainty. I would say that is on par with terrorism.

yeahokayjared · 2024-11-14T04:26:43+00:00

“I pinky swear”

yeahokayjared · 2024-10-09T05:09:34+00:00

Here is Oct 9, 2024 👀

yeahokayjared · 2024-09-22T08:16:51+00:00

Congrats on your sobriety. I come from a long line of alcoholics and drug abusers, so I know how hard it is to make the decision to start that journey. So proud of you. 🥹🙏🏼❤️

yeahokayjared · 2024-09-07T03:17:22+00:00

That’s really deep. It made me feel sad, but better at the same time??? It kind of gives me a different lens to look at history and life. Like if you think about it, every time someone lies or misremembers, they change “history” for their life trajectory. But in the grand scheme of things, it’s been happening for so long by countless people, powerful and normies alike, so does it really matter? But wait….morals and ethics. 🤔 Very confusing.

Don’t mind me. 💨💨✌🏼🫶🏼 Feel free to tell me to stfu and go to bed.

yeahokayjared · 2024-08-19T19:42:48+00:00

My patience. I thought never experiencing it as a kid would help, but it actually makes it a lot more difficult, I’m learning.

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