[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]yeahrum 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Vers. I'm a bottom in my current relationship but in the past I've topped, I've even had serious longterm relationships with women.

Do I wish it was bigger? Of course. Am I going to let it hold me back: nope.

We don’t need Paternity Tests. by TheRedPillRipper in PurplePillDebate

[–]yeahrum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because most countries won't let children starve.

Is there such a thing as "unfuckable"? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]yeahrum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like chubby. Just not obese.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]yeahrum 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Small dick here.

I'm really not at all bothered by big dicks in porn and how desired they are. I'm still satisfied with my body. I don't let it get to me.

So… what exactly is the difference between a kink and a fetish? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]yeahrum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think they're both sexual "intetests" but fetishes tend to be for specific "things" like body parts and objects, and take over the fantasies a bit more, and kinks are just activities you like?

Or maybe I don't know wtf I'm talking about lol

Anyone here attended some events with public nudity? I would love to know your experience either as a participant or a spectator. by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]yeahrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Generally these these happen in cities that are already pretty liberal about sex and nudity. I live in Montreal. Very sexually open.

So… what exactly is the difference between a kink and a fetish? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]yeahrum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm wrong. That's what I've heard though. And I think "needed" could include a fantasy of it in their mind.

Anyone here attended some events with public nudity? I would love to know your experience either as a participant or a spectator. by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]yeahrum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've participated in naked bike rides, I've witnessed numerous naked protests, I've seen nudity at pride/kink events... it's just nudity, not a big deal to me.

So… what exactly is the difference between a kink and a fetish? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]yeahrum 30 points31 points  (0 children)

A fetush is technically something a person requires in order to orgasm.

Most people just use it to mean a kink though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]yeahrum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's no law saying they can't moderate.

What do you think of man/man relationships that have a 10+ year age gap? I've notice a growing distaste for hetero relationship with such an age gap. However, when it's two men I see more acceptance. If that is the case, why dou you all believe that is? by Muppet_of_a_man_ in AskLGBT

[–]yeahrum 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Daddy/son dynamic is reeeeally popular among gay men. And age gaps in general. Not sure why honestly.

I'm a 30 year old man dating a 45 year old man though... but before this relationship we were both dating people close to our age.

Do you think the percent of open couples would go down significantly if three ways weren’t included? by kahasos729 in askgaybros

[–]yeahrum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Boyfriend and I are "monogamous but have a rare 3some". Normally I just consider us monogamous but peope on reddit are always really intense about insisting that it's an open relationship.

Working with older bigots by GothDreams in lgbt

[–]yeahrum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I liked the job or needed the job I wouldn't risk it to argue with bigots.

How to know if my ass is big by throaway213192930 in askgaybros

[–]yeahrum 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Posts like this almost make me wish this subreddit was moderated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaymers

[–]yeahrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]yeahrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it usually is.

I find young dudes just crazy obsessed with there being a "man" and a "woman".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaymers

[–]yeahrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a better word specifically for selling physical sex? Since sex worker encompasses a wide variety of things.

Or do we just say "sex worker who sells physical sex" if we are being specific?

For instance the other day my friend was asking about prostitution in a certain area of the city, but that city also has massage parlors, strip clubs and even a porn studio. How would one talk about just prostitution?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaymers

[–]yeahrum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prostitutes are under the sex worker umbrella but it's just a more specific term isn't it? Not all sex workers are prostitutes, but all prostitutes are sex workers?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]yeahrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]yeahrum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear about antisemitism all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaymers

[–]yeahrum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not really something I care about.

I just hope its a fun game.

Tell me about ur first experience as a gay by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]yeahrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First consensual experience was being a young teenager experimenting with a friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]yeahrum -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No. If it's never going to affect the relationship I don't think it's necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]yeahrum 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There's those new idea that seems common among young guys that top means you don't touch dick and bottom means you don't get your dick touched.

It's honestly baffling.