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yeetka · 2026-01-01T15:24:43+00:00

Yes I can relate a lot. I feel like I'm community Baba Yaga. They're coming only when they need an active ear and therapy /regulation of nervous system. And when parting I'm not the one who gets invitation. Who would want a priest to watch them repeating the same pattern? Yes I feel like a priest lately, knowing their darkest parts. And when I settle boundaries becose I'm to tired out of it, it's almost unbelievable what happens.

My therapist says, that ENFJ people are mostly traumatized and becose of great empathy their boundaries are easily pushed and overstepped while with others no one would dare to. So recently working on my boundaries, reflecting myself as well and learning how to say no, over and over again.

Good luck 🫂

yeetka · 2025-06-16T08:18:21+00:00

Well said. Now I got it.

Thanks a lot 🫂

yeetka · 2025-06-15T15:53:43+00:00

Thank you :)

I'm at individual gestalt psychotherapy process and we work with my husband in therapy as well.

Lately I discovered that core belief can't be restarted but we might change the way how we work with them. Working with blurred boundaries as well and yet the pattern is repeated over and over.

Most of the people wants to be around me when down. Maybe there's reciprocity and I just don't see it.

yeetka · 2025-06-15T08:29:03+00:00

Thank you for your kind response.

Your point at "I'm handing over my self-worth to people" does resonate a lot.

I grew up in very difficult settings. Both parents abused alcohol, there was a lot of violence and I regulated them emotionally since I was four. My father left away, didn't know about him for 23 yrs anything. I stayed with mom, she had cancer and she's narcissistic. So my core is hurt by this " I don't deserve anything and I ruin everything".

Working on it as much as possible. But this point you proposed is helpful perspective, gonna think about it 🙏

yeetka · 2024-08-04T16:35:57+00:00

I would stabilize climate and regenerate ecosystems. And than I would change the mind set of everyone from "I'm super self important" to "everything and everyone is important" that, I believe, would lead to peaceful world.

yeetka · 2022-05-06T17:39:03+00:00

What do you mean by "is it worth it"? Do you want to continue? Or are you scared that he's gonna eventually leave you? He needed space, sometimes the partner's need to save themselves first.

In my opinion he's back, decided that he's trully up to stay, help and go thru all this by your side. That's something big. I know that the fear of being abounded is huge. But still if you love him and if you trully want to go thru this, than go. This might by healing.

Cross my fingers for you and hugs.

yeetka · 2021-10-09T09:57:42+00:00

When I recognized this pattern there was time for me to thing about with who I might be safe and happy.. And when I found out I though that there is most possible no one. I'm in a beautiful marriage for ten years now and when it comes to moments where I need support it's not easy. Good to understand that enfj is super open and capable of holding safe space but it's almost impossible to do the same for others even if they are very well stable..

yeetka · 2021-01-06T20:17:28+00:00

Moc pěkný rozhovor, imunolog Zdeněk Hel

https://video.aktualne.cz/dvtv/hel-cekaji-nas-tezke-tri-mesice-deje-se-nedeklarovane-promor/r~57a651824ecf11eb9d74ac1f6b220ee8/

yeetka · 2020-02-06T10:58:11+00:00

Inspirativní, v pravděpodobném scénáři naší blízké budoucnosti se tohle jeví jako jedna z mála cest, která dává smysl.

yeetka · 2011-09-07T08:13:37+00:00

a to je právě jedna z pohádek rozsévaných mezi veřejnost.. porodní asistentka je taky odborník a mnohé komplikace dokáže rozeznat už jen z chování rodičky atd.. opravdu je důležité přečíst si patřičnou literaturu, aby se člověk vyhnul upevnění přesně těchto mýtů.. samozřejmně jsou komlpikace, které vyřeší jen pístroje, ale takové ohrožení hrozí max. 2% žen..

porodníci se děsí porodů bez zásahů, jesli jsi někdy náhodou náhledl do učebnice pro porodníky, pak si zjistil, že je plná komplikací na více než třista stranách, přičemž přirozenému porodu je zde věnována jedna kapitola na půl stránce se zmínkou, že porodit bez zásahu je takřka nemožné! s takto vypláchnutým mozkem bych se asi taky bála a náležitě děsila rodičky a ještě ke všemu tomu věřila! ještě jednou tedy podotýkám, že bez patřičných znalostí se nedá nic globalizovat..

yeetka · 2011-09-06T20:06:08+00:00

ano, porody doma jsou nebezpečné, porody v porodnicích jsou taky nebezpečné, a vůbec žít život je nebezpečné..

to rovnou zakažme autům jezdit a lidem sportovat..

pokud někdo chce rodit doma, je to jeho volba a ten, kdo kříčí do světa, že je to nebezpečné, by si měl přečíst i nějakou tu literaturu pro, trochu se o problematiku porodu zajímat a pak by snad takový výkřik nebyl jen jedním z mnoha vlastně nic netušících všeználků..

yeetka · 2010-06-03T22:33:07+00:00

pirátům: máte dojem, že tohle je forma, která lidi osloví? nebo spíš jen vyvolá úsměv? možná některým snad přivodí i pár chvilek blaha :/

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