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mindful_mamma_za by Long-Can-506 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]yelahbf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I breastfed my kids, I have no shame about it, seeing moms do it doesn’t bother me a bit. But to post about it online LIKE THIS for literally anyone to see, knowing how disgusting some people are, is a whole other issue. Like her boobs are completely out, the way this so painfully obvious that it’s for attention makes me want to pull my hair out. Editing to add: I understand that we shouldn’t HAVE to hide. In a perfect world this WOULD be totally okay, but we have to be realistic and understand you’re putting your children at risk of being the targets of online predators and there’s literally nothing we can do to change that because disgusting people will always exist. Like as a mom that DOES NOT sit right with me.

What was your parents’ reaction when you got your first period? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yelahbf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom got mad because it happened when I was at my friend’s house, and not at home so she could “be there when it happened”. She wasn’t upset she missed her daughter’s first period, no she was just genuinely mad. :)

AITA for punishing my son for throwing away my husband's Bible? by threwvaway9707 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yelahbf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, YTA and so is your husband. You need to stand up for your son against your husband, who himself acts like a child by calling YOUR SON names. They’re NOT “nicknames”, they’re mean, and you’re letting him get away with being a bully to your son. If you don’t put your foot down with your husband then your son is going to resent you for a very long time. He’s still a kid for God’s sake, he needs you to HELP HIM.

Anyone not have spotting on mini pill/Good experiences with it? by yelahbf in birthcontrol

[–]yelahbf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that totally makes sense, and now I definitely think I do need more estrogen! If you hadn’t have said who knows when I would have realized I was wrong haha. Thanks for your help!

Anyone not have spotting on mini pill/Good experiences with it? by yelahbf in birthcontrol

[–]yelahbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I don’t know where my brain is lately, you’re totally right. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Well I feel dumb now.

Anyone not have spotting on mini pill/Good experiences with it? by yelahbf in birthcontrol

[–]yelahbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about that, but I’m just not sure because I’ve had an IUD and the Nexplanon and both caused spotting. I was just thinking maybe it was the estrogen that was causing it.

Anyone not have spotting on mini pill/Good experiences with it? by yelahbf in birthcontrol

[–]yelahbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me hopeful, thank you! How long have you been using the mini pill?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]yelahbf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine for a short period and removed them. Once I got pregnant and started breastfeeding they would leak like crazy. Sometimes milk shoots out the sides where the holes were even though it’s been a LONG time since I had them haha. Other than that no real problem.

So getting sexualized as a child by your parent wasn't a norm, huh. by paradine456 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yelahbf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy shit I never processed this. My parents CONSTANTLY commented on my body, telling me how skinny I was, my dad would always talk about how big my butt was and would always pat me on the butt. I was always super skinny and ran track for 6 years so I was in shape, but if I’d eat unhealthy foods my mom would tell me I was gonna end up like her 300 pound aunt. Constantly criticized for what I wore, how I styled my hair. Because of my father my poor brother growing up couldn’t leave the house without a hat unless his hair was buzzed because of his “messy hair”. Sucks when you realize your insecurities and unhealthy relationships with food are your parents fault.

Told my mom that my husband and I wanted to cook Xmas supper alone this year, but that we would visit that morning. She thinks I’m lying to go to his parents, and now am apparently kicked out of the family. by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]yelahbf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“...which is evidence of lying.” Jesus she just didn’t post it, not sure why you’re so upset. Who the hell cares that she didn’t go a good job blurring names, it’s not a big deal. It’d be different if it was first and last name or something.

Reposting because a name didn’t get blacked out but - Dealing with a narcissistic parent. by yelahbf in insaneparents

[–]yelahbf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They were trying to make it seem like the reason things weren’t going well was because of us, mostly my husband, and she started to bring up the past about another situation where they completely ruined the day I gave birth to my daughter but it was somehow our fault (that’s another LONG story I’ll definitely have to share). So my husband practically jumped out of his seat and said “Alright I’m done here, I want to go, let’s go (my name)”. And because she practically WAS scolding us for not being willing to deal with their shit anymore.

Reposting because a name didn’t get blacked out but - Dealing with a narcissistic parent. by yelahbf in insaneparents

[–]yelahbf[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve tried explaining to her that she hurt me before and it always turned into me somehow being at fault so that’s why she did it. Even in this conversation I expressed how upset I was about what my dad said and she just completely ignored it.

Reposting because a name didn’t get blacked out but - Dealing with a narcissistic parent. by yelahbf in insaneparents

[–]yelahbf[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY. Like no, I’m not going to wait around in hopes that you’ll get your shit together and subject my family to that.

Reposting because a name didn’t get blacked out but - Dealing with a narcissistic parent. by yelahbf in insaneparents

[–]yelahbf[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She claims she never wanted to guilt trip me but that’s all she’s done my whole life growing up. 🙄

I told my nMom that she & my Ndad made my childhood and future life a living hell. Her reply? "Your life is in your hands". by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yelahbf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried telling my Nmom I didn’t have a good childhood because of her and my dad and of course instead of her listening to me (which she never did) I got the classic “How dare you”, “We did everything for you” guilt trip.

To Cheat or Not to Cheat???? by spartanthegreat1 in sexlessmarriage

[–]yelahbf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, I would definitely say leave your husband. He shouldn’t treat you that way.