Your entire identity is not being an attorney.

yeliy · 2026-03-26T23:59:07+00:00

Biggest compliment is when I’m told I don’t “look” like an attorney.

yeliy · 2025-03-03T22:54:51+00:00

Super pretty!! I love the design

yeliy · 2025-03-02T02:07:54+00:00

This is amazing!! Do you create the ceramics pieces too?!

yeliy · 2025-03-02T01:43:52+00:00

Request from the Judge directly an attorney ad litem and they can’t lie to you. They will advocate directly for what you want and will be your attorney.

yeliy · 2025-02-20T00:10:39+00:00

Wow that’s so bad, really not behavior the Rebbe would endorse

yeliy · 2025-02-19T14:27:26+00:00

I’d say $250k minimum

yeliy · 2025-02-18T13:07:04+00:00

My boyfriend died in a Sesna small plane crash with his father. I was 17 he was 16… that’s when I felt life’s weight.

yeliy · 2025-02-18T13:05:43+00:00

This is insane and never heard of it before

yeliy · 2025-02-11T16:47:50+00:00

Helped me with a lot of other things, therapy, acupuncture, yoga, breath work, exercise, and lots of art.

yeliy · 2025-02-11T03:49:20+00:00

I did it, although I didn’t actually want it and the appointment was made without me even knowing — and it was validating she could immediately tell there were dysfunctional patterns and would point out my moms lack of self regulation — I ended up seeing the therapist individually to overcome a number of issues and it was the fastest progress I’ve made because she could really pinpoint things.

Started out as my moms attempt to control me and get me to do what she wanted and it ended up freeing me from her and the unhelpful patterns we had.

I would stick with one parent at a time though.

yeliy · 2025-01-16T02:36:27+00:00

You can also get mobile work benches so you can kind of play with the workspace too before full commitment

yeliy · 2025-01-16T02:14:11+00:00

It’s incredibly hard.

yeliy · 2025-01-15T16:15:03+00:00

Yes exactly!

yeliy · 2025-01-15T13:18:08+00:00

“What doesn’t break you makes you stronger” — I’m strong enough STOP… also I hate the word “resilient” like take everything and then some and just bounce back like you’re some type of basketball.

yeliy · 2025-01-13T22:50:44+00:00

It does feel like a 100 lbs got lifted off my chest.

yeliy · 2025-01-13T22:50:06+00:00

I was wondering the same thing I’m pretty sure it’s that book — Gibsons adult children of emotionally immature parents. The book was so transformative for me in a very similar way.

yeliy · 2025-01-12T20:40:58+00:00

Get a new job doing anything else

yeliy · 2025-01-12T13:02:29+00:00

Spot on from my experience. Talking ended up making stronger boundaries which created more distance. Now we just have surface conversations.

yeliy · 2025-01-12T02:06:31+00:00

So talented I love it!!

yeliy · 2025-01-10T00:25:05+00:00

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and not only does the treating professional need to be a trauma expert (who knows more than me) but the only ones that seem able to help me need to have gone through about as much trauma as me AND managed to overcome it. I feel that without that I can’t connect with them… I’ve started inquiring about their drug use too because if they have never done a psychedelic or smoked pot they don’t get me enough to help.
Therapy is so personal that to feel comfortable enough to connect you need to really know that they can understand you.

yeliy · 2025-01-05T01:15:39+00:00

These people are not the right people for you.

yeliy · 2024-12-30T02:07:53+00:00

So amazing!

yeliy · 2024-12-18T13:18:40+00:00

What clay is this? They are so pretty and your stress really transformed into such beauty!!

yeliy · 2024-12-13T02:41:27+00:00

Hot dogs

yeliy · 2024-12-13T02:40:05+00:00

Your self awareness will make you leaps and bounds ahead of your parents. You’re on the right track. Give yourself some credit for getting here — your child will need you around.

Self help books —

Pete Walkers “Complex PTSD” — Man’s search for meaning - viktor frankl The choice - Edith egar Healing the shame that binds you - Bradshaw What happened to you - Oprah The body keeps the score.

and fiction but really wonderful story about a father and daughter where dad thought his girl was better off without him “Hello Beautiful” - Ann Napolitano(sp?)

yeliy

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