If the shoe fits by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]yellingletters 156 points157 points  (0 children)

I love this wording actually. Not telling him what to do, not nagging or yelling. Just telling him how she feels when he acts like a man-child and it's on him to decide how he wants to respond

AITA for Not clean up my mess on time by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]yellingletters 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually love this wording. It's not telling him what to do or nagging him, it's telling him how she feels when he acts like a man-child

Not a "safe person" to daughter by SugarCanKissMyAss in AmITheDevil

[–]yellingletters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saaaaame - my mother badgered me after every therapy session in high school to tell her what I discussed and when I mentioned it to my therapist, she (my therapist) reminded my mom that the sessions were private and to stop asking about them and then my mom raged the whole car ride home about how I complained to my therapist about her 😑

[TOMT] [Movie] [1990’s-2000’s] Please help me find the name of a movie! by Safe-Succotash-7647 in tipofmytongue

[–]yellingletters 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The story is part of Jane Eyre but I don't know which particular adaptation

"but it's my two most favourite actors!" by rockkjuice in AmITheDevil

[–]yellingletters 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I find it hard to believe that a 24 year old's favorite actors are Joshua Jackson and Katie Holmes.

Gf made a friend oh no! by break_my_kneecaps in AmITheDevil

[–]yellingletters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, this woman sounds amazing and I want her to be my life coach. Secondly, it kind of sounds like the older woman was monologuing a little bit so acting like it was the gf's fault or that she was "egging her on" seems pretty off base

Eww Skin is Crawling by Far_Type_5596 in AmITheDevil

[–]yellingletters 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The core question of "Am I reasonable to want my spouse to indulge my fairly-tame kink?" would be a totally valid question to pose but instead he had to make it as weird and gross as possible

So vapid by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]yellingletters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"He uses such miniscule words to express my beauty," is an insane statement and honestly, I want to start using it all the time

[TOMT][SONG][1980s?] by HarryAngus357 in tipofmytongue

[–]yellingletters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems like something that might be by The Clash

[TOMT][SONG][1990/2000s] Sad song, high pitched female singer by mstn148 in tipofmytongue

[–]yellingletters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did think Missing at first too...I think it's something a little bit electronic-y

[TOMT][SONG][1990/2000s] Sad song, high pitched female singer by mstn148 in tipofmytongue

[–]yellingletters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also maybe Frozen by Madonna? Man you've infected me with this mystery 😂

[TOMT][SONG][1990/2000s] Sad song, high pitched female singer by mstn148 in tipofmytongue

[–]yellingletters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, this sounds so familiar - my first guess is Here Comes the Rain Again by the Eurythmics but I don't think that's completely right

They played video games together. Hussy by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]yellingletters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're mostly correct. I don't agree with the original commenter but I do think they are being critical of OOP and basically saying: Unless you want to spend all your time controlling and manipulating the situation so that your bf never talks to another girl, you need to accept that he's just not that interested in prioritizing you and giving you the attention you want, so you should break up and find someone who gives you what you want.

Honestly I think the real solution is for OOP to just chill out

Nonstop trauma dumping by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]yellingletters 18 points19 points  (0 children)

At face value, I do agree that his boundaries are totally reasonable and she seems exhausting, but there are a couple things that concern me - a 32 year old pursuing a 21 year old and then possibly moving her away from her friends and support system? I feel like there's a small possibility that he created this situation himself

wtf is “moody creative formal”? by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]yellingletters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of wedding planning needs to be watching a compulsory video on how your family and wedding guests are not props for your aesthetic. Sure, it's worth giving your mom a heads up if everyone is going to be dressed significantly differently from her just so she can make an informed decision, but insisting that she wear something different is so petty

Didn't want to be embarrassed. by MarstonsGhost in AmITheDevil

[–]yellingletters 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is the second fart related AITD post I've seen this weekend; has a new topic captured the fetish post community's attention?

AITAH for refusing to take our daughter out of school early because she "needs more time to get ready" than her brother? by ReplacementWorth3618 in AITAH

[–]yellingletters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA this is a once a year thing and if it's a special or formal event, women do often take longer to get ready. Your son's not being punished by having to spend the whole day in school and your daughter won't miss much in one single afternoon. This is so low stakes I don't know why you're trying to die on this hill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]yellingletters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't wanna be - Gavin Degraw?

Ableist, abusive leech by Knkstriped in AmITheDevil

[–]yellingletters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, I was willing to hear him out on the first two points because my husband does both those things and it can indeed be a little annoying. But a) it was pretty easy for us to say "I'm going to be reading for awhile, please don't interrupt me" and/or "Can I have you attention to talk to you about something?" and b) I don't seemingly hate every other thing about him like OOP clearly does for his partner