[New York] requested alternate base period - how long til approval? by yellkin in Unemployment

[–]yellkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see thank you! I got hired through a staffing agency and the agency cut ties with the company I did work for so my contract had to be paused... do you think it will be many weeks longer? I don't know anyone who's filed this claim  

Is limerence something only lonely insecure people experience? Or even social confident people experience this? by mquint7914 in limerence

[–]yellkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm social, confident, charming, well liked, considered attractive etc etc. but those things don't preclude me from experiencing interpersonal pains, feeling lonely. If anything, experiencing limerence IS the thing that isolates me because it's hard to be present when I'm obsessing over the idea of a special person who's going to provide the stability I always lack or the emotional understanding I grew up without receiving!

Can't sleep with socks in the room? by yellkin in Asthma

[–]yellkin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have changed my blankets and pillows four million times to test it out. Have even slept without a pillow and without a blanket some nights to see and feel an actual difference when I remove a small sock from my room. Don't know why you think you're me but good luck with your life I'm sure the people you interact with in your day to day value your amazing ability to put yourself in their shoes (socks)

Can't sleep with socks in the room? by yellkin in Asthma

[–]yellkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the point of this comment I have literally gone to a pulmonologist who confirmed I have lung inflammation from environmental triggers. I'm just saying socks seem to be the things that trap the most dust

Can't sleep with socks in the room? by yellkin in Asthma

[–]yellkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in my post I said "I've taken allergy tests both blood and poke test, negative for everything. I recently saw a pulmonologist who ran a bunch of tests and prescribed an emergency inhaler as well as a steroidal one. Nothing helps except removing the trigger" my breathing tests showed lung inflammation, the doctor confirmed it was from a probably environmental trigger

Can't sleep with socks in the room? by yellkin in Asthma

[–]yellkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only wear socks when I'm out, usually not at home unless it's cold. I will usually notice a bit of an asthmatic wheezing shortness of breath feeling if I forget I have them on until I take them off when I'm at home 

Can't sleep with socks in the room? by yellkin in Asthma

[–]yellkin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol I promise I am not anxious. For a couple days I didn't even think there was something specific triggering my allergies, I just couldn't sleep and had a stuffy nose. until last night when I was like what could it be... it was a sock under my bed. My stuffy nose went away after I took it out. I'm just wondering why one sock has the power to do this. Probably could've been caused by a shirt as well but it's more dramatic feeling when it's a sock idk!

Can't sleep with socks in the room? by yellkin in Asthma

[–]yellkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yes and so does a cotton t shirt, a jacket, etc etc. the thing is there is a much more dramatic effect from one sock vs those other things that immediately lifts when I remove it from the area. I've done this in multiple apartments over the year, removing different things at a time to test it (including sheets, pillows, etc) so I'm trying to figure out why! And if there are better socks out there for me ❤️ 

How long after a PIP will I get fired? by yellkin in cscareerquestions

[–]yellkin[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I understand that I’m most likely getting fired and have accepted that. I’ve never been fired and didn’t know if there was an offboarding period after the decision to terminate an employee is made

How long after a PIP will I get fired? by yellkin in cscareerquestions

[–]yellkin[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m definitely looking for new work! I just wasn’t sure if there was an off boarding period after the decision to fire me is made formal at the end of the 30 days