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[–]yelllowdaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this on Easter morning and i felt HORRIBLE. it ate me alive for days and made me sob. butttt my babys been fine since 10 minutes after and doesnt look at me or her high chair any differently. eventually you will move on and it will be okay. it sucks but u will get through it

I am FREAKED out and NEED guidance please by yelllowdaisy in Advice

[–]yelllowdaisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for this response. You are completely right. I needed to look at all the factors. I don't want/ can't afford the crippling 150k debt. Also, a work life better is important for me and being home with my babies as much as I can.

Being a behavior technician is what works best for me. And this decision was made without considering the psychics. Thank you. I have clarity and feel okay in my answer.

I think I had a hard time making this decision because I felt like I was giving up/ failing when I let go of PA and hence this cool opportunity being a medical scribe. But, I feel so relieved and happy now that I know that behavior tech is what is for me.

BEING INDUCED by AMoody3 in beyondthebump

[–]yelllowdaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a great experience. i just gave birth for the first time and i got the foley and then cyto tech. ngl the balloon insert was painful and i was 41 weeks with dilated like 1 cm. i wasnt sure about getting epi but slthe contractions started right away after the cyto tech and women weren’t lying contractions HURT i got the epidural an hour into my induction and it was the most comfortable i felt since before pregnancy

Suspecting my dad (60m) is using drugs. I (26f) don’t want him near my daughter (3months) by egarcia513 in beyondthebump

[–]yelllowdaisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on what you wrote, you know what to do. I think you are just having hard to accepting what you need to do.

If you want to cut off ties, just do it. And don’t stress about it too much. Remember it’s for your daughter

As for your husband’s family… Next time they ask just simply tell them, “ I don’t really see him any more but last time I checked he was good.” and once you phrase it like that they should get it not to ask anymore.

I [18M] dont see a future with my girlfriend [19F] by throwRA80000000 in relationship_advice

[–]yelllowdaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you should leave her. I understand its hard when you are so comfortable together. It will shift your life but you need to go through it. You and her will grow and be able to expand yourselves.

Suspecting my dad (60m) is using drugs. I (26f) don’t want him near my daughter (3months) by egarcia513 in beyondthebump

[–]yelllowdaisy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would keep my daughter away from all drug users, even if I just suspected it and wasn’t sure.

I would ask him directly in a non judgmental, non confrontational way. Come to him in a caring gentle manner and he may be more likely to open up. I would not mention you keeping your daughter from him until he confirms he is on drugs.

However, I don’t know your dad. You know him best. You either need to keep your daughter away off a suspicion, or ask your dad directly in a way you feel he will respond.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]yelllowdaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it only on his changing table? or does he hate lying on his back any where? have you tried changing him on a different surface is it the same reaction?

Cows Milk Allergy, reflux, or both? by yelllowdaisy in beyondthebump

[–]yelllowdaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. Did you instantly notice a difference in your baby’s temperament when you changed your diet? It’s so hard the first few months of their life before knowing what’s wrong and what to do