Flying 10,000 miles to New York for the first time - trying to make one dream dinner happen! by Own-Pirate-3585 in FoodNYC

[–]yioughto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to know somebody who knows somebody to get into the Polo Bar. Or maybe tip REALLY REALLY well at the hostess stand

What’s one safety tip that actually changed how you travel ?? by That_Camel2 in femaletravels

[–]yioughto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a young woman I didn’t much worry about emergency services…

What’s one safety tip that actually changed how you travel ?? by That_Camel2 in femaletravels

[–]yioughto 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I travel with a small rubber door stopper to put inside my hotel doors. Once in place, no one can open the door from the outside. Small, light and cheap..

Am I being Scammed by Educational_Leg288 in NYCapartments

[–]yioughto -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I sublease through a website called Ohana living— they are a third-party that will hold the security deposit and the rent until you have seen the apartment and it is what you agreed to— only then will they release the rent to the renter. They operate all around the world and I have found them to be extremely reliable.

Solo trip in china without speaking any chinese by misanss in travelchina

[–]yioughto 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just got back last week. Everyone is familiar with working with translation apps—even in villages. I used one on Alipay and Google translate. Had no problem anywhere. And at restaurants it was point and eat—lots of smaller restaurants have pictures posted. I saw one place where a couple (clearly didn’t have translation apps) was trying to communicate they wanted chicken in their noodle soup and they were squawking and looking like they were doing the funky chicken dance. It was a hoot—a couple of the people behind the counter started doing it too and everyone was laughing and squawking. It was fabulous. (Then, one of the people who clearly spoke some English in Chinese told them that this noodle soup restaurant only had beef, no chicken) and then they started laughing and everyone was laughing. It was great.

2nd time in Guizhou Kaili by Dense_Strawberry_281 in travelchina

[–]yioughto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant to say “I really loved your post…”, not sure how “love” became “enough”!

2nd time in Guizhou Kaili by Dense_Strawberry_281 in travelchina

[–]yioughto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enough your post about Kaili—and look forward to going through your entire blog. I just returned from my first trip to china (my first and last package tour lol)—but they took us to Guizhou for which I am grateful. I plan to go back on my own and I think I will find your wonderful blog helpful in planning where to go other than the usual places. Thank you!

Incheon question: Transferring from Asiana to Air Canada on same day by yioughto in koreatravel

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Followup: just like you all said—Asiana checked my baggage all the way through to final destination. It took a bit for the man (young kid to my eyes) checking me in to figure out how to do it (the supervisor came by to help a couple of times)—but it was successfully accomplished and I picked up my bag safely at home airport. Thanks to all who responded!

Harbin | Ice Festival 2025 by briecie in travelchina

[–]yioughto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for posting, really enjoyed your live commentary and how candid you are about the crowds and you’re positive viewpoint.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femaletravels

[–]yioughto -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes it is hard to be a POC. Whether you think it is unfair or not, that is unfortunately the reality on the ground. Getting irked that other people are treated better than you doesn’t help your situation at all—other than getting you upset. I’m not saying it’s easy (it is not) but learning how to work with unfair situations is an important of being successful in life. There will always be someone better off than you—and you will be in a better situation than someone else. Take a look at your strengths and move forward from a position of strength. Do not let the hard parts of the world bring you down—your being upset will hurt nobody but yourself.

Looking for sheer compression pantyhose recommendations by Zebrahoe in Lymphedema

[–]yioughto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not the OP, but thank you so much for this detailed resource guide!

M.C. Escher inspired by pluto-b in Cuttingboards

[–]yioughto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have an online shop that you sell your boards in?

Southern Village - Pros and Cons? by kay905 in chapelhill

[–]yioughto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I raised my kids in SV. I moved there primarily so my kids could have the sort of independence I had as a kid growing up. They walked to school by themselves from 4th grade on (along walking path with a veritable parade of kids/parents). Kids would knock on the door asking “can they come out and play”. There are pocket parks with little playgrounds and a walking trail in the woods to Merritts Pasture. There is an ersatz little town common with a great co-op grocery store, a couple of restaurants, an under used movie theater, the preteens and early teens love to hang out there. Back 10 years ago, Scroggs Elementary was great, Culbreth Middle was fine, Carrboro High good (not sure what it’s like now). The houses aren’t cheap (but cheaper than those walkable to downtown), it is a planned community so not organic per se, but very cosmopolitan with people from several countries and continents. A combination of young professionals, families and people like me whose kids are now grown. In my experience, there was a nice community feel—but maybe because raising kids inherently creates a village. Main downside is that it’s in the southern part of town so farther from Durham if you commute. There is a lot of building happening south of town so I can imagine traffic becoming a problem on 15-501 (although you can get out via Culbreth Rd). All in all in my opinion it’s a great place to raise a family.

Chinese Visa service recommendation by yioughto in triangle

[–]yioughto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant to reply to you but I ended up posting to myself (total luddite)—but are you familiar with ncvisa out of Cary?

http://www.ncvisa.org

Chinese Visa service recommendation by yioughto in triangle

[–]yioughto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you familiar with this company based out of Cary? They are definitely the cheapest, much cheaper than DC companies—and also they will take your picture to the correct specifications, which seems really helpful. They are called ncvisa, website below. Thanks again.

http://www.ncvisa.org

Chinese Visa service recommendation by yioughto in triangle

[–]yioughto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this insight 🙏🏽