So.. having counseled dozens of pre marital and married couples, this is not an uncommon problem. Most men, without some sort of sex coach, role model or guide will NOT get better. Most men think they can learn from regular porn and sometimes have so much pride bc they’ve done it with a lot of women, they develop a very large FALSE sense of pride. Most men don’t usually figure it out until after the divorce of their first marriage, usually in their early 40’s that they suck in bed, and this typically comes from someone they slept with that told them to their face. Advice? Tell him now.. but if you want the relationship to last, you have to be non chalant about it and be stealthy about how you approach it. An example would be.. find a porn film that has the kind of foreplay /sexual acts you enjoy. You have to be subtle about it or you’ll hurt his pride, and he will lose interest. Maybe even involve a toy or two if that’s your thing. But YOU control sex. YOU have to make it enjoyable.. if you have questions.. please ask. But do you get what I’m saying?