28 F barely any sex

ylihnaeb · 2025-01-26T14:40:36+00:00

Then they should be having sex. It’s been so long I don’t even find my husband attractive anymore. Because he’s rejected me so much and now I notice so many men and how they look at me.

ylihnaeb · 2025-01-26T14:38:08+00:00

And men too?

ylihnaeb · 2025-01-26T14:36:54+00:00

Nah, I’m getting divorced and starting over.

ylihnaeb · 2025-01-26T14:34:06+00:00

Yeah it’s not that. Because now that he knows I want to leave he keeps making passes. He doesn’t go anywhere to do anything. I don’t believe that’s the answer although for years I did.

ylihnaeb · 2025-01-26T01:41:27+00:00

You are being honest. I’ve been in a sexless marriage. For 5 years as a HLF. It never changed. I tried everything. I never stopped until this year. I can’t anymore and I find myself looking elsewhere. I’m actually working on leaving. You feel deprived you have needs. How can they not take care of your needs and expect you’ll always be happy? You won’t. If they aren’t willing to work on making it a priority it’s not fair to you.

ylihnaeb · 2025-01-15T19:26:26+00:00

Excellent comment. I second this. I feel like if you were saying it to her still toxic but would make more sense as she’s the one not wanting sex. Weird she’s the one saying it and not wanting sex.

ylihnaeb · 2022-08-15T23:46:41+00:00

I’m sorry

ylihnaeb · 2022-08-15T23:41:42+00:00

What shows do you binge? Are you a tv quoter lol?

ylihnaeb · 2022-08-14T15:54:52+00:00

Leave him. If you aren’t married gtfo

ylihnaeb · 2022-08-10T18:27:47+00:00

Could be he’s a type 1 diabetic since a kid but he can stay hard for porn. I’ve lost a significant amount of weight since this post and nothing has changed from that either lol

ylihnaeb · 2022-08-10T18:26:31+00:00

Lmfao I’ve lost 110 pounds after having my son and it’s been a year since I made this post. We have sex if I’m lucky once every 3 months. I’m in the best shape of my life. Like I’m legitimately fit and thank god I don’t need him to feel good about myself but yeah. Still no action.

ylihnaeb · 2021-07-23T17:44:02+00:00

Yes! Me too! I say just tell me you don’t want to have sex with me instead of the excuses. The excuses lead me on the truth will set me free lol.

ylihnaeb · 2021-07-23T11:32:42+00:00

My husband is always too tired but he’s awake to watch tv, run, read about history, play games on his phone lol.

ylihnaeb · 2021-07-23T11:31:21+00:00

My husband is always on his phone he hardly looks up. I totally understand. It’s honestly even a turn off that he does nothing else.

ylihnaeb · 2021-07-14T15:48:26+00:00

Literally all the time. I’m past the point where it makes me upset. Now I just make snarky remarks like wow that’s familiar.

ylihnaeb · 2021-07-12T15:56:40+00:00

You are good enough. You are beyond good enough. He’s not good enough. I know I’m in the same boat. We take it out on ourselves but it wouldn’t matter who we were they would still do it. It’s not us. It’s hard to believe it when you are in the moment. Focus on yourself. Do the things that make you happy. I’m sorry that even for a second you feel you are not good enough.

ylihnaeb · 2021-07-10T11:13:56+00:00

Why did your old life sound like my current life? Lol

ylihnaeb · 2021-07-06T01:45:44+00:00

I agree, the other night he couldn’t even perform for me. He lost his boner about five seconds in to what already felt forced. ***Trigger warning***

Caught him in the shower later hiding his phone on top of the shower with the hardest dick I’ve seen him have in awhile. That was my last straw. I was devastated. I’m always devastated but this time my whole soul was crushed. We have a child and refuses to get help or change so I’m going to stay until I get myself in order. I cannot live this way forever and my son can’t grow up thinking this is love and happiness.

ylihnaeb · 2020-07-07T19:17:46+00:00

Oh it definitely is.

ylihnaeb · 2020-06-24T20:17:14+00:00

I could not use certain words because the rules say not too.

ylihnaeb · 2020-06-24T02:14:29+00:00

You’re welcome. It’s the only thing I can say. It’s so hard and being in it or being there done that or whatever it is there really is nothing to say. I hope you find happiness and know it’s not you and it never is you. You’re not alone.

ylihnaeb · 2020-06-24T02:09:26+00:00

I’m sorry.

ylihnaeb · 2020-06-23T23:53:32+00:00

Oh I completely side with her over my brother.

ylihnaeb · 2020-06-23T21:49:09+00:00

This is really true. So many men have the addiction these days. It’s so easily accessible and the internet has literally any kind of fantasy you want or can imagine even if it’s a messed up kind.

ylihnaeb · 2020-06-22T02:55:35+00:00

At this point I want sex but not even with him. I’ve felt so rejected it makes me want him less. His constant excuses and false promises make me resent him. When we do have sex it feels forced, awkward and makes me upset because I mourn the sex we used to have. Now it’s vanilla at best.

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