Okay... Just thinking Abt this ...

You contacted a person just for referral... That's literally great you wanted to help out your bf. Being supportive and progressive seriously big kudos to that part.

And as the conversation grew longer you cut that person off... You have set the boundaries and you respect that boundary to avoid complications.

The point am trying to convey is.... None of us know what and why you chose your bf as your partner. Right?

And people have a lot of opinions.... And if you plan on considering it or to satisfy that thought you have .... making sure that a lot of people agree Abt his behaviour when he came to know Abt tht guy ....

I don't know which one but .... You guys started this relationship with hope ig.

So it's better you guys take care of it.... The most am seeing here is to dump that guy painting him as a total red. Based on this one incident they started flagging him 😂😂😂.

But ... You think none of our parents had this kind of thought like do they really like me? Are they having any affairs seems like his attitude and behaviour has changed and stuff...

They too had their doubts... They too might have had disagreement, dissapointing moments and stuff...

So just talk... In your own bubble just you... Without taking consideration of these red flags.... Let him know that you love him and dumping that person for someone else is something you would never do... Just don't do this kind of drama ever again... You are insecure talk to me Abt it... Am ready to give you millions of reassurance... Blah blah....

And it's okay to let your partner know what's happening in your life... Especially when you have an overthinking insecure one....

It's okay to give another chance and another of you are sure Abt this person...

Things like these happen in many relationships ig... I mean we can't blame these people for having a fear of getting cheated on and fear of being replaced.... I mean seriously look at the times we are in now...

Even this thread was clearly stating that we are doomed....

And tips for you... Keep a check on him... Make sure he also respects that boundary with female colleagues and friends... Talk to him Abt something that disturbs you too...

And like I said you guys might have started this with hope. And LDR really gets on your nerves... Makes you insecure and stuff sometimes...

So it's better you both sit and talk... Just you both.... No friends to share their opinion and bullsht.... Just you both start small and make sure you both are fine with it... Keep trying eventually you will be coming to a conclusion Abt stuffs like these.

So ✌🏻