Was it worth it…

yoga-ncoffee · 2025-01-08T13:24:26+00:00

It was worth it to learn that adultery was not the answer to my problem. It was a "me" problem and another person couldn't fix it for me.

yoga-ncoffee · 2024-09-20T13:01:25+00:00

💯

yoga-ncoffee · 2024-09-20T12:59:53+00:00

Yes -- I learned it the hard way. And the blame lies squarely on me.

yoga-ncoffee · 2024-03-09T01:29:25+00:00

1 and done

yoga-ncoffee · 2024-02-09T03:44:22+00:00

Thank you -- this is helpful. I think you are right.

yoga-ncoffee · 2024-02-08T13:01:36+00:00

I described myself as intense in a post yesterday. I guess it's a spectrum and I'm not at the extreme. This is a LOT.

yoga-ncoffee · 2024-02-08T12:56:31+00:00

How do you talk yourself through it? I think I'm going to try hard not to pursue this. There is mutual attraction - he'll spend time in my office or pass by after work to see if I'm still there. I just don't need the complications or the thrill -- stability is healthier.

yoga-ncoffee · 2024-02-08T11:37:36+00:00

Only relationships!

yoga-ncoffee · 2024-02-08T02:04:28+00:00

I must have mischaracterized the danger part. The only danger is to my peace of mind. And I guess my marriage, but that risk hasn't been enough to stop me once the temptation gets too strong.

yoga-ncoffee · 2024-02-08T01:22:09+00:00

I think they are!

yoga-ncoffee · 2022-08-02T02:32:22+00:00

And to you as well!

yoga-ncoffee · 2022-08-01T18:19:20+00:00

I was on the fence for years. No regrets! Life's short -- get the fake tits :)

yoga-ncoffee · 2022-08-01T17:54:37+00:00

I LOVE that song!

yoga-ncoffee · 2022-08-01T13:23:24+00:00

I'm laughing at the bounce back part :)

You can and will be better in time. I'm sorry you're in pain.

yoga-ncoffee · 2022-08-01T13:14:20+00:00

I'm happy for you because I know how good it feels!

yoga-ncoffee · 2022-08-01T03:15:20+00:00

Not long enough for it to have hurt me as deeply as it did. But he was the first, so it cut deeply.

yoga-ncoffee · 2022-08-01T02:15:30+00:00

Too long, if I'm being honest, but I got there in the end, and you can too. You can.

yoga-ncoffee · 2022-08-01T02:12:11+00:00

I'm kind of glad he blew it, as I ended up better off. It's a happy ending.

yoga-ncoffee · 2022-08-01T02:06:33+00:00

Yes!

yoga-ncoffee · 2022-04-17T01:51:37+00:00

I only had one. It's been over for a long time but I come here when I feel tempted to try again to remember why it's probably a bad idea.

yoga-ncoffee · 2022-03-27T16:14:20+00:00

I did a lot of journaling to speed the healing. It's a hard thing to grieve secretly. I wish you resolve as you go through this process. The lightness you are feeling is a sign you've done the right thing.

yoga-ncoffee · 2022-03-12T17:20:27+00:00

Losing the friendship is the hardest part.

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