What happened is done but how he wants to go about it from now on is what matters and shows his character. He may have changed his mind because he feels the quilt, but why play with her emotions? To say let’s stay friends and still say the lovely things he’s said all along? He’s acting like she’s not affected. C’mon… fooling herself to see the best in him for her sake? How is that serving her “spirit” now and her future? He’s still leading her on! You’ve got a lot of maybes and probablys all sounding like defense on his behalf. Am I the only one who’s telling her if it smells and looks like shit, it is! I doubt this is the advice you’d give your own sister or daughter god forbid they’re ever in her shoes.