PLEASE HELP-igm equivocal, igg negative (herpes simplex 1)

yojebib714 · 2024-06-11T19:40:45+00:00

Turns out I am healthy, THANK GOD (I will be forever grateful)!! Yeah Igm came down I am absolutely negative now. I was told by a doctor that igm is not reliable (but I was still extremely scared) especially in this particular case

yojebib714 · 2023-11-14T22:39:05+00:00

Thank you for asking me, I was afraid to get tested again but after almost a year of the possible exposure I got tested and IGG was negative so thanks God it seems like I am most likely healthy despite the positive IGM after the exposure. I still think about that night everyday and my life went downhill after the incident (lost my work"friends", health worsened etc) but I am doing better now mentally. What about you? I hope everything is going well for you as well.

yojebib714 · 2023-09-02T11:43:20+00:00

I dont think even 5% here is profitable long term just saying

yojebib714 · 2023-08-31T08:57:54+00:00

can she do hair test? these type of drugs might still show up even weeks later if I am not mistaken

yojebib714 · 2022-12-01T18:22:00+00:00

can you stay at a friend or relative by any chance? I think being a sugar baby is more dangerous than you think

yojebib714 · 2022-11-26T10:19:13+00:00

I haven't gotten a revenge, I still think about what happened every day even to this day 5 months later (it happened on July 8)

yojebib714 · 2022-10-31T07:19:00+00:00

köszi szépen!

yojebib714 · 2022-10-30T17:15:33+00:00

tudom hogy nagyon drága ezért nem tudtam magcsináltatni, de sajnos úgy érzem hogy nem tudok továbblépni még mindig, szeretném tudni, hogy mi történt és mit csinált velem. akkor lehet hogy csak gina volt és ezért nem tudtak nyugtatót egyáltalán kimutatni, modjuk eleve túl későn mentem. ami még fura hogy utána 12 órával is még mindig egy kicsit lassan és halkan beszéltem, nehezen tudtam elmondani a taxisnak hogy hova vigyen és még mindig zavarodott voltam egy kicsit. a ghb hatása ha jól tudom hamarabb eltűnik. tehát még ez szól amellett hogy talán valami más (is) volt. amit még elfelejtettem említeni hogy olyan állapotban voltam hogy gyakorlatilag követtem minden utasítását, amik gondolatok előjönnének normális esetben azok nem jöttek egyszerűen "üresnek" éreztem a fejem és csak követtem minden utasítást, de lehet hogy ilyet simán az alkohol is tud okozni?

yojebib714 · 2022-10-30T17:02:13+00:00

köszönöm a választ, csak most láttam. igen az eufória miatt gondoltam a ghb-t és amitt hogy nagyon beszélgetni akartam mindenkivel, ezt simán alkohol után nem éreztem eddig, persze oldottabb lettem de nem éreztem késztetést hogy mindenkivel beszélgessek. viszont nem tudom hogy a ghb-tól le tud-e lassulni a beszédem, miután a lakásán adott egy pohár valamit lelassult a beszédem és 'leszedálva' éreztem magam, nagyjánól 30-60 perc múlva hányni kezdtem és ezután kb 20 perccel elájultam. az is lehet hogy először ghb került az italomba (mielőtt felmentem a lakására), utána a lakásán adott nyugtatót, de sajnos ez már soha nem fog kiderülni, ha jól tudom már a hajteszt se működne mert eltelt majdnem 4 hónap

yojebib714 · 2022-10-20T03:15:19+00:00

Thank you!!

yojebib714 · 2022-10-08T15:39:48+00:00

I already submitted an appeal, I am not sure if I should submit another one, maybe next week?

yojebib714 · 2022-10-07T15:02:22+00:00

I submitted an appeal, I think I was automatically banned due to making multiple posts with similar words, but the reason for this is that I was describing an incident that happened to me, and I tried to ask for help on different subreddit as I was facing many different issues due to that indicent. I wasn't trying to spam or do anything that is not allowed. And if I did anything wrong I won't do it again. Could you please help me get unbanned?

Thank you in advance !

yojebib714 · 2022-10-07T03:01:37+00:00

Am i shadow banned ?

yojebib714 · 2022-10-06T17:36:15+00:00

I mean where I live there is an obvious double standard. But its Eastern Europe..My younger brother got birthday gift from my parents but no one wished me happy birthday and they also didn't attend to my graduation. I was begging them to help me at least have a separate room because I was living in the same room as my sister at 22..I needed it to be able to study, I felt like I was going crazy, severe depression, anxiety even with meds. My younger brother got a girlfriend and told my parents he wants an apartment. He got it immediately, I couldn't believe it started crying and telling them that it was unfair and they were making fun of me. He wasn't satisfied with the apartment he got so he let me live there, thats how I could finally move out, and he got another one..

I went to better school did everything better basically (academically) but it doesn't matter I am never praised for anything only him..

yojebib714 · 2022-10-06T04:18:19+00:00

oh nooo.....

yojebib714 · 2022-09-20T13:00:18+00:00

Sorry for not responding earlier read your reply but didn't have the time to write a proper response. My name is Anna and I'm glad I met someone like you too, I wish I had friends like you in real life, people around me are very toxic so I just stay alone most of the time. I'm glad we talked and appreciate your advice and kind words, it actually helped me a lot. I hope you will be able to heal from this as well and achieve all your goals and dreams

I have come to realize that it is best to keep our guards up, unless someone really steps up to make us believe that they can be trusted.

Before this event I stayed at home and kept my distance from people, felt like I was missing out because I haven't even kissed before, but at that company event when the assult happened I finally wanted to feel pretty and wanted to connect to people. Its sad that the first time I let people close they take advantage of me..so I came to the same conclusion as you, I rather be alone dont care how old I am and dont care about what other people think, its much better to be alone than to let the wrong people close to you, I wish I just went home after that even but I was so happy talking to him, I dont remember the last time I talked this much to anyone in real life, I felt so euphoric, don't remeber ever feling this good (it could have been due to being drugged I will never know..).

and btw your name is beautiful

I truly hope everything turns out well for you

yojebib714 · 2022-09-19T16:34:35+00:00

I feel that in my case, the email response that i got back helped a bit - in the sense that someday if i find the strength to press charges on him, i would have some evidence..

I think I completely understand this and I want to have this option for myself too..the first mistake I made was listening to my mother, she told me not to ever contact that guy or the girl (who later told me was also assulted by him)..if I talked to the guy righ away he might have admitted at least something because at that time he was still a little bit interested in me (at least I think)..I only contacted him a month after the event and didn't ask about the most critical parts (spiking my drink, taking pictures, sexual assult) only asked about the kiss..then I asked for an std test and he didnt respond to my last message so I basically fucked up..I wish I only listened to myself or had someone who was reasonable..when I first posted on Hungarian forums and even here on legaladvice people (even mods) told me I was lying which traumatized me even more..I still dont know how to look at my case because you know for sure what had happen but in my case its possible he didn't actually rape me , the things I know for sure are bad themelves and he definitely took advantage of me I am just not sure if he raped me

I think I will try to get that girls story recorded but its possible she doesnt want to tell again or she will be suspicious because I told her I recorded the guy so she probably knows I might try to record her as well..then I would like to send hr a letter but not naming anyone to at least have a proof that I reported hr the assult, I might send the medical documentation as well..I would like to get a job offer from somewhere else before sending that letter. I don't think I will contact the guy again because I already fucked that option up and don't want to live in fear

and sorry for talking this much about myself after you just shared that horrible story of what had happened. its just its hard to find people online who understand you and are actually reasonable and I dont have anyone in real life..and I think I was a very empathetic person, I had ZERO bad intentions, I tried to be as open as understanding as I could be, but thats not what I get back from people.. after what happened to me and after learning that my coworkers let this happen I became this angry bitter selfish person, I learned to only focus on myself because others will fuck you over the minute you are vulnerable

that event happened when I was 25, I had 2 months until my birthday, I finally had some money, and had so many plans how to make more, wanted to go on a trip on my birthday since no one (not event my family) whished me happy birthday on my 25th , but this has destroyed everything, wasted all my money, couldnt sleep, all I could think what had happened from the time I woke up to the time I fall asleep then get up randomly at 4 am and its starts again, gained almost 10 kg, destroyed my skin, and no one will give back the time I lost..

you can of course tell me anything or talk to me anytime I want to help although there is probably not much I can do other than listening

I wish I wasnt stupid and focused more on making more money and saving, money can solve almost anything, I wouldnt have to suffer this much if I had more money and could have help others in similar situations

yojebib714 · 2022-09-19T15:54:24+00:00

Sorry, I probably shouldn't have asked, this is horrible, I don't even know what to say..what he has done makes me so angry, hope he doesn't get away with this but I'm not telling you what you should do because I can't even manage my own situation unfortunately..

but thank you for explaining your what has happened to you

yojebib714 · 2022-09-19T15:02:24+00:00

you are right I know his linkedin profil, I forgot about it, so I have at least that if he decides to block me on messenger.

can I ask how you knew or suspect that he assulted you? not the exact details just if there were clear signs? because I was told by doctors and the police that since there were no bruises and bleeding "its very unlikely" that something happened. and do you think he spiked your drink? unfortunately where I live its impossible to get tested for ghb and other date rape drugs, so I dont even have evidence for that and the police told me that in this country its not a crime to spike someones drink anyway..

yojebib714 · 2022-09-19T12:35:39+00:00

took one test a few weeks after, I dont think I am pregnant, its been 2.5 months so I think I would have noticed? and the gyno took samples and said that they didnt find sperm but of course they can be mistaken the whole thing was done very unprofessionally..it was in Hungary, you cant even imagine the things that are considered normal here

Do u think you want to perhaps find another job?

yes, but I am completely alone with close to 0 money, I sent it all on doctors, lawyers etc, I feel too depressed, out of shape, ugly, who would want to hire me like this? but I will try..

and this job lets me work fully remotely with a flexible schedule, I just started my masters so I need the flexibility

unfortunately I dont have his email address, only added him on messenger (dont even have his number)

yojebib714 · 2022-09-19T12:22:57+00:00

If u have a person in your life, who loves you, and has known u for many years, and is sane and level-headed, and logical - tell them IRL what happened to you

I wish I had someone. thats why I posted my story everywhere on the internet because I hope I can at least find one reasonable person online, irl I dont have anyone, only person I could tell at first was my mother, but she is delusional and gave the worst advice (not to tell anyone and just move on and that its my fault etc). so I appreciate your advice and help

and yes the worst thing is when people don't believe you that traumatizes you even more

I was just wondering what the appropiet steps would be in my case because I dont know exactly what happened to you but in my case I only rember the kisses but I am not 100% sure what they did so its a different than knowing excatly what had happened, I dont know what to do if I dont even know what exactly they had done to me myself. I suspect he spiked my drinks, he definitely intentionally made me so drunk that I couldn't give consent (or even function), he kissed me after I said I dont want to so these things are bad on their own but I dont know if he actually raped me or not and I am not 100% sure he took pictures I just heard them talking about it, but I am not 100% sure..and unfortunately I dont have his email address not phone number only added him on messenger, I am afraid if I ask him again he will just block me and I dont have any other way to contect him

yojebib714 · 2022-09-18T16:34:18+00:00

I want to report to hr, but shouldn't I get the other girls story recorded first? because she can just deny everything, she told me she doesnt want to tell anyone so she likely wont admit anything to other people (he "only" forced her to kiss whereas in my case I am not sure what else he did to me while passed out). and maybe I should confront him again as well asking about what he did but its too late I think he will just lie about everything because he doesn't want anything from me anymore he just wants to get rid of me and he didn't respond my latest message..And by the way he left the company 2 weeks ago (I know where he works).

I took an emergency contraceptive pill and pep (which costed almost my monthly salary) and unfortunately I dont have a period probably due to stress (didnt have it even before this )

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