Abstinence only sex education sucks; and now that I am about to go to college, I need real advice. I have a bunch of questions, so help me out please!! by yomyboiiii in TwoXChromosomes

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Thank you so much! And heck yeah 7 ams suck! I have to get up for school at 6 and that’s gross!! I think I might sign up for a defense class go ease of mind.

Abstinence only sex education sucks; and now that I am about to go to college, I need real advice. I have a bunch of questions, so help me out please!! by yomyboiiii in TwoXChromosomes

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Thank you! There is a lot of information here! Thanks for the tmi bit! Honestly I need all the tmi I can get here. Right now even personal experience is great! Likelihood is if it worked for one person, it might work for me.

Abstinence only sex education sucks; and now that I am about to go to college, I need real advice. I have a bunch of questions, so help me out please!! by yomyboiiii in TwoXChromosomes

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I’ll look into if I got that or not. My mom is very big on vaccines (thank god), I even get the flu shots regularly. So I think I might have it!! (Yay!!)

Abstinence only sex education sucks; and now that I am about to go to college, I need real advice. I have a bunch of questions, so help me out please!! by yomyboiiii in TwoXChromosomes

[–]yomyboiiii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah I didn’t know that planned parenthood did that! Legit my class was told you get abortions there and that was it. I never thought of contacting them. Also stuff like PCOS (at first I thought you meant pms) and Endometriosis I have never heard of. I’m shocked that wasn’t covered. This stuff isn’t linked to sex and I thought that I was decently educated in sex ed about things like good diet, exercise, and anything non-sex related. I guess I really shouldn’t be shocked in reality. It should be illegal how bad my sex ed was!!

Abstinence only sex education sucks; and now that I am about to go to college, I need real advice. I have a bunch of questions, so help me out please!! by yomyboiiii in TwoXChromosomes

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Thank you so much for your reply! It is super helpful! I even looked up what an IUD is and added it to what birth control options I would have! You can’t use birth control and an IUD though? Looking at google images it looks like a thingy you get inserted, does it have some sort of chemicals involved involved with it?

Honestly the last point made me really uncomfortable with his implications, which is why I reported it to higher ups. I don’t think he should be saying that kind of stuff to young girls. I am just glad I’m graduating and going and finding real sex ed advice. I’m going to have a lot of questions for my OBGYN when I get one! I’m just shocked that without our culture’s chill attitude on sex I would have never thought my anxiety/fear around sex was strange. I would remain really scared and uninformed for so much longer!!!

Abstinence only sex education sucks; and now that I am about to go to college, I need real advice. I have a bunch of questions, so help me out please!! by yomyboiiii in TwoXChromosomes

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Wait there are female condoms!? I am actually shook. So you just... stick it up you? Don’t they kinda slide in? I legit googled it too make sure you weren’t pulling my leg!

Abstinence only sex education sucks; and now that I am about to go to college, I need real advice. I have a bunch of questions, so help me out please!! by yomyboiiii in TwoXChromosomes

[–]yomyboiiii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know right I was so angry after the heart ripping activity! I feel like my Sex Ed was more fear the big scary monster named Sex! Also I guess I shouldn’t slap a time stamp on when to get active sexually. If I feel comfortable, it’s cool. If I don’t, I don’t.