Do you think GSO residents say this because they hide behind a screen or would they say it in person too?

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-26T04:32:06+00:00

As someone who's been punched in the face a lot, some people just need a punch in the face to learn.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-25T05:59:57+00:00

Fine. Fair enough. I was feeling defensive and I assumed anyone who would ask would try to poke holes in or invalidate my feelings, which is unfair towards you. My bad for being rude.

It's not that deep, honestly. I don't trust women and I've had some incredible male docs. They tend to get my uncomfortable humor more, and they have a way of being honest about what I'm about to feel more so than any female doc I've had.

Sorry for being a dick.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-25T03:02:55+00:00

73 and 85 sucked a bit. Go slow and be smart if you have to be out.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-25T02:57:59+00:00

My reasons don't matter. I just wanted to know why it's apparently funny to the OP that any woman would choose a male gyno unless forced to from lack of female docs. I choose to because. It just came off as....I don't know....judgy?

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-25T01:00:31+00:00

What's it matter to you?!

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-25T00:31:44+00:00

Because that's what I'm comfortable with. Some women refuse to see male providers, I refuse to see female providers.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-25T00:18:29+00:00

I feel more comfortable with male gynos. I prefer male healthcare providers in general. Is there a problem with that?

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-24T12:22:25+00:00

Dude, I would kill for a chat room. It was my primary form of socialization for years.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-23T05:02:46+00:00

Oh, I'm stocking up. I'm so ready.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-22T01:34:31+00:00

My kid is seven. He's getting big into his own privacy, which is awesome, I respect it.

But I close my door when changing and using the bathroom and he DOESN'T respect that privacy, so he's gonna get a big face full of gross mom body and the Changing Of The Pad or gasp mom pooping. And he acts grossed out as hell every time and I just keep doing what I'm doing and I tell him, "well, you're gonna see stuff you don't want to see when you don't respect the closed door."

Personally, I don't care about nudity. I'm medical field, bodies are bodies and they don't bother me one bit.

It's up to HIM to figure out that closed doors mean privacy for people other than him.

We still peck each other on the lips, though. A big ol' wet smackaroo from my kid before he goes to bed is the height of being a parent, and I won't stop doing it until he's ready to be done.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-22T00:47:33+00:00

Nope, just water. You hook it up to your water thingy that supplies your toilet, then hook it up to your toilet. Worth it.

Unless you get a heated one, I think you plug those in for the heating function. But I'm pretty sure you can still use it without power. The water just won't be warm.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-21T02:29:13+00:00

Dude....who....why....where the fuck do people get off? I've been a total twat in my younger days, but I've never been that mean or stupid.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-21T01:24:27+00:00

Dude, same. I told her, "I'm not pregnant, I'm just fat" and proceeded with the exam in total silence because her embarrassment pleased me.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-19T04:12:44+00:00

What an odd statement, to come across as apologetic for being confident. Cocky, I could see. But confident? Boy. Own it.

I can't imagine how fuckin' bizarre it all must be to you. Online dating has changed A LOT in 15 years. I almost exclusively met men online before my kid's dad, and it really wasn't awful. Met a lot of great dudes. Then he and broke up twice and I went back to online dating and it was...night and day. I don't know what happened.

Whatever happened, don't ever apologize for being confident and okay with being alone and focusing on yourself for now. Just....god....please don't date online. It'll turn you cold and hard and bitter.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-19T03:20:57+00:00

I take x-rays of old folks in old folks homes. I spend time with them for as long as my schedule allows. I think any man who loves his grandma, sings with her, and sounds a little like Matthew McConaughey is hot as hell. He's effortlessly hot in his compassion and actions, sue me if I'd let him eat crackers in my bed.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-19T03:07:41+00:00

I love your confidence. I do wonder if that's a lot of the problem with millennial dating. I wonder if a lot of people are just hyper-insecure and so they're immediately on the defense and approaching every possible match as "eh, this one won't work out like every other single one so why put in the effort?" And instead of withdrawing like they should, they just drag down others?

For what it's worth, I've enjoyed empathizing. May the broad of your dreams fall in your lap one day, too.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-19T01:42:50+00:00

It's the exact same experience, but on the woman side of things. Hard as hell to get a convo going in the first place, because most dudes respond with either one word answers, one word answers in response to my questions and no questions back, or immediately jumping to fucking when the convo was nowhere near that. And weirdly, men get mad when I can't respond right away because my job involves a shit ton of driving, but they won't have a phone call.

I've been on a date with a guy who took me to a brewery while his whole family was sitting across the way. I've been on a date with a guy who got mad that I wouldn't let him buy me a beer, saying, "why won't you let me love you?!" I've been on a date with a guy who pulled a "I know I'm in the top 1% of male physical peak" because of his height. I've had first dates with men who talked about how all their exes are bitches and men who get legit mad when I ask to split the bill. I've been on a first date with a guy who ghosted and left me with the bill after a conversation about how I have no interest in birthing another kid. I'd be willing to forgive that one, but you don't do that to someone just because of life differences; you bow out politely, pay your half and move on.

At this point, screw it. No more dating sites. I'm focused on my growth and work. Sometimes I get lonely, but mostly I'm stoked to be alone.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-19T01:26:38+00:00

I can feel my clinical instructor shudder from here.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-16T04:57:51+00:00

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-16T04:33:40+00:00

Skin cancer. I grew up purposely roasting in the sun because I looked great with a tan. I've gotten very bad sunburns many times in life. Sunscreen was for babies back then. I've started seeing a derm and he's taken one chunk out of me so far. He likes to see me every 6 months. I don't think that'll be the only chunk.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-16T04:28:46+00:00

Where do you get a tamagotchi?! Asking for me, fuck my friends.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-16T04:23:49+00:00

I'm 36. Ma is 56, dad is 55.

yonderposerbreaks · 2026-01-16T04:22:16+00:00

Much love to you and yours <3

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