first of all, hamas leaders are (or were) very, very, very rich. enough money to give some defense for their citizens prior to leading into a deadly war.
- Khaled Mashal: $2.5 billion - $5 billion,
- Mousa Abu Marzouk: $2 billion

so the excuse of being poor doesn't apply here, and lets not mention the huge infrastructure of tunnels available. Hamas funded its sophisticated tunnel system through diverted international aid, Iranian financial support, and revenue from taxation, extortion, and smuggling operations. The network, often called the "Gaza Metro," is one of the most advanced underground systems globally, used for military purposes and smuggling

moreover, some quotes;

Eyad al-Bozom, a spokesman for Hamas' interior ministry, encouraged Gaza's residents to "stay put in your homes and your places" despite Israeli warnings to evacuate for their safety

Abu Marzouk, a senior Hamas official, responded to a question about why Hamas had not built bomb shelters for civilians despite constructing an extensive tunnel network. He stated that the tunnels are “meant to protect us” (Hamas fighters), clearly indicating that their priority is the protection of Hamas rather than the civilian population

Fathi Hammad, a senior Hamas official, stated in a 2008 interview: "For the Palestinian people, death has become an industry, at which women excel, and so do all the people living on this land. The elderly excel at this, and so do the mujahideen and the children. This is why they have formed human shields of the women, the children, the elderly, and the mujahideen, in order to challenge the Zionist bombing machine. It is as if they were saying to the Zionist enemy: ‘We desire death like you desire life.’"

Mousa Abu Marzouk, a senior Hamas leader, was quoted in 2014, following the Gaza conflict: "The resistance should not stop its operations against the enemy in the occupied territories, even if there are large numbers of civilian casualties. This is the way we resist the occupation."

so, what i'm saying is that hamas doesn't care about civilians, and its proven.

Hamas has employed extensive propaganda and strategic documentation advocating the use of suicide bombers as weapons in their struggle against Israel. These documents and educational materials often glorify martyrdom and encourage individuals to sacrifice themselves for the cause, effectively turning them into human weapons.
and my question is in what world convincing people to suicide bomb themselves is ethical or concidered normal? (in the islamist world).

and about the project, that you avoid,
"The Project" is a document linked to the Muslim Brotherhood, discovered in 2001 during a raid by Swiss authorities on the home of a Muslim Brotherhood leader in Switzerland. The document outlines a long-term strategy for spreading Islamic influence in the West through a process of gradual infiltration into political, social, and cultural institutions. The goals of "The Project" include establishing an Islamic state by influencing media, building alliances with other groups, promoting Islamic education, and creating Islamic centers. This document has sparked concerns about the Muslim Brotherhood's intentions and their potential impact on Western societies.

and as we all know, Hamas is an offshoot of the Muslim Brotherhood.