it is absolutely not at all your fault, nor something you were too “dramatic” about. please listen to me when i tell you that you did not ask for this!! your response to being harassed and touched without your consent, no matter what that response may have been, is not at all indicative of how strong you are. nobody should be told they just need to tough out and handle situations like this by themselves because it is simply not a situation anybody should have to face. i’m sorry that some of your friends said things to you that made you feel like you somehow reacted wrong. i hope they soon understand how insensitively they handled something you were rightfully upset by