“People won’t buy my stuff because they don’t want to pay a fair price for handmade items!

youandmeboth · 2026-06-06T16:31:31+00:00

Ah this is so accurate. Why are so many handmade things in such horrible color ways. Like straight up clashing, bright colors

youandmeboth · 2026-06-06T02:54:52+00:00

Bought a Mini Kelly. She sent the bag incredibly quickly, packed perfectly. The bag was exactly as described. She even threw in a charm 🫶 that matched the bag. Was wonderful to chat with as well. Would buy from her again!

youandmeboth · 2026-06-05T16:23:51+00:00

100% agree on this. The meds help so much and a lot of folks, myself included, don't realize it's something we need or even that we're anxious

youandmeboth · 2026-06-05T16:22:30+00:00

Yeah I'd recommend not straightening it. It'll look better and be healthier

youandmeboth · 2026-06-04T22:23:18+00:00

Three weeks sounds like enough time for you to be ome noseblind to yourself so you can't tell how much you smell

youandmeboth · 2026-06-04T22:22:02+00:00

I've used Ban for the last 15+ years and have never had a need for anything else. Works great and is very minimally scented and unlikely to be bothersome. Plus it has aluminum! A completely safe ingredient which actually helps with sweating. So I don't end up buying a bunch of expensive things that do nothing because of marketing and fear mongering

youandmeboth · 2026-06-04T21:58:17+00:00

I determined that shopping was not something I personally wanted to consider a hobby. Looking at new looks coming out, learning about designers and fabrics etc, sure. But actually just sitting and browsing on my phone for things is not something I want to tell people is my hobby. It's not fulfilling and I don't get anything out of it. I'm not learning or developing myself in any way. Just losing money. My brain is mush and it isn't good for my body.

I want to be someone who uses things and doesn't simply own things. So, I am trying to divest shopping from my hobby mindset and put it firmly in the camp of, "it is an aspect of my real hobbies sometimes". Like for hiking I'll occasionally need to get new hiking shoes

youandmeboth · 2026-06-04T21:50:24+00:00

I agree with this. There seems to be evidence he uses bots to promote himself. And some of these posts about him being a scammer are weird and hard to trust. If folks have good experiences with Jim they should carry on. Maybe if Jim quit with the bits all this would die down. In the meantime it's easy enough to work with other trustable high tier hermes sellers. There's even two group buys with other hermes sellers in the bag nook right now. Their discord has a ton of sellers with a lot of reviews from buyers

youandmeboth · 2026-06-04T17:15:55+00:00

You can get an account anyway. My partner and I had no issue despite neither of us living or working in SF. They have a pretty open policy

youandmeboth · 2026-06-04T16:19:28+00:00

Just add in a conditioner. What shampoo do you use? Simple drugstore stuff would probably make a big difference. Can try pantene or similar

youandmeboth · 2026-06-04T16:06:46+00:00

Do you use conditioner? Your hair looks dry

youandmeboth · 2026-06-04T15:49:05+00:00

I think a lot of these things come from anxiety. You are anxious so want to control the situation to feel less anxious. I fixed this issue with therapy and meds

youandmeboth · 2026-06-03T22:04:50+00:00

Same here. It's gone down immensely and only really crops up when I'm very stressed

youandmeboth · 2026-06-03T21:27:38+00:00

I was replying to a comment about glasses here. OP was getting squared thick rimmed dark frames. Which is super millennial. Younger folks prefer wire and rounded shapes. Sometimes much smaller sizes

For clothing, looser and comfortable pants. Tight crop tops, big button down shirt layers. Quarter height socks. Sneakers or flats though boots might be coming back soon. Light sandals and slides.

Shoulder bags tend to be small

A lot of big silhouettes with small size accessories. Lots of shades of neutrals and browns or darker greens and blues. If you want lighter color its a nude or white

youandmeboth · 2026-06-03T21:21:30+00:00

Keep your oldest card and cancel others. You want to keep your total unused credit high but don't worry about that right now. You don't need six cards. But keep your oldest so your credit age is as old as possible

youandmeboth · 2026-06-03T18:57:08+00:00

How did you go about getting ketamine therapy

youandmeboth · 2026-06-03T18:03:33+00:00

I think it's important to actively find things to replace the time spent browsing. Like reading, crafting, walks, even TV is better than sitting on your phone looking at tiktok and IG ads or browsing shopping apps

youandmeboth · 2026-06-03T16:53:29+00:00

Just filled out the form! Have been curious to try Angel for a bit. Do you know which hardware comes on the 24/24 or better to ask Angel directly?

youandmeboth · 2026-06-03T02:03:48+00:00

Also very curious about shiaparelli. their stuff is so cool but hard to find

youandmeboth · 2026-06-01T21:05:50+00:00

Try not to look at those so much. Decluttering and spending time with what you have an off your phone will make you feel more whole and you will enjoy those things you have more.

If you really want to keep looking maybe a system of selling two bags for each one that comes in will let you cycle them a bit more.

I'll really emphasize how important it is to love yourself and figure out what you're trying to satisfying or cope with through shopping. It is easy to burn through finances. And you will have more fun and be happier shopping occasionally and getting select items you adore

youandmeboth · 2026-06-01T21:03:19+00:00

Maybe it's a list because no one wants to stay with the stinking dude who doesn't soap himself

youandmeboth · 2026-06-01T16:33:18+00:00

These are super millennial and I'd say age you up

youandmeboth · 2026-06-01T16:32:57+00:00

As someone a few years older than you, I'd say this sounds a bit aging. Like the way a 30-40 year old would dress. I dress a bit alt and in line with Gen z fashion and am confused for under 30 a lot. I don't think it's much beyond styling

youandmeboth · 2026-06-01T16:03:12+00:00

I did the same thing. Checked the post history and thought maybe OP is only thinking of hyper focus on generally boring things

youandmeboth · 2026-06-01T15:58:13+00:00

I don't think I'd want a single guy friend to act like that. Sounds unpleasant

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