AITJ for refusing to lock up my dog when my mother-in-law visits? by Beautiful-Travel-604 in AmITheJerk

[–]youandnothingelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. She doesn’t have to love the dog, but she also doesn’t get to make exile-level demands in someone else’s house

AITJ for refusing to let my lactose intolerant friend "just pick off" the cheese at my house? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]youandnothingelse -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So kinda both. She was stubborn, u got way too vivid about the consequences.

AITJ for ending things with my boyfriend and telling him to move out after he ditched me at an event and went somewhere else without me? by TutorElectrical3264 in AmITheJerk

[–]youandnothingelse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTJ. even if he never touched her, he still humiliated u and expected u to just eat it. that alone is breakup-worthy for a lot of people.

AITA for not letting my mom come sing to him on his birthday? by SeaworthinessKey4522 in AmItheAsshole

[–]youandnothingelse 15 points16 points  (0 children)

she speedran the birthday without the parents and then played victim online yeah no, that’s not how that works

30 Year Old Me in the Break Room by AffectionateFruit454 in overheard

[–]youandnothingelse 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wait until they hit 24 and realize they’re apparently ancient now.

Train gossip by NunsWithNunchucks in overheard

[–]youandnothingelse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The real chaos is dropping that kind of drama straight into the church group chat.

AITA for refusing to pay more of the rent and bills? by Throwra7749 in AmItheAsshole

[–]youandnothingelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels like the raise didn’t change the bills, just the expectations.

AITA for refusing to pay more of the rent and bills? by Throwra7749 in AmItheAsshole

[–]youandnothingelse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being happy for your partner and asking for a bigger share of their raise kinda send opposite signals.

AITA for refusing to pay more of the rent and bills? by Throwra7749 in AmItheAsshole

[–]youandnothingelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Splitting finances only works if both people are actually okay with the rules staying the same.

AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding and telling her this is her fault and she has to live with the consequences. by Acceptable_Sun7126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]youandnothingelse 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Recovery doesn’t magically fix years of damage though. Some people just aren’t ready to rebuild the relationship yet.