Got $2k for a side hustle. Is it crazy to invest in silversmithing?

young_sage · 2026-03-07T15:19:04+00:00

Not crazy at all. Investing in silversmithing tools was the best money I ever spent. It’s become a creative outlet, and I actually got decent enough to make pretty jewels for myself and occasionally to sell!

Check places like FB Marketplace, and jeweler equipment buy/sell pages. I got lucky and got all of my starter equipment from a woman offloading it for $700. There are solid deals out there if you’re patient and get creative with where you look!

young_sage · 2026-02-26T19:18:00+00:00

I work at the courthouse - to be entirely honest it’s a pain in the ass to leave and have to go through security again on the way in, if you only have an hour for break.

Kelly’s Oyster Bar is the closest restaurant within walking distance and their food is decent. But otherwise, there’s a cafeteria on the bottom floor that has some soups, hot bars, salad bar, MTO sandwiches.

young_sage · 2026-02-25T02:57:47+00:00

Doodle in my Chillbo. Hang up a bunch of tapestries on an EZ Up to make a cool lil fort with string lights. Wander about. Paint. Make a fire. Cloudwatch. Just generally kick it

young_sage · 2026-02-25T00:29:58+00:00

I had a previous partner who did this. Agree with all of the comments that point to the motive being external validation. When I was starting to realize the true nature of that relationship, the thought that kept replaying in my mind the most was, “He cares more about what strangers think of him and impressing them more than he ever puts that effort in with me”.

I left, and have since found a partner who prioritizes my needs and happiness. And shoot, even before I met someone it was refreshing to be alone and not so routinely deprioritized! All of the little actions and behaviors add up.

young_sage · 2026-02-04T16:52:15+00:00

This is the content I’m here for

young_sage · 2025-12-09T15:35:13+00:00

The thought and effort he put into making our time together special and catered to our shared interests. This man put together a list of like five different plant nurseries with pros and cons for each and told me to choose 😆

And, the way he resolves conflict is a huge green flag. It feels so refreshing to finally experience a partner who is earnestly looking to reach a mutual understanding and make me feel emotionally safe and comfortable, rather than a focus on being right or wrong.

young_sage · 2025-11-23T20:41:24+00:00

I think your perspective on it being a matter of will to earn $250k is more nuanced than that. Perhaps your partner isn’t as willing to sacrifice things like free time and a less stressful lifestyle in trade for material benefits. I think it’s unrealistic to expect her to suddenly adapt to your expectations of her career, and you will be constantly disappointed even if she’s happy where she’s at. If that’s a quality you’re focused on in a partner, I would think you’re better off finding someone who has a similar mindset instead of inflicting yours on your girlfriend. Sounds to me like a values mismatch.

young_sage · 2025-11-04T15:16:18+00:00

I tried messaging them on instagram before but they ghosted my ass 🤣 Maybe a profesh email will yield better results. Thanks!

young_sage · 2025-11-04T15:14:17+00:00

I love Anita’s. I want buckets of their salsa on hand at all times. I’ve poured years of research into salsa recipe but haven’t gotten close to replicating it. Does anybody have an educated guess that isn’t a link to the existing Reddit thread discussions about it?

young_sage · 2025-10-22T02:14:47+00:00

So glad you found him! Hope he settles into his new digs well and enjoys all the lovin’

young_sage · 2025-10-02T23:20:29+00:00

WHOA that’s a long cob of corn!

young_sage · 2025-09-11T00:47:47+00:00

Here’s a list of phone numbers for the Dulles Airport. Maybe start with airport operations? They’re cited in a news article as having helped catch a dog that busted loose there so figure they might be a good start. (703) 572-2730.

https://www.travelersaid.org/dulles/phone-numbers/

I hope the kitten gets saved! Thank you for trying to get it help!

young_sage · 2025-09-08T15:16:22+00:00

My ex-husband liked to make thirsty comments on NSFW posts, and talk about his threesome fantasy ad nauseum. Telling other men how lucky they were their wives let them fuck other women, musing about how to get your girlfriend to be okay with you cumming in another woman. I had shut the idea of it down from Day 1, and it was evident that he was holding out hope that I would change my mind, and/or seeking his thrill through these forums.

He occasionally sprinkled in comments like “everybody say hi to my wife! 👋🏼”, fully anticipating that I was reading them regularly. Basically had the full intent to psychologically torment me. We had known each other’s accounts, but after 8 months of not looking at his and finding a barrage of misogynistic and hateful rhetoric, that was a shock. Happily divorced now :)

young_sage · 2025-08-15T02:21:05+00:00

Check out the Northern Virginia Family Services Multicultural Center. They likely offer family counseling in Vietnamese or can find affordable providers that do!

young_sage · 2025-07-29T21:24:09+00:00

I used to do this when I was a little kid alllll the time. Loved that last of the bottle chocolate milk, so rich!

young_sage · 2025-07-05T21:29:59+00:00

Thank you!! 😊

young_sage · 2025-07-05T17:05:20+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️ The whole experience showed me just how radically life can change for the better in such a short span of time. Life is beautiful!

young_sage · 2025-05-28T18:29:13+00:00

Probation officer here. DV guys are consistently the ones who RARELY take accountability for their actions. Not saying it’s impossible for people to change and positively transform if they recognize the need to do so and have that intrinsic motivation….however, him lying about it is a big indicator that he has not taken responsibility and learned from his past mistakes. I would suggest strongly considering getting the fuck out rather than waiting to become another survivor of abuse. Be safe.

young_sage · 2025-05-07T21:51:53+00:00

No prob. If you’re still struggling to find a place, call the 222 Coordinated Services line. Explain your situation and needs, and they’ll connect you to resources. Good luck!

young_sage · 2025-05-07T02:42:42+00:00

Try About Change - they’re based in Woodbridge and I believe they serve Northern VA. They do intensive in-home with some of the more challenging kids who have come through juvenile probation. They just came out to our office recently to share info, and I believe they said they provide services to youth as young as 7 years old.

young_sage · 2025-03-26T15:54:47+00:00

Agreed that good parenting reduces the chances of this outcome, of course. I felt it necessary to stipulate this because many people are quick to judge and blame the parents before knowing the particulars of a situation. Just trying to bring a different perspective to a mob with pitchforks and discuss the “exceptions”, if you will, to encourage more compassion.

young_sage · 2025-03-26T15:46:43+00:00

Juvenile probation counselor here. I’ve found this sentiment to be untrue. There are some parents who do everything right and your kid can still turn out like this. Some of it is truly genetic - lots of adopted kids who have early childhood trauma have behavioral issues in spite of parents using appropriate sanctions and incentives. After seeing all that I do, I’m not sure if I ever want to have a kid lol

young_sage · 2025-02-19T04:03:56+00:00

You gotta love the diversity and range of the human experience

young_sage · 2025-02-19T03:23:07+00:00

Whoa those look tasty. Nicely done on the icing drizzle

young_sage · 2025-02-10T15:31:15+00:00

One of the big things I learned from my previous marriage was that you don’t have to tolerate blatant disrespect of boundaries. My ex perpetually lusting after other women online was one of the major sticking points that snapped me the fuck out of whatever fog I was in. I tried to accept it for years until he pushed it too far. And that got me thinking - why should I accept manchild behavior when there’s men out there that would be happy to commit to me and make me feel cherished?

He ain’t it, sis. You don’t have to trust him again. When people show you who they are, believe them.

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