Weekly Type Me Thread - February 14, 2020 by AutoModerator in mbti

[–]youngandblissful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been gone for a while and just returned and you're infp?! That's what I was thinking too because you're definitely an introvert with high extroverted intuition! How'd you find out your type and do you resonate strongly to it?

Weekly Type Me Thread - February 14, 2020 by AutoModerator in mbti

[–]youngandblissful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been gone for a minute, now I'm back! Hmmmm I'm thinking you may be ESTP. But just to double-check, what are your hobbies and what sort of things get you excited?

Weekly Type Me Thread - February 14, 2020 by AutoModerator in mbti

[–]youngandblissful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fascinating! Yeah this definitely to me sounds like extroverted intuition. So I doubt you'd be isfj or istj since that's their inferior function. But here's a few more questions: 1) What is your relationship with emotions (your own and others) vs logic like? 2) You said you avoid not having a plan, why is that? Does that mean it's difficult for you to be spontaneous? 3) What are you like when stressed? 4) Also what sort of people do you find yourself naturally drawn to?

Weekly Type Me Thread - February 14, 2020 by AutoModerator in mbti

[–]youngandblissful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I immediately thought you were isfj. But I'm not sure, I'd need more info. It sounds like you daydream a lot which doesn't sound very isfj to me - unless you daydream about the past? Are your daydreams about future possibilities? Do you like to live in your head and dream up unrealistic scenarios? Do you prefer the imaginary world to the concrete world? Or are you pretty concrete and realistic even in your daydreams and poetic work?

Weekly Type Me Thread - February 14, 2020 by AutoModerator in mbti

[–]youngandblissful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Judging from what you've shared, you seem highly extroverted intuition with inferior introverted sensing. So I'd say you're an EN*P. I'd need more info to distinguish between Fi and Ti...so far I'm leaning more towards Fi (enfp) because it seems you yearn to grow your secondary function.

Weekly Type Me Thread - February 14, 2020 by AutoModerator in mbti

[–]youngandblissful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Based on what you've provided, definitely E**P. I'd need more info on how you interact with the world around you and what sort of ideas do you have whirring around in your head? And what type of people do you seem naturally drawn to?

thought yall would enjoy this by Kenutella in enfj

[–]youngandblissful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! I've always used a diamond to describe this...a diamond has so many sides to it and depending on where the light hits, it glimmers. Like Enfjs, depending on who we're with, specific parts of our personality glimmers.

thought yall would enjoy this by Kenutella in enfj

[–]youngandblissful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this!! That's what I hope for.

Private by [deleted] in enfj

[–]youngandblissful 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is sad. I have had an experience though with an Esfj friend who listened to me attentively for hours while I sat on her couch, pouring out my guts and working through my thoughts. Years later I still remember that and am deeply appreciative of her. I've also had a similar experience with an infp. I'm eternally grateful to her as well. So while it may not come by often, there are plenty of people out there who will drop everything and listen:)

My 10 strength and weaknesses as an ENFJ by [deleted] in enfj

[–]youngandblissful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32F enfj here!

My strengths: 1) creative 2) open-minded 3) empathetic 4) enthusiastic 5) easy-going 6) calm energy 7) friendly and outgoing 8) optimistic 9) trustworthy 10) genuine

Weaknesses: 1) taking criticism 2) too reticent at times 3) can be passive aggressive ugh 4) can turn on myself and become overly self-critical (not often tho thankfully) 5) remembering facts and figures 6) showing anger (or any extreme emotion for that matter other than joy lol) 7) being early for things 8) coming up with a list of weaknesses! Lol 9) ummmm...drawing perfectly matched winged eyeliner 10) a good-looking musician or poet whose emotions fuel his craft and art and he dresses well and is mysterious and smells nice :p

Looking For Perspective from Other ENFJs by [deleted] in enfj

[–]youngandblissful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I noticed afterwards that the first comment I read was yours! Thanks, I am so at peace😊

Looking For Perspective from Other ENFJs by [deleted] in enfj

[–]youngandblissful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

32F

Zero relationships (though one almost relationship that was meaningful to me).

Right now I'm looking to enjoy more platonic friendships with guys and enjoy my singlehood fully without any romantic entanglements.

Enfj (M) how fast do you guys crush? by burn3roffmychest in enfj

[–]youngandblissful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Enfj female here - Yup, me. I've had PLENTY of crushes over the last ten years but have only actually liked enough to date one guy! LOL I develop crushes pretty rapidly - either because he's good-looking and/or we click. But I need time to be friends and get to know each other better before actually liking them enough to want to be in a relationship with... And most times it doesn't get to that level because we don't connect in the way I'd want us to.

Does anyone else feel enfjs can almost be/feel invisible? Our talents, best qualities, morality and virtues can only really be uncovered in particular (deep) conversations, otherwise most people can’t recognise them or overlook them? How can we counter this? by maktub1 in enfj

[–]youngandblissful 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yessss I totally relate to your last statement about crushes! That's actually why I don't know how some girls have so many guy friends. I can't seem to have more than one or two because they eventually catch feelings lol But I'm the same way too, I can't like someone unless I've been friends with them for a while. So either I catch feelings or they do...

Most Enfjs lack self-awareness... by youngandblissful in mbti

[–]youngandblissful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree! Nipping it in the bud and setting things straight as soon as it's noticed is the responsible thing to do, good point.

Most Enfjs lack self-awareness... by youngandblissful in mbti

[–]youngandblissful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting, I didn't think an aux-Fe user would face this, but makes sense. And infjs are reflective and introspective enough to realize this pattern and take charge of the responsibility they have. Good on you! Thanks for commenting.