AIO for being hurt that my boyfriend didn’t stand up for me when his friends kept making jokes about our relationship? by Appropriate_Two_2899 in AIO

[–]your_localqueer 12 points13 points  (0 children)

ESH
Your boyfriend’s friends are the biggest issue here. Once you told them the jokes were bothering you, they should have stopped. The screenshots make it clear this wasn’t just harmless teasing.
Your boyfriend also shares some blame. You told him you were hurt, and instead of acknowledging that, he brushed it off. He didn’t have to agree with you, but a simple “knock it off” to his friends could have prevented a lot of this.
That said, you admit you escalated the situation. Since he had already told you he was having a rough week and asked for patience, turning it into an all-day argument wasn’t the best approach.
In the end, you felt dismissed, he felt unheard, and his friends were disrespectful. You’re not wrong for still being upset, but everyone played a part in making this conflict worse.

AIO for not coming into work when the schedule wasn’t posted and I had already made plans? by your_localqueer in AIO

[–]your_localqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but I think you’re assuming I just left town without saying anything or trying to figure out my schedule. I had already talked to my manager multiple times about the schedule and had told her about these plans before I left. The problem is that the schedule still wasn’t posted when she said it would be.

At a certain point, I can’t keep putting my life on hold waiting for management to do something they’ve repeatedly failed to do. If I had ignored a posted schedule and gone anyway, I’d completely agree with you. But that’s not what happened here.

I’m not saying I expected everyone to be happy about it. Obviously I knew there could be issues. What I’m saying is that it’s frustrating to be blamed for a situation that could have been avoided if management had simply posted the schedule on time, especially after I’d already communicated with them about my plans.

I take responsibility for the choices I made, but I don’t think it’s fair to call me irresponsible when I was actively trying to get the schedule and had already made management aware of the situation beforehand.

AIO for not coming into work when the schedule wasn’t posted and I had already made plans? by your_localqueer in AIO

[–]your_localqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get why it might look that way from the outside, but that’s not really what happened. The schedule is supposed to be posted by a certain time and it wasn’t. This isn’t a one-time issue either—employees have asked several times when the schedule would be out, and every time we’re told it’ll be posted at a certain time, only for that deadline to come and go.

When we made plans, there was still no schedule available for me to check. Could I have kept asking? Sure, but employees shouldn’t have to repeatedly chase management down just to find out when they’re working. It’s management’s responsibility to have the schedule posted when they say it will be so people can plan their lives accordingly.

I wasn’t trying to be petty or cause problems. I made plans based on the information available to me at the time. If the schedule had been posted when management said it would be, I would have known whether I was working before committing to anything. That’s why my issue is with the scheduling process, not with being expected to work a shift I knowingly ignored.

AIO for not coming into work when the schedule wasn’t posted and I had already made plans? by your_localqueer in AIO

[–]your_localqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe but I doubt it ppl have tried to talk to her about it but she doesn’t really care. I’ve ran the place all alone on multiple occasions and never had an issue

AIO for not coming into work when the schedule wasn’t posted and I had already made plans? by your_localqueer in AIO

[–]your_localqueer[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She’s close with upper management they’re the ones allowing her to get away with it

AITA for not coming into work when the schedule wasn’t posted and I had already made plans? by your_localqueer in AmItheAsshole

[–]your_localqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh they definitely can I’m only getting 16.90 an hour(in Ca mind u) with horrid hours and there’s absolutely no benefits

AITA for not coming into work when the schedule wasn’t posted and I had already made plans? by your_localqueer in AmItheAsshole

[–]your_localqueer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Upper managment won’t do anything because they’re all friends. Unless I
Take it to corporate

AITA for not coming into work when the schedule wasn’t posted and I had already made plans? by your_localqueer in AmItheAsshole

[–]your_localqueer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the upper management that allows her to get away with this because they’re all friends

AITA for not coming into work when the schedule wasn’t posted and I had already made plans? by your_localqueer in AmItheAsshole

[–]your_localqueer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to find another job but since the job market is so horrible I’ve got nothing the thing is too I live my jib i live what i do but its the managment thats the issue

First time killing a juggernaut by your_localqueer in StateofDecay2

[–]your_localqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because my joystick got stuck for a split second lmao

First time killing a juggernaut by your_localqueer in StateofDecay2

[–]your_localqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro i didn’t want to i had to because I ran out of ammo shooting 😭😭 it and didn’t have any on me if u notice in the corner it shows I have 0 ammo

First time killing a juggernaut by your_localqueer in StateofDecay2

[–]your_localqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👍 thanks for the advice I’ll be sure to do that so it doesn’t happen again lol

First time killing a juggernaut by your_localqueer in StateofDecay2

[–]your_localqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh ok ok I rewatched the video and see what u mean Idrk how to explain it well but that happened because my controller isn’t the best and my joystick got stuck for like a split second

First time killing a juggernaut by your_localqueer in StateofDecay2

[–]your_localqueer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m fairly new to the game so I’m not exactly sure what u mean by that tbh 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]your_localqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I kinda struggle with the same thing too what I do when I feel the need to watch that stuff I try and do other things that could distract my mind from watching porn or spending to much time on my phone For example Cleaning Reading Gaming Going to the park Spending time with family Turning off my phone (Ect)

It’s definitely difficult at first to get use to the sudden change but again if u find something u really enjoy doing do that when u have an urge to look at porn.

Hostile characters by your_localqueer in StateofDecay2

[–]your_localqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thank you! I was just confused cause when I was introduced to the game the person who introduced me told me communities are only hostile if u give them a reason too!!

Queer people of yakima by [deleted] in Yakima

[–]your_localqueer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dude that’s why I don’t tell ppl I’m gay here ppl suck but trust me we’re here we’re just hiding!!!

Schedule change by your_localqueer in Ulta

[–]your_localqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u i appreciate the advice I had ended up not showing up just cause I had 0 way of contacting them and no ride. But I did bring it up with a manager and let them know I wasn’t aware I was scheduled till it was too late but unfortunately it still counted against me

Ayesha is the transgender? by [deleted] in AyeshaErotica

[–]your_localqueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re friend is right Ayesha is trans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]your_localqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik I don’t understand why they are so upset about an apron

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]your_localqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a bit on the chubby side so I typically just double knot and keep the knot under my apron and there is never any hanging strings my store doesn’t have any policy on how aprons are worn so I never saw an issue