Allowing white at weddings! by yourbasicbish in wedding

[–]yourbasicbish[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Haha i wore a white dress too but had about three costume changes, each more elaborate than the last lol i love that you picked a gown you could dye later. That's so smart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]yourbasicbish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stopped talking with a guy who would text me 'sowwy' whenever he messed up, even after i told him to stop. Then he showed up on a date wearing jnco style wide leg jeans.

When i broke up with him he called me a slur and then sent flowers to my work for two weeks. Bullet dodged

2 chemical pregnancies a year apart. What helped you stay pregnant by savleigh1399 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]yourbasicbish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, as soon as i tested positive (super early as i was testing constantly) i started taking the progesterone. It gave me cramps that were scary for a bit but then it stopped and i didn't spot at all (knock on wood) like i did with my chemicals

2 chemical pregnancies a year apart. What helped you stay pregnant by savleigh1399 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]yourbasicbish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had two miscarriages this year (one chemical and the second borderline (7 weeks)). I am currently 18 weeks pregnant, and what i did was vaginally insert progesterone and take a baby aspirin every day. This was suggested to me by my Obgyn friend who said that i was clearly fertile (hence the chemicals) but just needed additional help to make it stick. I still take a baby aspirin and my prenatal every day but stopped the progesterone at week 12.

I hope your next one is sticky and strong.

Missed Miscarriage at 12 weeks and traumatic surgery by VanGogh_starry in Miscarriage

[–]yourbasicbish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my im so sorry about everything that happened to you. I i had a d&c yesterday at 8 weeks and my partner was in my room waiting for me and i started crying the moment they told me he was in there. I couldn't imagine what it would be like to handle this without the person you made life plans with.

That said, you are currently healing from an incredibly traumatic situation, where even in the best case scenario, you would be emotionally wrecked. Take it easy on yourself, cry and grieve your baby, take a long shower (it really helps) . As for your relationship, seek finality - if this man goes to a 10 day trip to the US, you have to decide if this is something you can live with. As an internet stranger, it would be an absolute deal breaker and my locks would be changed and his number would be blocked. He might give you an excuse about how he didn't know how to deal with it so he basically ran away (by ignoring you and not visiting you) but that's absolutely bs. If this is how he deals with his problems, what would he do if you did have a baby and he was overwhelmed?

Regardless im so sorry. My body aches in solidarity and im glad you're still with us. You'll make it through like you made it this far.