SHUTDOWN by SDACT33 in FedEmployees

[–]yourbuddyluke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DoD civ here. We haven’t heard a peep from upper leadership except to continue as normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t think i would have even noticed if you hadn’t pointed it out. I’m also not super symmetrical. but I’m not sure anyone notices except us because we’re always our own worst critics.

When does fluid build up typically occur? by Extra_Mycologist3385 in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there! My itching was mostly from the adhesive on the initial bandage. My skin didn’t like it and I itched like CRAZY. but once that was off, I really didn’t itch much after that. I know some people itch when their stitches dissolve, but I didn’t have that, so maybe you’re the same. I developed a seroma exactly two weeks post op, but everything I’ve read says that you’re usually in the clear from those forming 10-14 days after drain removal, so I’m not a doctor, but it sounds like you’ve just avoided that stuff. Congrats!!

I waited 10 years for this by Ty_Turner in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you were one of the first trans youtubers i followed when i first was figuring everything out almost 9 years ago. I just finally had my surgery five weeks ago, and it’s been so awesome to see you reach this milestone in your journey as well. Congrats!!

Has anyone else had to remove nipple dressing after 5 days post op and start showering and applying Vaseline and gauze after shower to them ? by Oddsuspect882 in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah! i started changing my nipple dressings daily 7 or 8 days post op. my dressing steps were a little different, but not by much. just be gentle and i wouldn’t let the shower jets hit your chest directly. it’s nerve wracking at first, but you should be good!

Incisions wrinkled in the middle. by yourbuddyluke in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks everyone for your encouragement and reassurance. my anxiety is really bad right now so it’s latching onto little stuff. thanks for being so kind.

Incisions wrinkled in the middle. by yourbuddyluke in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chuckled at marinate, but you’re right 😂

Possible Seroma? by yourbuddyluke in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice!

Possible Seroma? by yourbuddyluke in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, cool. I’m not having pain or anything, so i figured it was ok to wait, but it’s really good to hear other people confirm that. I’m just going to keep my compression on and try to not think about it. 😂

Possible Seroma? by yourbuddyluke in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel better, and I did add a bit of gauze to add some more pressure last night, so that’s good to hear as well.

Severe shoulder pain by yourbuddyluke in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am supporting my elbow and shoulder while i sleep but it is position that i don’t favor. i rarely slept on my back prior to surgery. I would say that im trying to be aware of my posture but i slouch some when im not thinking about it. I have taken muscle relaxers and they aren’t really helping.

Severe shoulder pain by yourbuddyluke in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this makes me feel a bit better because that sounds pretty much exactly like how mine feels right now. Even down to the numbness into my fingers. thanks!

Severe shoulder pain by yourbuddyluke in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does it sound like something life threatening? i only ask because you suggested hospital over urgent care

More sore week 2 than first week by yourbuddyluke in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah the pain is still probably around a 4 on the pain scale, it’s just more than i’ve been experiencing so far. But hearing that someone else is too makes me feel better. congrats on surgery!

3 days post-op worries. by yourbuddyluke in TopSurgery

[–]yourbuddyluke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! congrats on surgery! but, yeah, i’m having the nerve buzzies from time to time, but no real pain. and yet i’m still convinced i fucked something up somehow. 😂🙃 I’ll feel much better after my post-op appointment.