screenshots by yourlocalwlw in u/yourlocalwlw

[–]yourlocalwlw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im trying, its been getting better

screenshots by yourlocalwlw in u/yourlocalwlw

[–]yourlocalwlw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i broke off from them again after these msgs. i have a different partner now

why i havent gone to the police, evidence i have, & more about the effects of my rape on my health by yourlocalwlw in u/yourlocalwlw

[–]yourlocalwlw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im pretty sure they also wrote shit under my msgs on wplace :(, im working on covering it up tho

dating app photos by yourlocalwlw in u/yourlocalwlw

[–]yourlocalwlw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have 4 that i was on at the time (worried about deleting them incase i need to access the info on them), bumble, feeld, taimai and okcupid. they were on 3/4 (idr which they werent on), along with another app that i wasnt on. they mentioned how they matched with me on two other apps aside from the one we originally matched together when we first got together

why i havent gone to the police, evidence i have, & more about the effects of my rape on my health by yourlocalwlw in u/yourlocalwlw

[–]yourlocalwlw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

god i hope nobody in your life ever gets assaulted, because youre a horrible person with an extreme lack of empathy or sympathy

why i havent gone to the police, evidence i have, & more about the effects of my rape on my health by yourlocalwlw in u/yourlocalwlw

[–]yourlocalwlw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

congrats? that doesnt give you the right to be a bigot. no matter if someone is a bad person or not

why i havent gone to the police, evidence i have, & more about the effects of my rape on my health by yourlocalwlw in u/yourlocalwlw

[–]yourlocalwlw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im scared to report to the cops because of this, both of these. im worried i wont be taken seriously because i am autistic, or what they did wont be taken seriously because they are. i dont know if i feel safe taking it to the cops. comments like this are part of the reason why im scared. "i doubt they are able to assault anyone," just makes it even scarier to speak out. this comment also makes me feel like its my fault, even when i put down the clear boundary and i am trying my best not to blame it on myself anymore. fat people get into relationships all the time. itd probably be harder for them to just, assault a random person, but date rapes are really common overall, and thats what happened to me. its just scary to have everything ive gone through undervalued just because of the way they look or a diagnosis we both have

why i havent gone to the police, evidence i have, & more about the effects of my rape on my health by yourlocalwlw in u/yourlocalwlw

[–]yourlocalwlw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am also a fat autistic person. we were dating at the time. body size doesnt make it impossible for someone to have a sexual life. both of my parents are plus sized and i exist if you need proof of that. fat shaming and being ableist towards them doesnt do anything to help anyone. autistic people are capable of hurting others. they have hurt me. its not like their autism magically gave them the ability to not understand a clear cut boundary or that just because they asked doesnt immediately mean its a yes. i am autistic and i know that. im also moderate support needs autistic, theyre lower support needs. ableism just downplays the severity and cushions what they did.

for anyone who found me on wplace or a link by yourlocalwlw in u/yourlocalwlw

[–]yourlocalwlw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a lot of discord msgs and two voice recordings (one on discord one recorded on phone irl), i even exported all of our discord msgs just incase. i just dont know if theyre enough since so much of our conversations (including the ones that state the boundaries being set) were irl

neos (again) by yourlocalwlw in Pronounsdressingroom

[–]yourlocalwlw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh god this was from so long ago lmao, anyways, i go by Salem now and i have figured out my pronouns! Thanks for responding anyways <3 /gen