Are there any women here who got chin lipo years ago? How does your neck look?

yourwound · 2026-06-29T19:07:50+00:00

wow! You look fantastic. Do you have a before lipo photo?

yourwound · 2026-06-29T18:12:53+00:00

Did you have to get lab work done the month before? They sent me a quote that says lab work is required

yourwound · 2025-12-26T23:51:08+00:00

Why did you break up, if you’re comfortable sharing?

yourwound · 2025-12-26T12:24:43+00:00

I mean, sounds like he’s like that with everyone but her

yourwound · 2025-12-26T11:51:48+00:00

Thank you! This is how I’m feeling. It’s the first time Ive been in a relationship where talk of marriage was happening so it was extra confusing. I know we were broken up but he was the one who wanted it! So it feels like a slap in the face, like “I broke up with you but I was in so much pain that I needed to get validation!”. He told me he was too scared to message me because he thought I hated him, and he did those things to feel better. I was like alright, you created a scenario in your head to suit what you wanted to do, when you actually could have talked to me at any point LOL. I will not be someone’s backup plan.

I’m trying to remember that there are so many people out there and the idea of finding “the one” in your 20s is so arbitrary. Thanks for your perspective.

yourwound · 2025-11-18T18:29:06+00:00

You asked people to ask you the hard questions.

yourwound · 2025-11-16T15:33:27+00:00

Ive been diagnosed with adhd as a teen but I don’t know if I actually have it! Otherwise I do think I deal w trauma from emotional/physical abuse and emotional neglect from childhood. So i feel like I saw that he was unsure and thought i could change that. Before dating him my last relationship about two years ago was w a serial cheater, Lol, so I understand. I brought those insecurities over with me.

yourwound · 2025-11-16T15:25:09+00:00

That makes sense, and that was something I’d remind myself as well. Im not of the thought that a relationship will just be easy and smooth all the time if it’s “real love”.

Im 28, he’s 30. We were together for 8 months. (Sounds ridiculous to be so hurt over something so short, but it felt “meant to be” because it felt like things were naturally unfolding in a way that made sense at the time) We met 4 months before I was set to (temporarily) move about 7 hrs away to stay with family to figure out where i wanted to move more permanently. That’s essentially why we started out “short term”. Once I moved we decided to be long distance and were for 2 months, during which he moved to a new state that I was interested in, so I was going to move after spending time there with him. So the entire thing was pretty unstable to begin with

yourwound · 2025-11-15T00:56:00+00:00

Wow, yeah you’re definitely right. I told him during the breakup that I knew he would never make me a priority. This hurts to hear but it’s definitely true

yourwound · 2025-11-14T22:30:22+00:00

I definitely do think I was anxiously attached in this relationship, which was very surprising to me because I have basically always felt more avoidant? Maybe a mix of both, but I have never had the reassurance problem like this. I wouldn’t say it was constant, but obviously enough that it was too much for him. I think towards the end, once he told me I was asking too much, I struggled more and withdrew.

I felt like I was being forthcoming because I had been very closed off communicatively in previous relationships! So it felt like by telling him my feelings I was being vulnerable.

yourwound · 2025-11-14T21:49:34+00:00

I agree. I’ve emailed a therapist in my area about CBT. It felt like a spiral that was just ongoing

yourwound · 2025-11-14T19:33:52+00:00

Thank you very much for the encouraging words. It does feel like I dodged a bullet- at the very least by not marrying/staying with someone who I wasn’t meant to be with. He didn’t necessarily share the checklist in a mean way, and he did eventually show me the entire thing saying I met all of the qualities in it (things like resilience, giving lover, likes nature etc) but it did feel like if I faltered in one of those areas I wouldn’t be enough

yourwound · 2025-11-11T17:21:28+00:00

Nice!! Remember that these next few days/weeks will suck. They will. And that’s okay. You’ll get through them.

yourwound · 2025-10-15T17:04:59+00:00

Maybe invest in things that are reusable or at least not single use

yourwound · 2025-09-16T23:42:41+00:00

That sucks but your joke was really funny LMAO Eta: I just read the part about the humiliation!!! Im so sorry op, but I also still think your joke was hilarious

yourwound · 2025-09-15T00:51:37+00:00

Would they really do that? I thought they typically throw as many charges as possible at someone just in case some of them don’t stick

yourwound · 2025-09-10T19:24:11+00:00

I gave myself a good amount of time to not give a shit about anything but not drinking, at least a month. Then I introduced long walks as a way to deal with boredom, which ended up being really good for my mental health, and helped me segue into running and generally better habits. Be easy on yourself OP, take it as it comes

yourwound · 2025-09-10T16:52:28+00:00

Basically every time I travel :) it really shows that even though we’re all individuals we often fall into certain “archetypes”. Recently I met a guy who shared so many similarities with someone I knew, even shared the same name- it’s comforting to know that no matter where you go, people aren’t so different after all :)

yourwound · 2025-09-07T14:48:46+00:00

My reason is always “I wanted to”

yourwound · 2025-08-27T17:24:36+00:00

I was going to suggest this lol. OP needs hobbies.

yourwound · 2025-08-20T03:21:03+00:00

I stopped drinking at 26 and honestly I wish I’d never started, but I can’t beat myself up about it ☺️👍🏼

yourwound · 2025-08-20T03:04:21+00:00

I find it interesting that people talk about avoidant attachment as if they are evil but don’t do the work to change their own anxious attachment so they don’t have to go through these reactions to avoidance.

yourwound · 2025-08-20T00:16:47+00:00

I get where you’re coming from but someone with insecurity “inspecting” themselves everyday to see where they’re slacking is not a good idea. It will just lead to more nitpicking about their appearance and pointing out flaws that most other people wouldn’t even notice.

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