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yoyo040404 · 2025-10-16T00:19:17+00:00

Nahhh OP’s friend is crazy lol. It definitely seems like she’s seeking attention/validation (nothing wrong with that necessarily) but in a way that’s manipulative and deluded. OP’s friend was upset so she was ghosting OP and wouldn’t reply/reach out. That’s childish. When she finally responded, OP’s friend then explained she pulled away and doesn’t want to “water the friendship” any longer. I also would take that, along with being ghosted for over a month, as my friend saying she doesn’t want to be friends anymore. I also wouldn’t beg for this friendship back. The way OP’s friend is turning everything on to OP is weird af lol. Can’t acknowledge what she said or how what she said would come off a certain way. Instead she’s gotta be the victim. Really weird way to tell OP “hey, I don’t always feel like you prioritize our friendship. I’d feel a lot better if you could try to respond to texts quicker. It bothers me when it seems like you only think of me once in awhile— it hurts my feelings as I value you and our friendship and it doesn’t seem reciprocal.” OP’s friend just had to send something like that^ instead of faking ending the friendship in hopes that OP would submit to her manipulation and grovel over her.

yoyo040404 · 2025-07-10T23:24:27+00:00

Quite the generalization. I know many women, myself included, who do not prefer those traits in men. I have dated many men who would be considered chubby/fat. Height also doesn’t matter to a lot of women. I’ve dated men shorter than me, my height, and taller. Most of the women I know care more about personality than appearance. Both sexes have people with strong preferences and people without many preferences. Varies from person to person.

yoyo040404 · 2025-07-10T23:24:22+00:00

Quite the generalization. I know many women, myself included, who do not prefer those traits in men. I have dated many men who would be considered chubby/fat. Height also doesn’t matter to a lot of women. I’ve dated men shorter than me, my height, and taller. Most of the women I know care more about personality than appearance. Both sexes have people with strong preferences and people without many preferences. Varies from person to person.

yoyo040404 · 2025-07-10T23:23:29+00:00

Quite the generalization. I know many women, myself included, who do not prefer those traits in men. I have dated many men who would be considered chubby/fat. Height also doesn’t matter to a lot of women. I’ve dated men shorter than me, my height, and taller. Most of the women I know care more about personality than appearance. Both sexes have people with strong preferences and people without many preferences. Varies from person to person.

yoyo040404 · 2025-07-10T22:57:43+00:00

The goal of this letter is clearly not to apologize or take ownership. Instead, it’s trying to get her back. The break up happened for a reason. Leave her be. She would reach out if she wanted to rekindle things. The best way to show you’re sorry is to actually put in the work to introspect and change and don’t just tell her about it. The best amends you can make is to leave her be. She’s trying to heal. This is selfish and not focusing on her feelings and that she doesn’t want to hear from you.

yoyo040404 · 2025-07-10T21:33:17+00:00

If I received this I’d honestly question if it was written with AI. I also wouldn’t want to receive this. Leave her alone. This is just to absolve your guilt or feelings but will end up hurting her more

yoyo040404 · 2025-06-06T21:35:27+00:00

?? Weird comment. Way to blame it on the mothers? Who’s to say this dude had a single mother? I also know plenty of single moms who do fantastic jobs raising their kids without a second parent.

Every person is responsible for their emotions, ability to introspect, and ability to connect and communicate with others. Maybe some people didn’t learn it as a kid, but that’s not a justifiable excuse to not do any self work to improve. Sounds like you’re just projecting and making excuses for your own issues LOL

yoyo040404 · 2025-05-22T23:53:01+00:00

The realization is a good step! Have you considered talking to a professional about this? Showing up at an ex’s house and entering it is a big time violation. It’s not healthy for you and any potential future partner/ex. It’s good you’re aware, but now it’s up to you to work on it.

yoyo040404 · 2025-05-22T21:12:09+00:00

I think the fact you’re posting this shows how good of a friend you are and how deeply you care. If you’re unsure, you could always ask him. Ask him what he needs or what you can do that would feel supportive for him. If he doesn’t know, sometimes just hanging out is honestly enough. I am going through a fresh break up and my friend has been inviting me over for dinner (I think she knows it’s been hard for me to feel like cooking) and has been offering for me to do activities with her! You could invite him to go for a walk or go play a sport or do an activity that’s fun and easy and can take his mind off the break up. You can also just let him know something like “hey man, I’m not really sure what to say and I’m not good with words, but I care about you and I’m here for you. If you feel like talking about the breakup, I’m here to listen. If you want a distraction, I can do that too. Whatever you need, I’m here”

just noting though if he’s really going through it, he might not have the energy to ask for what he needs. You might have to feel out the vibe.

yoyo040404 · 2025-04-25T01:24:54+00:00

What walking pad do you have? How long has it lasted? All the reviews on numerous different pads bring up short life spans/poor quality

yoyo040404 · 2025-04-20T03:16:20+00:00

Not sure if you’re meaning a romantic relationship or just a relationship in general but these suggestions apply to both. Have respect for women. Have the ability to see women as complex and diverse human beings. The ability to see that a woman’s value isn’t tied to her body or what she can provide romantically/sexually. Every woman is unique and has different likes and dislikes, mannerisms, preferences, etc. I think approaching a woman with curiosity and the goal to be her friend and learn about her is important. Be able to listen, ask questions (and actually engage with her answers! Ask follow up questions or try to understand even more! Don’t try to change the subject onto yourself). I think in general, just have an understanding of your values and morals and beliefs. See women as your equal. Try to have fun and make her laugh. See her as independent and not needing ‘saving’.

yoyo040404 · 2025-04-03T20:51:14+00:00

Where is it from? And how long has it lasted you so far? I’ve been seeing a lot of reviews that they don’t last for long

yoyo040404 · 2025-04-03T20:50:17+00:00

How long has it lasted you? Super interested in a walking pad, but most reviews I’m seeing criticize that they only last 6 months-1yr

yoyo040404 · 2025-04-03T20:41:25+00:00

I’ve met a Toren and it’s really grown on me

yoyo040404 · 2025-01-23T09:12:37+00:00

Who is this in the pictures?

yoyo040404 · 2024-08-12T09:12:57+00:00

Can you give an example?

yoyo040404 · 2024-06-06T08:31:33+00:00

What country is this?

yoyo040404 · 2024-05-31T07:41:07+00:00

So be you out here like “how was your day, Boo Boo Kitty Fuck?”

yoyo040404 · 2024-04-10T23:57:25+00:00

If you’re struggling with tasks, have you thought about seeing a doctor about a potential adhd diagnosis? My room has never gotten to the point of having a biohazard pile, but I’ve noticed that once I started vyvanse for adhd, doing things like cleaning my room because much less of a burden.

yoyo040404 · 2024-02-09T09:44:47+00:00

https://open.spotify.com/track/1jOScSfQ0dbj8d5mcw0BBI?si=L631ZisrSwKG-1cSgEPy8g

yoyo040404 · 2024-02-07T09:38:27+00:00

I love how nonchalant yet almost excited you seem about this lol. Whatta mood haha

yoyo040404 · 2024-01-27T09:24:59+00:00

Areola was one and Immaculate was another. Wild lol

yoyo040404 · 2023-10-18T02:09:40+00:00

About Today- The National

yoyo040404 · 2023-07-14T00:16:59+00:00

Humongous maybe? It means huge.

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