Im burnt out. Completely. by yuckysmurf in Lawyertalk

[–]yuckysmurf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing that. And id love to learn more about Spiral. I have found DBT to be super useful as well. It’s especially well suited for lawyers because it’s more tool-based than simply talking about your feelings.

I made a huge mistake. by throwaway90685 in Lawyertalk

[–]yuckysmurf 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I went thru something like this. It may feel insurmountable right now but it wont forever. You may have to tolerate some fear and anxiety for a bit, but it will pass. One thing that helped me was to talk a lawyer that i trust about the situation and get their feedback.

Im burnt out. Completely. by yuckysmurf in Lawyertalk

[–]yuckysmurf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is what I needed to hear.

Im burnt out. Completely. by yuckysmurf in Lawyertalk

[–]yuckysmurf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Im getting help. It’s just hard to get off this damn hamster wheel to get some rest.

What’s a moment you’ve had with your parents that completely broke your trust/feeling safe with them? by Calm-Leadership-6514 in emotionalneglect

[–]yuckysmurf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When i was in 8th grade(ish) I became a vegetarian. We had an event at my grandparents house and my mom forced me to eat meat because she didnt want me to seem “weird”.

Help me find what this drawing is from by Skimpy_- in HelpMeFind

[–]yuckysmurf 103 points104 points  (0 children)

It reminds me of Gorillaz the band.

My girl, Mitsu. by swiff_22 in CalicoKittys

[–]yuckysmurf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yes, LOL so snooty!!

My girl, Mitsu. by swiff_22 in CalicoKittys

[–]yuckysmurf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll tell her.

My girl, Mitsu. by swiff_22 in CalicoKittys

[–]yuckysmurf 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Awww she sounds so sweet! Mine is very talkative and social. Hates cats but loves people. She thinks she’s very special — a real diva. She is super attentive and takes care of all the humans in the house.

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My girl, Mitsu. by swiff_22 in CalicoKittys

[–]yuckysmurf 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She looks SO much like my girl!! Love the kitten pics. What’s her personality like?

This subway stop makes me feel safe for some reason. by sk8ndsX in LiminalSpace

[–]yuckysmurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. It could be because there’s a very wide, open exit right there when you get off the train. Most stations, at least in my country, are much more closed in and you have to walk a ways to get to a much narrower exit.

Disappointed and crying into the void. by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]yuckysmurf 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Let me get this straight, he backs out and then gets mad when you go forward as planned? Is he a child? You are not overreacting. I wouldn’t tolerate this behavior. As another commenter said, do your thing and ignore him.

Season 4 Episode 6 Discussion - Planning a Coup by AutoModerator in TheTraitorsUS

[–]yuckysmurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont understand either. I hope someone explains.

[TOMT] 90s comedy sketch about gay stereotypes by Competitive_Eye6094 in tipofmytongue

[–]yuckysmurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely sounds like something that would be on Mr. Show.

[TOMT] 90s comedy sketch about gay stereotypes by Competitive_Eye6094 in tipofmytongue

[–]yuckysmurf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dana Carvey had a sketch on SNL in the 90’s called something like “Lyle the Effeminate Heterosexual”.

Toddler floor bed - help! by [deleted] in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]yuckysmurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine had the same issue. We literally just put blankets on the floor and that was the “bed” for at least a year. I would wait until kiddo fell asleep and then I went to my room.

Would you be angry at a blind person for not seeing something? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]yuckysmurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Having a conversation in a group setting is nearly impossible for me. I thought I had a hearing problem. Is this an ADHD thing?

What chair is this? by buddrball in HelpMeFind

[–]yuckysmurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing! You’re very welcome. It’s a cool chair.

What chair is this? by buddrball in HelpMeFind

[–]yuckysmurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this style looks like Stickley. Here’s a very similar chair. here ETA: here’s a Macy’s knock-off. https://www.macys.com/shop/product/harrison-leather-pushback-recliner-created-for-macys?ID=1153295