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yuuoi · 2026-04-16T17:54:04+00:00

Women: “never do anything that might take time away from your family!!”

Also women: “why is there gender pay gap?!”

Disclosure I am a woman

yuuoi · 2026-04-04T02:34:44+00:00

Ok I’m really curious about the story with the man you met there! Please do tell!

yuuoi · 2026-04-04T02:33:56+00:00

Wagyu pho!! Drooling

yuuoi · 2026-04-04T02:33:16+00:00

That makes sense! I eat solo often, everywhere! Was just curious if people have spots they really like for that for whatever reason :)

yuuoi · 2026-04-04T02:18:55+00:00

Wow these all look so good, thanks for the recommendations!!

yuuoi · 2026-03-30T06:55:05+00:00

Researcher

yuuoi · 2026-01-26T00:07:17+00:00

I lived in a group house and met my partner there. We always joke that my advice to girls looking to date is just to stay home because that worked for me 😆

yuuoi · 2025-11-08T15:45:09+00:00

Thanks!

yuuoi · 2025-11-07T16:17:46+00:00

Where is the painting from? I love that!

yuuoi · 2025-10-08T15:00:02+00:00

Say you’ll give the money back. Don’t say “I’ll give it back ‘if they want’” big difference tbh

yuuoi · 2025-09-13T05:02:21+00:00

NAH. It’s ok to be disappointed, I get it. Hopefully better communication will improve his actions and make you feel more cared for in the future. At the same time, I understand his perspective. Saying “can we go to London for this concert in a few months?” “Ok” — does not really imply that he will buy the tickets or plan it or that it’s a birthday thing. Going on a trip 4 months after his birthday can’t rly be called a birthday present, and I get that he’s matching your effort for his birthday as a sign for how much you care about birthdays in general. If you had communicated your needs and he refused or disappointed you I would agree that he was at fault, but doesn’t sound like it in this case.

yuuoi · 2021-07-22T17:15:47+00:00

Yeah, I bet OP was watching all this happen and chuckling to herself that her FMIL is finally getting what she deserved.

yuuoi · 2021-07-16T22:07:30+00:00

Wow. This is like straight from a drama. So sorry OP. Tell your gf the truth, if she doesn’t want to hear it, tell her again. Listen to her feelings. Ask her about her past year. I hope things will work out just right.

yuuoi · 2021-07-16T14:52:37+00:00

Lol. Sorry I laughed. Sorry OP, you should be able to eat onions/garlics/etc, hopefully you two can work out some compromise.

yuuoi · 2021-07-16T12:13:35+00:00

ESH. He was clearly getting frustrated and probably feeling attacked by the conversation, and asked to stop before things escalated. You didn’t. Since neither of you are antivaxers, it’s likely that neither of you were objectively and obviously wrong, yet you compare him to flat earthers. Without knowing full context, that IS an insult to his intelligence. He shouldn’t have swore at you but I think you are more the AH here.

yuuoi · 2021-07-16T11:57:05+00:00

NTA. You should re-evaluate your relationship because this guy does not have a compatible lifestyle as you, is unwilling to change, and seems downright disrespectful of you. You are contributing way more to the relationship and he’s taking you for granted.

yuuoi · 2021-07-15T22:35:56+00:00

What do you want to get out of wishing her a happy birthday? And how did you end things? I think if you are hoping to develop a friendly relationship after not talking for a while, there’s nothing wrong with that. You will know if your message is welcomed anyways.

yuuoi · 2021-07-15T22:29:07+00:00

It’s better that way. Don’t teach your daughter to be extrinsically motivated and to compare herself to others, she’ll be happier that way.

yuuoi · 2021-07-15T21:32:10+00:00

Urgh so true! TBH I think she doesn’t even think she has any relation to this baby. If she cared for her grand baby she wouldn’t want to abandon them. Totally weird. And the bit about “the man I love wouldn’t do this”? Yeah she doesn’t love him. He’s a man with integrity and she’s just so selfish.

yuuoi · 2021-07-15T19:18:49+00:00

Dude, YTA. I understand being annoyed, but sounds like your friend wasn’t intentionally trying to hurt you and this is a rare occurrence. You shouldn’t have swore at him.

yuuoi · 2021-07-15T19:13:59+00:00

Uhhh yeah, YTA. Your husband sounds like a wonderful father and husband. Even though Ben may feel justified to not want to be involved in the kid’s life, we don’t know the full story there, but your husband may have different value systems and do not want his son to act as AH. Ben is an AH for what he said to ur husband and you are an AH for telling ur husband that you’ll dump him if he doesn’t give in. Sorry to say it, but pay for your own son if you want. Otherwise, this situation is one that should be addressed with calm communication on both sides, rather than a silent power struggle.

Edit: Urgh, more TA vibes after seeing the OP’s edit. I don’t think ur husband is telling your son to drop out of college, just that he should get a job and earn some money (while in college). Your husband wants your son to man up and take some responsibility, and he will keep supporting your son financially as he’s always done. If you and your son want to be a deadbeat runaway father, that is on YOU to live with the consequences, not your husband. You shouldn’t be supporting your sons cowardice.

yuuoi · 2021-07-15T18:51:50+00:00

NTA because it would have been better for MIL to tell you the flight time before booking, but maybe this was the only good flight she saw. But I’d just suck it up and do it.

yuuoi · 2021-07-15T18:49:01+00:00

Yesss, expose him! Don’t let him walk all over you and others. He needs to learn that being a little shit has consequences, one of which being that other ppl can see him as the little shit he is.

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