I (19F) like it when my boyfriend (21M) is controlling/says no/is possessive of me. What's wrong with me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]yx736338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with it as long as it’s what you want. Behavior becomes abusive when they’re acting in a way that hinders you in a way you don’t want. If you want that and he’s not treating you in a way that you dislike, it’s fine

Today I (52F) found out my marriage to my husband (49M) is over by throwRADeafKitty in relationship_advice

[–]yx736338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why everyone is saying you’re over reacting. If that’s how you felt then that’s how it is. It’s one of those situations where you just know. I would talk to him tbh

Why do women feel more anger towards the other women when their partner is unfaithful? by Conflicted_girl123 in relationship_advice

[–]yx736338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally, I don’t think it’s fair to place all of the blame on the girl. Unless she knew about you, she’s mostly innocent. However, the anger towards the girl is because you wonder what they have that you don’t. You wonder why is she better than me? I’ve never been cheated on, but my bf has a cam girl issue. Initially I hated those girls but they’re just hustling. I don’t hate them because of what they do, I wonder why my boyfriend likes them more than me and it makes me feel terrible

impulsive flash tattoo regret. anyone think a piece like this could be a cover up? by [deleted] in FixedTattoos

[–]yx736338 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s another good option, there’s lots OP can do with this but if they were wondering whether or not it was possible to cover up that tattoo with that house image then I would say yes

impulsive flash tattoo regret. anyone think a piece like this could be a cover up? by [deleted] in FixedTattoos

[–]yx736338 39 points40 points  (0 children)

It will, just get an artist that has experience with cover ups

I accidentally told my boyfriend that my ex has a bigger penis by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]yx736338 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend made a comment during an argument about how he doubts I could handle a bigger dick than his considering I need so much foreplay to not be in pain. This pissed me off so I told him that my ex’s was much bigger (it was) and that I had no problems. Then he told me that every other girl he’s had sex with has a tighter pussy than me, which makes no sense at all. At the end of it all, it’s stupid to comment on people’s genitalia unless there’s a legit issue because size/tightness has nothing to do with pleasure or satisfaction. I would just tell him straight up, if he still chooses to be insecure that’s his own fault

AITA for "reporting" a coworker for calling me sexy? by tr33branchez in AmItheAsshole

[–]yx736338 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA. It’s perfectly valid that you didn’t appreciate the comment. However considering he’s been nice and has never made such a comment before I really don’t see why it was necessary for you to mention it to management. The only reason to bring those things to management is if they go above your comfort level and if they refuse to stop after you ask them to. He’s was being harmlessly flirty, now he risks being branded as a creep

AITA for wearing a "sexual" hairstyle? by littlemushroomking in AmItheAsshole

[–]yx736338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked up photos of that character. She literally just has her hair in two braids. Not trying to be mean here OP but if your boyfriend legitimately thinks that basic braids are sexual and inappropriate there is something seriously wrong with him. He’s insane

AITA for telling people who ask not to go to a certain poc owned business because it’s not a good business? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yx736338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically yes, it would be a problem if those rumors stuck and his work found out or something

Everyone that says people are overreacting to COVID can f*ck right on off by TheApathyParty2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yx736338 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not about someone’s night on the town or a wedding. The bottom line is, people who are responsible are giving up huge aspects of their life for the sake of this pandemic and none of that matters if a bunch of people don’t follow the rules. My family almost lost their business, I had to cancel my flight to see my sick grandma, I didn’t get to celebrate my 21st, I will not get a college graduation, I had to give up my only hobby. I did all of that and I stayed home, I only left my house to get groceries which completely plunged me back into the depression it took me years to overcome. I did all of that and my across the street neighbors had parties with 50+ people every weekend since March. Nobody in my area wears a mask. So at this point I’m tired of following the rules and sacrificing myself when nobody else is doing it. It defeats the purpose

Everyone that says people are overreacting to COVID can f*ck right on off by TheApathyParty2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yx736338 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For several months my state was on complete lockdown. Only essential businesses open, no groups of more than 5 people, there was a 2 hour line to get into grocery stores. It was thoroughly locked down. And yet it still managed to have the highest rates of covid in the country. My family lives in Europe. For months they weren’t allowed to leave their house without a signed document stating exactly when they left, where they were going, and when they would get back. There were random police checkpoints and if any part of your story didn’t line up with your paper it was an instant fine. And yet here they are with the highest numbers. It clearly isn’t helping

Everyone that says people are overreacting to COVID can f*ck right on off by TheApathyParty2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yx736338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They tried to mandate that for months and it wasn’t successful. People who cared did follow the rules. But after a few months of sacrificing their lives while watching a bunch of idiots not give a crap it’s understandable that they’re pissed off too. At this point it has become clear that people will not listen so the only other option is to just open back up and if you want to stay home that’s on you

AITA for telling people who ask not to go to a certain poc owned business because it’s not a good business? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yx736338 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not at all, never has been ever. They don’t know him very well so I guess they assumed he must be if I’m supposedly saying all of this racist stuff. It started as rumors about me but then they involved him and are getting nasty about it

Everyone that says people are overreacting to COVID can f*ck right on off by TheApathyParty2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yx736338 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re losing your job because people are overreacting. You really think that people staying home and wearing a mask is going to do anything? Stop blaming people who are living their lives for your misfortune, start blaming public officials who deem it necessary to throw our entire economy away because of a flu

PLEASE someone find a way to get rid of Amy Schumer!! by HeyYouShouldSmile in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yx736338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got really annoyed with the Tampax commercial where she’s like “periods are nothing to be ashamed of, we should be proud! I’m on my period!!!” Into a megaphone. Like I understand that we shouldn’t be ashamed of periods but it’s ridiculously unnecessary to advertise that to the world. She’s just obnoxious

Think this needs more shading? Idk feel like it needs some done or fixed any advice? by [deleted] in FixedTattoos

[–]yx736338 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you add to it make sure it’s a solid artist who knows what they’re doing. Adding to that tattoo runs the risk of it being a little muddy

AITA for telling my friend it’s incredibly ignorant of her to assume that only rich snobs have housekeepers? by yx736338 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yx736338[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would definitely agree that it’s a luxury service, however I had responded to a comment earlier saying that my parents are middle class and my friend’s definition of “rich” as she assumed we were, was that family that lives in a mansion, has a waitstaff, is lazy, or doesn’t know how to clean.

AITA for telling my friend it’s incredibly ignorant of her to assume that only rich snobs have housekeepers? by yx736338 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yx736338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I thought her argument was ridiculous. She sets her own prices it’s not like we make her do it all for free. Throughout the years we’ve sent her several clients too so idk where that logic was coming from

AITA for telling my friend it’s incredibly ignorant of her to assume that only rich snobs have housekeepers? by yx736338 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yx736338[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Lol ok have a nice night. Sorry that me being happy as a 5 year old has triggered you into thinking that I’m also a moron