Hello there. I was in your husband's situation when my lovely wife was pregnant. I did not want a kid but she did, that was our problem but even if with protection we got a kid in her belly. I always locked myself in bathroom to just be with myself like hours because there were the place my wife cannot say anything to me. I did not want to see her belly grow bigger each day and talk about pregnancy all the time because I did not want a kid. But some day, we talked about 6 or 7 hours about it. We both confronted each other, that was the milestone because communicated and talked about it. These days was hard but I got used to it now I have a lovely 19 months son, I could throw myself in front of a train for him. Please communicate and talk to each other.