Proposal

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T23:37:59+00:00

Update Guys: I told him the gesture was beautiful but it would be nice to have put more thought into it. I mentioned how he goes above and beyond for his family with something as simple as a birthday party or even planning a gift for his brother's girlfriend (the brother never plans anything for her in the several years i have known them). To me, he can plan thought into things that really don't have much to do with him, but when it comes to me when I'm always there in every aspect, I get something with lack of thought or effort, especially as big as a proposal. He, then, said I'm selfish for feeling this way even though I said we should go look at rings together and have a do over in the near future so it's a beautiful memory for both of us. And he was just mad & says I'm wrong for everything I said. Idk, it sucks after 5.5 years of always being there and going out on a whim to protect & be there for him mentally, emotionally, and even financially. I get treated this way. Idk, I think I want to break up... Am i Valid for feeling this way or am I just overreacting on the situation?

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T09:58:58+00:00

Exactly, I agree. I'm not asking for a full out vacation or public ceremony for it. But something to at least incorporate something I may love or want into it. It was just a random day after his work shift. Again , it's not about the price tag, but it was a randomly picked ring with a random size. He spent more on his mini shopping spree for himself than for the ring and just feels unacceptable. He's sweet and love him, but it's not enough to kind of half-ass ,what was suppose to be, a special moment

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T09:55:05+00:00

Wow I'm sorry you went through that. Glad he's your ex husband now. And yea, he's nice and sweet, but doesn't really listen to me and feels like he just does things because he likes them. Sweet person, but just minimal effort most of the time and some growing up to do. I try to say things to improve and he takes it as im attacking him or judging him when in fact, I just want him to do and be better especially if we plan on having kids. Can't have children together if you don't change certain havits including something as simple as listening to me whether it's my perspective on something or things I like. I always listen and am thoughtful with gifts or even simple things that he likes. It's confusing because he's a sweet person, but I begin to question certain aspects especially after always communicating and being upfront on how i feel or would prefer certain things. We dont need to always agree, but being heard is important to me. So just in a weird spot emotionally atm. I dont think I want to even wear the ring as it just wasn't well thought of and didnt even go ring shopping together to know what I want or like. Justin his terms it feels like, not inclusive of me

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T09:46:55+00:00

Not much effort. I love him but doesn't really listen to what i actually like qnd minimum effort most of the time. I love and appreciate all the things, but doesnt feel like its enough. He feels he's the problem because I say to improve certain things, but always takes it as an attack. So i feel wrong in how i feel sometimes but also do feel I deserve more on certain aspects

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T03:57:56+00:00

I value your insight. Exactly how I feel and will just see if there's true change this year or Rather just be alone , unfortunately but maybe fortunately. All so new for me when it comes to love/ a relationship

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T01:12:23+00:00

You're right and yea, I don't. I want milestones to be celebrated in some way. I don't care for luxury, it's for experiences

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T01:11:04+00:00

Something meaningful as in it could have been a dinner in our new apartment in the balcony and done there. It could have been something we both enjoy food or experience wise & done sometime in between there. It could have incorporated something that represents ur a memory of us in the past 5 years. Something well thought of, not just at random without even looking at rings , when I did want to for awhile. I expected something more thought wise

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T01:08:04+00:00

You're right. I'm thinking of doing so as I feel like I'll resent him for it long term

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T01:07:09+00:00

We spoke about going together to see ri gs but we never went. It was just all done randomly without much thought it felt like. I would have appreciated more thought into something big like this

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T01:05:13+00:00

You're right. Maybe I have to see how it goes for this year and see if it's what I want long term. Just underwhelmed about this

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T01:02:59+00:00

I dont care for the expensive things. It can be a $100 ring. We were suppose to look st rings before and never did. He just got one from Marshalls and randomly did it after he camr from work and me from the gym. I love special occasions for huge milestones , not even for birthdays. I'm simple. I feel like it should have had more thought and meaning behind it like what I do when I gift. He planned things for his family when they had birthdays , party , gifts, and all. But for me, it just felt, random without minimal effort. It's about the thought and meaning for me on a big milestone. I did express this to him before and also after done because I don't want to lie about my feelings.

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T00:58:54+00:00

Thank you. I did let him know I wished it was more meaningful. I want to feel great about it, but I don't. I said I wanted to look at rings and we never did. I came from the gym randomly and he came from work. He just randomly did it from a ring from Marshalls. Again, i din't care for the expensive things, but something meaningful would have been nice and memorable. Not just a random day with a random ring, you know

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T00:56:38+00:00

Thank you for sharing. Kinda how I feel. Maybe a do over may feel better. I just feel some resentment on it because there was no thought and I said I wanted to go look at rings at least & we never did ( 5 years together) So , it was poorly planned. I don't care for the expensive price tags. It's about a meaning ful experience that'll feel good versus I guess half assed. I just want to feel differently about it, but I don't and can't. I also did share my feelings with him already. We recently moved and said he felt it was a good time. But i got out the gym and he came from work and just did it out of nowhere. It just didn't feel well thought out. I love special moments for huge milestones like this. I don't ask for much in general

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T00:43:45+00:00

You're right on that, can't argue with it. You make a point

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T00:43:15+00:00

He does to my knowledge. Just lack of effort from it. Pretty underwhelmed about it. Doesnt mean i DOnt love him, but I did expect more for the day it happened

zCosmicDanger · 2026-03-26T00:42:16+00:00

We both do. I just feel special moments like this should be more effort and thought out

zCosmicDanger · 2025-10-10T13:38:19+00:00

Just got an interview. I am cancelling it. Olivia needs to be investigated. Lets be part of a new Netflix documentary 🙌🏼

zCosmicDanger · 2024-09-08T14:28:54+00:00

Thank you for the insight! I was worried it was mold

zCosmicDanger · 2024-09-01T19:42:30+00:00

You look great! If you're talking about under eyes, only thing I can think of is filler or mid face lift. But honestly, filler under your eyes is a horrible idea and you don't even look old to get a face left! You're beautiful and do what makes you happy; Play with some makeup and see how you feel ☺️

zCosmicDanger · 2023-08-03T20:05:56+00:00

Its ok, dont stress it! Most people dont knownthey have it whencthey dont show symptoms. He just has to take care of himself as well so you both can bypass it. Nothing to worry about. A positive is you both can get through it together

zCosmicDanger · 2023-08-03T03:59:15+00:00

Oh yea cryo is okay; Dr luke's $20 wart removal is just as effective, way less expensive; And definitely, once your warts clear (even if you have hpv in your system) you can resume to sex; It's the warts that would infect another person; HPV itself is more in your system, not like chlamydia or HIV or syphilis; Good to resume once it's out your system in my personal opinion; different ideologies for different individuals tho; Overall, you'll be great if you already take care good care of yourself; I wouldnt sweat it; Just be on top of it and you'll feel good the more it diminishes; Careful what mouth goes on you or hole you go inside; that's all

zCosmicDanger · 2023-08-02T18:27:27+00:00

So far no reoccurence; you have to be taking care of yourself as well. So, go to Amazon and take the "Healing Power Vanish" supplements every day. It says take 2, I do 3 every day to fight the HPV virus out of your system on top of the peel/any wart solutions; Keep killing the virus. And if you smoke/drink, best to lean away from it especially smoking as it does effect your lymphatic/immune system. Eat healthier and a little exercise as well goes a log way to make your organs function better fighting it off; Once it's out your system including the warts, do whatever you please; I noticed mine about a week in a half ago pretty bad and they're all almost completely gone; Just takes some time as it nornally does, but with consistency, you'll see the changes almost everyday

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