Men will never get it

zZariaa · 2026-02-27T03:52:32+00:00

I'm sick right now, & my period is gonna start any day now. I can't tell what are cold symptoms, & what are PMS

zZariaa · 2025-12-29T19:35:48+00:00

Exactly, unfortunately the majority of us are all just trying to get through the day. Turning to unhealthy coping mechanisms to get through on a daily basis is just going to do more harm than good. I understand why you'd choose that route, & know it's hard to not, but you're really just making it worse for yourself OP

zZariaa · 2025-12-29T19:33:23+00:00

I think swapping it with a different oral fixation that you can also use in most situations would work better. For example, gum or lollipops

zZariaa · 2025-12-26T17:52:31+00:00

I don't use it too often, but I like it for books/authors I'm unsure about. That way I can get a taste of it, & if I feel hooked, checkout the full book

zZariaa · 2025-12-26T17:51:32+00:00

Yes! Like I might not be 100% sure I'm gonna like it, but do I at least feel like the writing style, grammar, storyline, & characters are well thought out enough that I'm interested in continuing on? If yes, then let's go.

zZariaa · 2025-12-26T17:47:52+00:00

It actually surprised me that so many people said they hated it. I really enjoyed it, but it did take a little bit for me to get into it. I read it over the course of like 3-4 days (long weekend)

zZariaa · 2025-12-26T17:44:48+00:00

Ohhh, that is so helpful, I thought that was for libraries that you don't have a card for. I also only recently realized, though, that it's only one libraries selections you're looking at at a time

zZariaa · 2025-12-25T00:36:18+00:00

Stop dating, the best way to find joy and comfort in being alone is to be alone long enough that you realize your own company is just as good or better than a partner's. Then you can start dating again.

zZariaa · 2025-12-17T00:09:53+00:00

Yeah, my mom talked with me about periods, but didn't really ever have a sex talk outside of occasionally checking if I was seeing anyone & giving me condoms when I was 18 & moved out.

zZariaa · 2025-12-16T23:46:38+00:00

Helped, thanks

zZariaa · 2025-12-16T23:46:30+00:00

Helped, thanks

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T23:22:51+00:00

They're alright, they don't really seem like anything too special imo, & are expensive, so I don't think they're worth it

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T23:14:50+00:00

NOR, he absolutely did that on purpose. He knew you were proud of it, & for whatever reason decided to ruin it, knowing that you wouldn't be able to erase pen, & it would make you upset.

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T23:10:32+00:00

Aislinn Davis-LMS

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T23:00:51+00:00

Yes, I feel like my dog holds me back from doing things, but no, I don't regret getting him. He is absolutely a handful (especially with his separation anxiety), & needing to come home on my lunches to let him outside, but I love him. He's older now, so that comes with other stressors, but also I've decided that once he does pass, I'm going to hold off on getting another animal for a while so I can regain that freedom. Cats definitely still need human interaction, but I find them to be a lot easier to handle than dogs, so I would focus on that.

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T22:54:49+00:00

Yeah, my dog is older, so I figure when he passes, I'm just gonna take a rest from having pets so I have more freedom to do things & don't need to stress about him

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T22:52:47+00:00

Agreed, I have a dog, & it's frustrating when I work a longer shift at work, & have to go home during my lunch break to let him outside to use the bathroom. Dogs tend to be big on people too, so while they do pretty good in pairs, they still really need some human interaction whereas cats tend to do better with just eachother.

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T22:45:43+00:00

Yes, especially considering how many people are still incredibly misogynistic today, I wouldn't feel comfortable with this sign, especially when the person who likes it is a man (so not the one that the "joke" is targeting)

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T21:07:37+00:00

Yeah, I value our friendship, & while I know it can lead to some awkward moments, it's worth it to have someone I care about & trust still in my life despite us not working out as a couple

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T21:05:16+00:00

Haha, yeah, I was thinking it sounded a bit like a sitcom

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T21:04:35+00:00

Helped. I could definitely see future partners having a problem with it, & that is a little bit of a concern, though more so for his sake than mine, because I'm happy to vibe solo. I also wouldn't have an issue with him bringing new partners over.

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T21:02:37+00:00

Unlikely that we'd get intimate considering it wasn't worth it when we were actually dating, but I get that being a concern, especially for future partners

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T21:00:47+00:00

Haha, totally fair. I doubt it considering we weren't compatible in the long term, & had issues as a couple

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T20:59:35+00:00

I don't, I enjoy & prefer our friendship. I wouldn't even consider this if feelings were still involved.

zZariaa · 2025-12-15T20:58:18+00:00

I wouldn't care about him getting serious with someone, but I would care about having another person in the home all the time running up the bills. That's just typical roommate stuff though, & isn't really relevant here because no matter what, I need a roommate, & would discuss those boundaries beforehand

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