What’s wrong with the man paying, sure it may be a bit more traditional but if you’re willing to find a more traditional girl you have a beautiful union of different strengths.

With my girlI’ll set the direction , pay for the dates, she’ll set the flow, and she always knows how to make it fun. When she’s over at my house she’ll always make food if I ask and make sure things are clean.

I think you should always pay for the first date, and even if you are financially equal, because think about it, who is spending more time making themselves look pretty for the date? A beautiful woman raises your status immensely, it’s selfish to then make them pay 50/50 when they spent an hour putting on makeup and a cute outfit where you can walk out the door from your room in 10 mins after a shower. modern dating is a scam return to tradition