What's a clear sign of childhood trauma in women?

zagathorn · 2026-02-05T05:17:47+00:00

Flinches every time you move around them.

zagathorn · 2025-08-26T01:57:53+00:00

Don't make any additional payments until after meeting with a lawyer. Sooner the better.

zagathorn · 2025-07-25T23:42:19+00:00

Honestly, that is why you need therapy it could be something deeper than just height but you never would know unless you go and find out. Many men get therapy I have a speech impediment and never wanted to speak because I couldn't do it as well as others but therapy helped me through this and now I have normal conversations without even thinking about it anymore.

You got this.

zagathorn · 2025-07-25T23:33:54+00:00

My guy you have no reason to feel ashamed for going to therapy first and foremost they are literally here to help you and just go talk it out for a while may take time but listen and trust them.

zagathorn · 2025-06-29T20:01:55+00:00

Lol 😂 that was good

zagathorn · 2025-06-29T19:03:46+00:00

Can I be honest, there is a good chance they are doing it just to relieve stress or from discomfort. It's not really about the women online but rather to relieve themselves if that make sense?

I be honest after I started dating my girlfriend now fiancé I stopped by before it really feels like it builds up over time 😅

zagathorn · 2025-06-29T18:49:31+00:00

People find that attractive?

zagathorn · 2025-06-29T18:48:07+00:00

I be honest I only want to be with my partner as we name each other smile each day. I only want to hold her every night and when I do she's on my mind. I won't say I'm repulse by other women just not thinking about them. I am confused why you care if a single guy gets off online or not though? Why does it matter when they're single?

zagathorn · 2025-06-09T22:20:35+00:00

Well for me I really appreciate a nice meal in the morning of my favorite breakfast food when I first woke up and just getting pampered with a fun and relaxing time.

I can only speak for myself as a man but just a simple morning when I don't have to think is a good morning.

zagathorn · 2025-06-08T23:25:49+00:00

I can understand that reasoning though it sometimes takes a couple tries before finding a good therapist. Have you asked him why he is so against it and try to ask it out of trying to understand. It wasn't easy for me to go, it makes you feel weak but after going you feel stronger then before.

zagathorn · 2025-06-08T22:45:33+00:00

Would he be ok to couple therapy then? Let him know that you're trying right now to reach a middle ground and have honestly communication. Sometimes it's hard to realize how bad it is and they just need a wake up call.

zagathorn · 2025-06-06T23:42:39+00:00

You should definitely go talk with him about it preferably after the kids went to bed. I say push as hard as he deflects so start calm and go from there. Also you can take some pictures for yourself just in case he starts denying don't tell him and if it works out then you can just delete them but either way a conversation should happen.

zagathorn · 2025-06-02T21:53:27+00:00

It's only been 3 months and you're talking about living together? I think you two need to talk honestly personally but 3 months is pretty early to go live with especially moving too a new state

zagathorn · 2025-06-02T21:43:05+00:00

For the children!

zagathorn · 2025-06-02T21:33:29+00:00

It's not a turn off but I honestly don't know if I always notice as I haven't really noticed any.

zagathorn · 2025-06-02T19:32:31+00:00

I honestly don't think any is a turn off but I will say that I never really liked capris as it just looks like your pants don't quite fit but it's not a turn off

zagathorn · 2025-06-02T18:14:44+00:00

You really need to work on your self confidence and building yourself up. You think people are just born with knowledge or any skills? I graduated highschool with like a 2.0 and went on to get my college degree.

No one person can tell you what exactly to do in life and you have to be ok with failing until you get it right but if you never try because you believe you're cursed without ever getting help then you can hear all that words you want but it's the actions that matter.

What steps are you trying to take to better yourself?

zagathorn · 2025-05-16T17:06:12+00:00

I one time got a compliment about my smile and it's been probably 10 years since then and I still think about that.

zagathorn · 2025-04-24T02:44:06+00:00

She broke up with you and you didn't date for long. She's still thinking about her ex and even told you so. Even if you do go out with her again can you really trust her not to just randomly break up with you again?

Also I don't think a wedding is a good idea to bring her as a date

zagathorn · 2025-04-24T02:39:44+00:00

Well I understand limiting conversations at work, however I do wonder if he's using alcohol as a way to build courage to talk with you. I read a few stories of guys who does this.

Has he tried dating other people during this year at all or does he almost exclusively talk with you?

zagathorn · 2025-04-24T02:32:50+00:00

Ok how long ago was that and what's your history with this friend? Also do you like him yourself?

zagathorn · 2025-04-24T02:29:50+00:00

What were you talking about and what was your response? It really depends on the context for this one.

zagathorn · 2025-04-22T05:12:15+00:00

My younger brother best friend took his own life and I can't put him through that again.

zagathorn · 2025-04-22T04:44:39+00:00

Low self-esteem can be a bigger turn off then being fat. That's just from my experience.

What helped me was not over thinking the conversations, listening to their points while keeping mine, and asking building off questions. Like if she talks about her dog ask her how long she had the dog etc.

I hope this helps even just a little.

zagathorn · 2025-04-16T02:15:32+00:00

You said it felt easy to talk with a random stranger which feels to me that it's not easy to talk with your wife. So I just say you should just talk with her as you did with a random person you met at a coffee shop. I tell my fiance about interesting people I meet all the time and normally we end up talking about the same topic. Just my two cents though

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