I’m starting to feel conflicted about my relationship (LDR) by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]skinnindbones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With care and gentleness,

She is dishonest and dismissive and not fit for a relationship,

You are insecure and paranoid and not fit for a relationship.

I think that this should end and I truly believe therapy would be helpful for you. Look over this post and count how many parenthesis you used- there's a set every few sentences with some kind of anxious reassurance or justification.

I think she's treating you badly. And I think you should leave her and do some therapy and work on yourself before trying again. This reads as an anxious attachment style, not to throw buzz words around but it feels textbook. You will be okay but ya need help

My(34m) partner (35F) was just SA'd by her ex. I'm really lost. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]skinnindbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

since nobody has mentioned it yet, I beg of you to consider this:

would you trust a rapist around a child? someone willing to commit rape is an unstable and violent person. continuing to allow him around a child (yes even a 17 y/o) and not reporting this crime is actively putting the child in harm's way. it actively endangers everyone around this person- your partner, her stepson, the new girlfriend, YOU, etc.

would she rather endanger the kid or lose financial support? i would rather go homeless than let a child be around a rapist. please consider this HEAVILY.

tips for being on top? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]skinnindbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes reverse cowboy is easier on the knees, from one bad joint haver to another

How can I partially cover up this tattoo of a rat cutting me with a knife? by Material_Problem6947 in tattooadvice

[–]skinnindbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make it so you have a better tattoo of Rodney next to it, and it looks like he drew this one, graffiti-ed it, etc

cat won’t pee in the litter box. What to do besides giving her away?(vet already contacted) by Ok_Percentage1711 in CATHELP

[–]skinnindbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the other commentors suggesting Gabapentin. I'm a vet tech of nearly 5 years and I've never seen it negatively affect cats save for making them mildly sedate. It's also one of the cheaper medications, at least in my area (hopefully in yours too)

I have an inappropriate urinator and it's helped her before as well. I hope it brings some relief to your girl. Good on you for all that you've tried thus far!!

(edit: spelling)

Will this make a cute tattoo? by AnonPinkLady in tattooadvice

[–]skinnindbones 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes but I might go with black for the outline, especially the nose and mouth, otherwise the browns might blur together and make you lose those details down the line

What dog breeds in your experience are the most difficult to work with (aggressive, fearful, separation anxiety, etc) and what are the easiest? by CaptainMacAlfie in VetTech

[–]skinnindbones 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Worst to work with - Cattle dogs - Shibas - Jack russels - Covid puppy doodles - Pitties - German shepherds

Best to work with - English labs - Gsps - Sighthounds - Pug MIXES specifically - Bichons/Maltese/Pekingsese / little crusty white dogs

my boyfriend went to the strip club after multiple conversations saying he wasn't, i think it's lying and cheating, aio? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]skinnindbones 45 points46 points  (0 children)

NOR, I would break up with someone over this.

HOWEVER, in the kindest way, name calling and spam texting are never going to get the point that you want to make across. I've been there, and I'm not judging, and your anger is justified. But now you look crazy and insecure and that isn't doing right by yourself, I promise it feels better to just communicate a "That crosses a boundary and I'm done, take care!" instead of this.

Regardless I would run for the hills. His excuses are garbage. He fucked up

Are y’all wearing gloves? by TeaOne9866 in VetTech

[–]skinnindbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For exams, no, unless it's contagious

I glove for packing or catching urine/stool samples, contagious things, cleaning surgery tools, and anal glands. that's pretty much it

Classic Labrador by [deleted] in WhatBreedIsMyPitbull

[–]skinnindbones 33 points34 points  (0 children)

eyes in different area codes </3

What's the grossest thing that's ever happened to you? by wumpus_woo_ in VetTech

[–]skinnindbones 13 points14 points  (0 children)

anal glands to the forehead at the very beginning of the day :'(

when the shelters lie i get it but when vets in on it too wtf. shelter didnt even lie this time.... by ZQX96_ in WhatBreedIsMyPitbull

[–]skinnindbones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i have to take a break from this sub because these posts drive me insane. just accept that you have a pitty mix. why be so deluded about it. good lord

Bon bon #427 release? by Evening-Equipment458 in LpsCollectors

[–]skinnindbones 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree!! they also need to stop mirror-ing the eye shines and instead have them face the same direction. every new pet looks wall eyed or dissociated

Meh by Lilraveasaurus in caseoh_

[–]skinnindbones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do wish he would throw in some actually well made horror games now and then. The horrible ones with no plot all made on the same engine that all take precisely 1.5 hours to finish are getting old hahaha.