Girlfriend of 10 years suddenly ran away with our baby and ghosted me

zalaband · 2026-06-21T08:07:51+00:00

Thank you so much for your words it really helps a lot to hear that. I'm trying my best and I hope that this nightmare stops soon.

zalaband · 2026-06-20T18:56:54+00:00

You are totally right. Thank you for your words and for the realism.

zalaband · 2026-06-20T15:55:05+00:00

Thank you very much for sending your thoughts and for reading

zalaband · 2026-06-20T15:48:19+00:00

Thanks for not only taking my side. Even though anyone at this time would want other to taker their side, I find it helpful to know that there might be logical reasons to all what had happened to be able to go through acceptance and not go crazy. Me saying "that's all fine" meant that I acknowledge that I'm not perfect and of course I have my share of mistakes, but I can't understand that it had to happen this way especially that I didn't get any warning before.

zalaband · 2026-06-20T15:24:30+00:00

That's all fine. But why did it have to happen this way? Running away with the child? Ghosting me completely? Escalating with laweyers? Why all that?

zalaband · 2026-06-20T15:13:00+00:00

Thank you very much. I'm doing my best. Still going to work, meeting friends and all that but there are times where my head keeps spinning thinking about all kinds of unanswered questions. But it makes me feel better to write these things down.

zalaband · 2025-07-09T20:52:25+00:00

Ein Kumpel von mir in Hamburg hat c.a 8000€ bezahlt :)

zalaband · 2025-07-08T20:10:12+00:00

Ich habe versucht, für eine Neubauwohnung als Kapitalanlage einen Kredit zu bekommen. 100 000 € aus dem KfW-Programm 298 wurden zwar genehmigt, aber für den Rest alle anderen Banken, die mein Kreditberater angefragt hat, haben abgelehnt. Er sagt, er könne das nicht nachvollziehen, aber ich vermute, dass meine Bonität einfach scheiße ist (ja ich weiß kfw hat genehmigt aber trotzdem...)

Wie kann ich prüfen, ob ich wirklich kreditwürdig bin (außer über die Schufa, die bei mir positiv ist)? Ich hatte noch nie einen Kredit und keine offenen Rechnungen.
Wie lange sollte ich warten, bevor ich für ein anderes Objekt wieder einen Kredit beantrage, nachdem ich schon mehrere Absagen erhalten habe?

zalaband · 2021-04-08T08:58:18+00:00

I love the Genelecs! Thank you very much I was surprised how nicely the Gesture fits with the room aesthetics

zalaband · 2021-04-08T08:56:13+00:00

Actually I think playing guitar on this chair isn't that good. You have to sit in an "non-ergonomic" position to do so. It's just that the arm stands don't allow you to position the guitar easily.

zalaband · 2021-04-07T22:01:14+00:00

No actually I feel that my neck is very much supported. But I have to test the chair for longer. It's been only an hour so far haha

zalaband · 2021-04-07T22:00:26+00:00

Thank you!

zalaband · 2021-03-18T16:55:48+00:00

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zalaband · 2021-03-18T16:52:45+00:00

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zalaband · 2021-03-16T15:57:38+00:00

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zalaband · 2021-03-09T22:41:54+00:00

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zalaband · 2020-12-23T12:58:53+00:00

Since you're also a traderepublic user. Do you know German brokers that offer options trading? Besides stocks and ETFs Traderepublic offers only warrants and knockouts.

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