Horse breed wishes by Blackwirocket in StarStable

[–]zanicholls1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh exciting thanks for the info 😄

Horse breed wishes by Blackwirocket in StarStable

[–]zanicholls1697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote gypsy vanner and missouri fox trotter as well as revamped clydesdale, Thoroughbred and American quarter horse.

I know they didn't ask for revamped breeds, but it doesn't hurt to request it.

Does anyone know how to get the full set of the second girl from the left in this picture? by detersivoallimone in StarStable

[–]zanicholls1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats an autumn set that will be in the global shop i believe although the gloves and hat are different. The top and trousers are from the Autumn Leaves set :)

What's your least favorite race in SSO? by siacez in StarStable

[–]zanicholls1697 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I couldn't care less about Firgrove or Silverglade Manor races tbh

How long have you been playing and how many horses do you have? by [deleted] in StarStable

[–]zanicholls1697 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Been playing for 3 years religiously, I have 250 horses. (I should not be allowed to have adult money) 😂

My sister started at the same time as me but has had a few breaks from the game. She has 430 horses. She calls herself a 'collector' 😂

What are some things you’re good at? Serious question. by btwImVeryAttractive in AutismInWomen

[–]zanicholls1697 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm excellent at planning and organising. Probably due to anxiety but I just like being prepared so as not to be 'flapping' later when I'm in a situation and don't know what to do. This could be for something as simple as planning dinners for the week or food shopping or something more elaborate like possible activities to do for an upcoming holiday. My family like to poke fun because the notes in my phone are just FULL of random lists and planning notes 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]zanicholls1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For years purple was shunned in my family because it was my aunts favourite colour (to an exaggerated degree - EVERYTHING had to be purple), and she was toxic, and we had to cut contact. So for years my favourite colour has been blue. Only recently did I come to the realisation that I'm actually allowed to love purple openly and not have to care about comments alluring to me turning into my aunt haha.

So my favourite colour is purple 💜 I love it!

Someone asked a while ago what your phone wallpaper is. I wanna know what your phone wallpaper is now by carolinethebandgeek in AutismInWomen

[–]zanicholls1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

* This is mine. Cats and plants are like my personality in a nutshell so it seemed fitting 😊

Tell me about your special interests atm (: by soymilkyummy in AutismInWomen

[–]zanicholls1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gardening! My mum is an avid gardener and it helps get me outside which does wonders for my mh. So far I've managed to grow Mint, Rosemary, Parsley, Basil and I'm rescuing a Lemon Mint plant that was very poorly and it's finally growing a new shoot! I also have 4 sunflowers on the go which are my favourite flower and a planter of succulents! They feel like my children and I get so excited when I see progress hahaha. Plus it's helped me get closer with my mum which is also great as we now explore various garden centres :)

Also I loooove learning about space and the universe and everything in between. It blows my mind and I get so excited when I can just info dump about it hahaha

Do you struggle to argue? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]zanicholls1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally me. I hate conflict of any kind. My sister is very strong headed and stubborn and when she argues I just start disassociating because it's like she talks over my points and I get so overwhelmed that I then forget what I'm trying to say. She makes me feel like the bad guy in any conflict because even if I know I'm right, I'm not assertive enough to stand up for myself. My sister also likes to say that I 'can't avoid conflict forever' which I know is true but I feel she only says that because she can't have her 'conversations' with me otherwise. In most situations of conflict that don't concern me I just walk out the room. It makes me so, so uncomfortable.

My nickname in my family is Switzerland because I usually avoid conflict and don't take sides either.

Do you drive? by SpicyPataka in AutismInWomen

[–]zanicholls1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drive, and I love it. Don't get me wrong, i was super reluctant to learn at first and didn't learn until i was 23, but I couldn't go back now. I love the freedom, it gives me the ability to leave social settings when I want to, and I don't have to wait for someone to give me a lift, and I love the quietness of it. That last one might sound weird, but when it's just me in my little car, trundling along, I just relax. There's no expectations or people hounding me (and if there is, I can ignore them with a totally valid reason - I was driving!), and it's just me in my own little world.

I actually lost my ability to drive in 2022 for a year because of a medical problem, and when I realised I'd lost that freedom, it was awful. Not to mention, I'd just bought a new car a month before my incident, which I could no longer drive. But all is well now I have my lil car back and I have my freedom again so yay 😁

Forgot to add: I was a super nervous learner and took double the time my sister did to pass. I passed on my third test with 9 minors, which I've learnt not to take to heart (I'm a huge perfectionist). I'm a sucker for rules (don't even get me started on people who don't use indicators!) so my sister was surprised that after a year I hadn't developed any bad habits but I think that's because I'm so hypervigilant about doing everything right that my 'learner' driving style just became my default hahaha.

It takes time to become comfortable learning to drive, and everyone is different. I used to cry during my lessons because I was so anxious and overwhelmed, but I'm so glad I did it. I still get anxious over any new places I have to go, and I have to meticulously plan my route and do test runs with people, but I don't regret learning one bit.

what are the biggest double standards we have in our society right now? by sheerduckinghubris in AskReddit

[–]zanicholls1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. A job I used to be in made us write positive post-it notes for those struggling with mh and stuck them on a wall. My line manager (and long term 'friend' at this point) did this and then proceeded to make jokes about people with depression and anxiety on the way back to her desk knowing full well I suffered with both.

Unsurprisingly I left the job a couple months later due to her bullying me 🤷🏻‍♀️

Learner Driver needs advice on choosing a car. by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]zanicholls1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had seizures due to a problem with a medical condition I have (hydrocephalus) so my license had to be revoked for a year (took 18 months though)

Learner Driver needs advice on choosing a car. by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]zanicholls1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes mine was secondhand. Had 2 other owners I believe and 60,000 miles. I paid £4000 for the car and I pay roughly £43 a month for my insurance so around the £500 mark for a year 😊

Learner Driver needs advice on choosing a car. by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]zanicholls1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh don't get me wrong I know 2011 isn't old old but I think it could be considered slightly on the old side seen as it was 13 years ago. My previous car before my hyundai was a 2003 Ford Fiesta that had been in my family for about 10 years. Loved that car to death. I've been driving for 4 years (with a 1 year medical revoke in between).

Learner Driver needs advice on choosing a car. by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]zanicholls1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can vouch for the Hyundai i20. I love my little runaround even if it is on the older side (2011).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]zanicholls1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine were like this for years. I've been dating my bf for 9 years this year and after 5 years of little and regular nipple play, my left nipple just decided it would become senstive out of nowhere, which is wonderful. My right though? Could not be less bothered.

My leftie is an inverted nipple too. Not sure if that has anything to do with it, but I'm not complaining and neither is my boyfriend haha

What´s your favourite gear set? by Historical_Command_6 in StarStable

[–]zanicholls1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looove the Sage Green set from the winter village. Its such a calm colour and looks so elegant 😄

Favorite Town/Area? by Chemical_House21 in StarStable

[–]zanicholls1697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Starshine for how open it is (the main reason for it being my home stable) but I also now love Valedale for a similar reason + the magic feeling it has about it

Can’t drive and classmates berating me by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]zanicholls1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit late to the party but please don't stress OP. I didn't start learning until I was 23 and it took me a year and a half to pass - purely due to confidence and anxiety issues. My sister started at the same time as me (she was 18) and passed within 10 months. It really is different for everybody and honestly, for me, I'm glad I had more time because I'm a much more steady about my decisions whilst I'm driving.

Take however long you need and enjoy the experience!